#61: How to live out the gospel of Easter year-round
03/30/21 • 22 min
How is the gospel of grace the antidote to doing more, living legalistically, and telling yourself to get it together? How can you live out the gospel of Easter year-round? What would it look like to not have to do more, follow all the rules, and exert all your willpower?
In this episode, you’ll learn the beauty of the one true gospel of grace, three false gospels you may live under instead of the gospel of grace, and how to live out the gospel in real life.
God’s gospel of grace says God is perfect and holy. That we are sinners. And that God sent His Son Jesus to pay the wage of our sin by dying on the cross. The gospel says God saves those who put their trust in His Son Jesus Christ.
Simple.
Free.
Relational.
Hope-giving and grace-abounding.
Here are the top 3 false gospels try-hard girls believe:
One: The gospel of doing more and trying harderThe gospel of doing more and trying harder preaches that you must perform to earn your keep, your spot, and God’s love. It says your real issue isn’t sin, but that you aren’t trying hard enough.
The antidote to the Do More/Try Harder gospel is to receive the one true gospel of grace and worship Jesus for what He has already done.
Two: The gospel of rule-followingThe gospel of rule-following preaches that you must meet a list of shoulds, demands, and expectations you’ve set for yourself or that others have hoisted upon you.
You’ve created internal, mental lists of all the things Good Moms or Good Daughters or Good Christians do and measure yourself by how close you were able to follow these best practices to be the Best Person You Can Be, instead of The Worst you desperately hope to avoid.
Some of the rules you’ve told yourself to follow are found in the Bible, like, Go and make disciples; care for the orphan and widow, and practice hospitality
Which makes them feel extra heavy. Jesus said His yoke is easy and His burden is light, yet your heart feels anything but.
This gospel tells you your real issue isn’t your lost-ness and sin, but that your imperfections can be cured by following the rules.
The antidote to the rule-following gospel is to ask one question then stay in context.
Start by asking yourself, “Jesus, what do you want me to do right now?” When you obey, remember that your context -- your backdrop -- -- your reality -- is being in a relationship with Jesus.
For every command in the Bible, the author assumes you are following Jesus, who is the source of your strength.
The third and final popular gospel of try-hard girls is the gospel of willpower.The gospel of willpower preaches that the key to happiness and love and staying in God’s good graces is to just stop doing the problem behavior and to start doing what’s right by sheer force of will. It tells you that your real issue isn’t sin, but a lack of self-control.
The antidote to the willpower gospel is to surrender to the truth that you don’t have the self-control you need, but you do have the cross.
Our souls—the ones that yell at our kids, blame our spouse, talk snarkily about others, and relentlessly compare—need to hear these simple words: Jesus said: “It is finished,” and Paul wrote: “God began doing a good work in you. And he will continue it until it is finished when Jesus Christ comes again.”
Finishing is God’s job.
Soooooo.... how can you live out the gospel of grace in your real life?The real gospel isn’t giving God your resume of how hard you’ve tried so you can earn His favor. The real gospel is based on Jesus and what He’s already done.
The real gospel isn’t about following every command outlined in the Bible or even in your own head so you can be perfect. The real gospel is Jesus is perfect and His righteousness becomes your righteousness.
The real gospel isn’t about telling yourself that you can stop sinning and start being good once you really focus. The real gospel is based solely on the cross and not promises you make to yourself.
Key Quotes- You do not need to try harder; you can sit down on the inside, knowing your God knows exactly what you need and He is working hard on your behalf.
- You do not need to follow the rules; you can simply follow the Shepherd who knows exactly what pace to set and where to take you.
- You do not need more determination; you can rest in what your Deliverer has already done.
- The antidote to the willpower gospel is to surrender to the truth ...
How is the gospel of grace the antidote to doing more, living legalistically, and telling yourself to get it together? How can you live out the gospel of Easter year-round? What would it look like to not have to do more, follow all the rules, and exert all your willpower?
In this episode, you’ll learn the beauty of the one true gospel of grace, three false gospels you may live under instead of the gospel of grace, and how to live out the gospel in real life.
God’s gospel of grace says God is perfect and holy. That we are sinners. And that God sent His Son Jesus to pay the wage of our sin by dying on the cross. The gospel says God saves those who put their trust in His Son Jesus Christ.
Simple.
Free.
Relational.
Hope-giving and grace-abounding.
Here are the top 3 false gospels try-hard girls believe:
One: The gospel of doing more and trying harderThe gospel of doing more and trying harder preaches that you must perform to earn your keep, your spot, and God’s love. It says your real issue isn’t sin, but that you aren’t trying hard enough.
The antidote to the Do More/Try Harder gospel is to receive the one true gospel of grace and worship Jesus for what He has already done.
Two: The gospel of rule-followingThe gospel of rule-following preaches that you must meet a list of shoulds, demands, and expectations you’ve set for yourself or that others have hoisted upon you.
You’ve created internal, mental lists of all the things Good Moms or Good Daughters or Good Christians do and measure yourself by how close you were able to follow these best practices to be the Best Person You Can Be, instead of The Worst you desperately hope to avoid.
Some of the rules you’ve told yourself to follow are found in the Bible, like, Go and make disciples; care for the orphan and widow, and practice hospitality
Which makes them feel extra heavy. Jesus said His yoke is easy and His burden is light, yet your heart feels anything but.
This gospel tells you your real issue isn’t your lost-ness and sin, but that your imperfections can be cured by following the rules.
The antidote to the rule-following gospel is to ask one question then stay in context.
Start by asking yourself, “Jesus, what do you want me to do right now?” When you obey, remember that your context -- your backdrop -- -- your reality -- is being in a relationship with Jesus.
For every command in the Bible, the author assumes you are following Jesus, who is the source of your strength.
The third and final popular gospel of try-hard girls is the gospel of willpower.The gospel of willpower preaches that the key to happiness and love and staying in God’s good graces is to just stop doing the problem behavior and to start doing what’s right by sheer force of will. It tells you that your real issue isn’t sin, but a lack of self-control.
The antidote to the willpower gospel is to surrender to the truth that you don’t have the self-control you need, but you do have the cross.
Our souls—the ones that yell at our kids, blame our spouse, talk snarkily about others, and relentlessly compare—need to hear these simple words: Jesus said: “It is finished,” and Paul wrote: “God began doing a good work in you. And he will continue it until it is finished when Jesus Christ comes again.”
Finishing is God’s job.
Soooooo.... how can you live out the gospel of grace in your real life?The real gospel isn’t giving God your resume of how hard you’ve tried so you can earn His favor. The real gospel is based on Jesus and what He’s already done.
The real gospel isn’t about following every command outlined in the Bible or even in your own head so you can be perfect. The real gospel is Jesus is perfect and His righteousness becomes your righteousness.
The real gospel isn’t about telling yourself that you can stop sinning and start being good once you really focus. The real gospel is based solely on the cross and not promises you make to yourself.
Key Quotes- You do not need to try harder; you can sit down on the inside, knowing your God knows exactly what you need and He is working hard on your behalf.
- You do not need to follow the rules; you can simply follow the Shepherd who knows exactly what pace to set and where to take you.
- You do not need more determination; you can rest in what your Deliverer has already done.
- The antidote to the willpower gospel is to surrender to the truth ...
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#60: The Enneagram + Conflict || Part 1: The Essentials with Jenn Whitmer
What is conflict exactly, and how do you know when it’s resolved? Are there specific ways each Enneagram type handles hard conversations and approaches conflict?
In this episode, speaker, writer, and Enneagram Coach Jenn Whitmer joins the show. We go in-depth about how to handle hard conversations and conflict using the Enneagram.
Jenn shares what conflict is, how you know when it’s resolved, the five steps of genuine reconciliation, and the three major buckets each Enneagram type uses to approach conflict.
So y’all, this interview was so good that I split it into 2 episodes. In this episode, you’ll learn the basics of conflict and the three ways all Enneagram types handle conflict. In Episode #62, we’ll break down conflict type-by-type. In other words, today we’re laying a solid foundation so when you listen again in two weeks you’ll have a greater depth of understanding of conflict and personality type.
I love how Jenn shared with us what each coping style does well in conflict, what trips up each style, and how each style can improve in resolving conflict, and how she shared the three times it’s important to have a hard conversation.
Key Quotes- “How you handle conflict will either propel you forward as a fantastic leader or will damage your leadership abilities.” - Jenn Whitmer
- “We can create cultures of peace and love and care and efficiency one conflict at a time.” - Jenn Whitmer
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- “We are actually feeling beings who think and all decisions, and all problems come through our emotions.” - Jenn Whitmer
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Jenn helps teams and leaders solve conflict and personality clashes. She speaks, writes, and coaches about hard topics with infectious joy. Through working with Jenn, people improve communication, work through conflict, and build self-awareness with the Enneagram. She asks big questions that lead to big dreams and big ideas and big living. Usually, that means laughing.
Jenn has graduate certificates in music education, theology, and leadership along with a Master of Arts in communication and culture from Webster University and certification as an Enneagram coach.
Jenn lives in St. Louis, Missouri, with her husband, Michael, their four kids, and a cat that puts up with them all.
Here’s how to connect with Jenn Here’s how to connect with Jill- Website
- GraceInRealLifePodcast.com
- Facebook group
- Facebook page
- Subscribe to Jill’s weekly “the good + the grace” email
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#62: The Enneagram + Conflict || Part 2: Diving Deep Into Your Type with Jenn Whitmer
How does your Enneagram type handle conflict? Where does your type get stuck in conflict? What do you need to know about your Enneagram type when you find yourself in conflict?
In this interview, speaker, writer, and Enneagram Coach Jenn Whitmer breaks down conflict and the Enneagram, going type-by-type about where each Enneagram type struggles, shines, and what would serve us well to remember.
She tells us:
- what each Enneagram brings to the table in conflict
- where each type struggles
- and how each type can practically handle conflict and hard conversations better.
Jenn reframes conflict as an opportunity and reminds us it’s really a heart posture of humility and community so we can tackle the issue out there.
To skip to a type:- Type Eight: 3:35
- Type Nine: 7:15
- Type One: 10:52
- Type Two: 14:54
- Type Three: 18:43
- Type Four: 21:59
- Type Five: 25:50
- Type Six: 29:10
- Type Seven: 33:11
- “Vulnerability is actually a strength. It takes a lot of strength and trust to expose your heart, but it’s what connects you to people.” - Jenn Whitmer
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- “Conflict is not failure. Conflict is a problem-solving opportunity.” - Jenn Whitmer
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- “Conflict is an opportunity, not a threat.” - Jenn Whitmer
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#60: The Enneagram + Conflict || Part 1: The Essentials with Jenn Whitmer
About Jenn WhitmerJenn helps teams and leaders solve conflict and personality clashes. She speaks, writes, and coaches about hard topics with infectious joy. Through working with Jenn, people improve communication, work through conflict, and build self-awareness with the Enneagram. She asks big questions that lead to big dreams and big ideas and big living. Usually, that means laughing.
Jenn has graduate certificates in music education, theology, and leadership along with a Master of Arts in communication and culture from Webster University and certification as an Enneagram coach.
Jenn lives in St. Louis, Missouri, with her husband, Michael, their four kids, and a cat that puts up with them all.
Here’s how to connect with Jenn Here’s how to connect with Jill- Website
- GraceInRealLifePodcast.com
- Facebook group
- Facebook page
- Subscribe to Jill’s weekly “the good + the grace” email
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