
How to Complain to Your Partner (and Friends) the Right Way feat. Psychologist/Author Guy Winch
09/26/22 • 88 min
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We have another free therapy session with a favorite return guest -- psychologist, author, and speaker Guy Winch! On this episode, we're breaking down complaining from all angles, including the problem with not voicing your complaints to your partner, to how much complaining is too much in a relationship. We're also discussing the most effective way to complain both in relationships and in general life situations (like with a retailer or landlord), how to deal with chronic complainers (whether they're your partner, friend, or parent), and friendships defined by complaining. Plus, we cover how to complain in a funny way and sexual complaints (separate topics lol). Before Guy joins us, we're catching up on one of Rayna's former prospects back in the mix and Ashley's body still being fucked up. Enjoy!
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We have another free therapy session with a favorite return guest -- psychologist, author, and speaker Guy Winch! On this episode, we're breaking down complaining from all angles, including the problem with not voicing your complaints to your partner, to how much complaining is too much in a relationship. We're also discussing the most effective way to complain both in relationships and in general life situations (like with a retailer or landlord), how to deal with chronic complainers (whether they're your partner, friend, or parent), and friendships defined by complaining. Plus, we cover how to complain in a funny way and sexual complaints (separate topics lol). Before Guy joins us, we're catching up on one of Rayna's former prospects back in the mix and Ashley's body still being fucked up. Enjoy!
Follow Guy on Instagram @GuyWinch, listen to his podcast Dear Therapists, and find more on his website.
Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only.
Thank you to our partners this week:
Pretty Litter: Get 20% off your first Pretty Litter order at prettylitter.com/gge.
Helix: Get up to $200 off all mattress orders + 2 free pillows at helixsleep.com/gge.
Nutrafol: Get $15 off your first month’s subscription plus free shipping at nutrafol.com/gge.
Blueland: Go to blueland.com/gge to get 15% off your first order.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Repairing the Mother-Daughter Relationship with Therapist/Author Lori Gottlieb
We are honored to be joined again by psychotherapist and bestselling author Lori Gottlieb to discuss a topic so many can relate to: The mother daughter relationship. Lori expertly and compassionately walks us through how to navigate a strained relationship with a mother (or parent) if you have resentment about your childhood/their parenting, feel like they are critical or competitive with you, are lacking boundaries or the tools to express your feelings to them, or just want a better relationship in general. We are also discussing our relationships with our moms; and before we jump into the topic, we're opening up (maybe too much) about some body stuff, unpacking a spooky situation, and recapping Selling the OC. Enjoy!
Follow Lori on Instagram @lorigottlieb_author, check out her podcast Dear Therapists, and visit her website for more.
Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only.
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Toxic Partners + Dating Your Best Friend feat. Deepti Vempati
DEEPTI IS HERE! We're so excited to have the Love is Blind star and new author join us in studio to spill the tea and inspire us with her self-worth journey. We're talking about what went down with Shake off camera, how her and Kyle finally got together (and why they broke up), her family's feelings on the show, her struggles with insecurity and how she's become the "I choose myself" icon she is today, and more. Before Deepti joins us, we're catching up on Rayna's date, Ashley's rash, and what we've been watching. Enjoy!
Follow Deepti on Instagram @LifeWithDeeps and buy her book I Choose Myself.
Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only.
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