
Bonus: Why men can't be pressured into a relationship
06/27/20 • 61 min
In this *bonus* episode Brittney switches it up a bit and has a solo conversation with Chiedozie Okafor, host of the I Think I Love My Wife Podcast. And just like you’re used to, he’s sharing his honest and transparent perspective on all things dating, sex, and relationships. To give you a truly different male perspective we cover a range of topics that Pops and B talked about in Season 1:
- Dating in your 30s, women’s internal “clock”, and how relationships progress or don’t because of pressure to get married/start a family
- The tangled world of situationships, dating, and courting — how we define each concept and the levels of intentionality that come with those connections
- His experience with celibacy and the fact that guys always want sex
- What vulnerability means to men, why it’s not always shown, and it's relation to honesty
- And how men set boundaries/make it clear to women what they really and how women feel when those "boundaries" are set
In summary Chiedozie essentially details how a man might come to the decision to be in a relationship and the TL;DR is that women can't force or pressure men into a [lasting] relationship.
If you like what you hear don't forget to subscribe and rate GTWP five stars on Apple Podcasts, share our podcast with a friend, and follow us on IG: @girltalkwithpops.
Send feedback to [email protected]
In this *bonus* episode Brittney switches it up a bit and has a solo conversation with Chiedozie Okafor, host of the I Think I Love My Wife Podcast. And just like you’re used to, he’s sharing his honest and transparent perspective on all things dating, sex, and relationships. To give you a truly different male perspective we cover a range of topics that Pops and B talked about in Season 1:
- Dating in your 30s, women’s internal “clock”, and how relationships progress or don’t because of pressure to get married/start a family
- The tangled world of situationships, dating, and courting — how we define each concept and the levels of intentionality that come with those connections
- His experience with celibacy and the fact that guys always want sex
- What vulnerability means to men, why it’s not always shown, and it's relation to honesty
- And how men set boundaries/make it clear to women what they really and how women feel when those "boundaries" are set
In summary Chiedozie essentially details how a man might come to the decision to be in a relationship and the TL;DR is that women can't force or pressure men into a [lasting] relationship.
If you like what you hear don't forget to subscribe and rate GTWP five stars on Apple Podcasts, share our podcast with a friend, and follow us on IG: @girltalkwithpops.
Send feedback to [email protected]
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Shout out to @jerralynbelinda for joining GTWP and check out the Tea with Qwns Podcast.
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Bonus: Dating is a marathon, not a sprint
Brittney is back with Chiedozie Okafor, host of the I Think I Love My Wife Podcast, for *bonus* episode part two. He's back sharing his truth and more about why it takes him time to get to know a woman and settle down. They also discuss:
- How men “slow play” a situation to learn more about a woman
- Why women should give men (and take) more time to figure out if it’s really a match
- Dating multiple people at once (and why women should do it more often)
- Things men consider before dating a woman with kids
- How women mature and start trading height for honesty
Chiedozie also puts Brittney in the hot seat and digs in about her situationship turned long distance relationship, and the trust and honesty that's required to make it work.
Hope you enjoy this additional male perspective on all things dating, sex, and relationships! If so don't forget to rate GTWP five stars on Apple Podcasts, subscribe, and share.
Send feedback to [email protected]
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