Why We Breadcrumb and How It's Holding You Back from Real Love

11/14/24 • 46 min

Introduction:

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, hosted by Lisa Shield and Benjamin Shield. Today, we dive deep into the emotional quagmire of breadcrumbing in relationships—a toxic dynamic where one person gives minimal effort, keeping the other clinging to the hope of something more meaningful. In this episode titled "Why We Breadcrumb and How It’s Holding You Back from Real Love," Lisa and Benjamin explore the intricate power imbalances and emotional manipulation inherent in breadcrumbing, highlighting its damaging effects on both individuals involved.

We'll discuss the pervasive patterns of mixed signals, avoidance of deep conversations, and last-minute plans, which often leave the breadcrumbed individual feeling undervalued and frustrated. Through personal anecdotes, client stories, and psychological insights, our hosts emphasize the critical importance of self-love, self-compassion, and the courage to walk away from unhealthy relational patterns.

Tune in as Lisa and Benjamin guide you through recognizing these harmful behaviors, breaking the addictive cycle of false hope, and embarking on a journey toward genuine connections. Remember to visit lisashield.com for more resources and to share this episode with anyone who might benefit from this crucial conversation. This is your chance to learn, heal, and find the true guardian of your soul.

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Previous Episode

Finding the Guardian of Your Soul: Meet Kristina!

🎙️ Exciting Episode Alert! 🌟

I had the pleasure of sitting down with Kristina Dedekian for the latest episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul ®" titled Dedekian. This episode is packed with insightful reflections and transformative experiences from Kristina's journey in the emotionally naked dating program.

Discover how Kristina leveraged lessons from the program to overcome past relationship challenges and navigate towards a more fulfilling, supportive partnership with her current boyfriend, Jesse. It's a heartwarming story of personal growth and the quest for extraordinary love. 💖

Key Takeaways:

Group Support & Diversity:

Kristina found immense value in the collective support and diverse perspectives of the women she met through the course, which helped her feel uplifted and understood.

Profile Refinement:

Professional photography and thoughtful profile responses played critical roles in attracting higher caliber men, teaching Kristina the importance of first impressions.

Perspective Shift & Personal Growth:

Understanding that some partners won't change allowed Kristina to embrace those who would offer genuine affection and support. This shift, coupled with coaching insights, helped her critically evaluate potential partners and her own dating patterns.

Tune into this inspiring episode to learn how investing in self-growth can pave the way to finding and appreciating true love. 🌟❤️

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Next Episode

Love Takes Flight: How Cindy, a Pilot, Soared to Happiness at 57

Episode Notes:

Title: Love Takes Flight: How Cindy, a Pilot, Soared to Happiness at 57

Hosted by: Lisa Shield

Guest: Cindy Weichert (she/her)

Synopsis:

In this episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul, I’m thrilled to welcome the amazing Cindy Weichert, who has an incredibly inspiring love story to share. Imagine finding the love of your life in your mid-50s—well, Cindy did just that! After overcoming her own doubts and taking a fresh approach to dating, she met and married Tom at 57. Cindy’s journey is a beautiful testament to what’s possible when you embrace structured dating, lean on a supportive community, and stay open to love. Her story is full of hope, transformation, and a few surprises along the way—you won’t want to miss it!

Key Highlights:

1. Cindy's Background:

Divorced in 2014, Cindy was initially distrustful of men and focused on self-healing.

Encountered Lisa Shield on YouTube, inspiring a major shift in perspective towards dating and openness.

2. Transformation Through Coaching:

Undertook a comprehensive dating program that included relationship inventory, learning online dating strategies, and community engagement.

Cindy overcame her fear and financial concerns to commit fully to the process, resulting in a transformative personal journey.

3. Importance of Community and Support:

Valued the network of like-minded women and the camaraderie fostered through the dating course.

Emphasized the significance of structured plans and guidance to achieve major life changes.

4. Dating Journey:

Created a specific online dating profile, refined with expert advice, to attract a compatible partner.

Re-entered the dating scene post-breakup, leading to a meaningful connection with Tom through Elite Singles.

Developed a long-distance relationship with Tom, who was still in the army, solidifying their bond before meeting in person.

5. Successful Relationship:

Cindy appreciated the practical dating tips such as choosing a photographer, dressing for dates, and enjoying the process.

The program helped her realize that not all dating failures were her fault and encouraged her to keep multiple options open.

Credits the dating course for her successful marriage and personal growth, which she believes would not have been achieved alone.

6. Wedding Details:

Cindy's wedding was a meaningful ceremony combined with Tom's retirement from the military, held at the National Infantry Museum's WWII chapel.

This unique and perfect event signified the culmination of her journey towards finding her soulmate.

7. **Final Thoughts:**

Cindy emphasizes the value of full commitment to personal development and the direct, forward-looking nature of coaching over traditional therapy.

Lisa and Cindy conclude with gratitude and personal greetings, highlighting Cindy’s happiness and alignment with Tom.

This episode is a testament to the power of persistence, structured guidance, and the willingness to embrace change in the pursuit of love and fulfillment. Tune in to hear Cindy's inspiring journey and the profound impact of finding the Guardian of her Soul.

**Resources:**

Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page

**Connect with Us:**

Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/

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Don’t miss this inspiring episode with Cindy Weichert and learn how you can find the Guardian of your Soul!

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