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Excellence Above Talent Podcast

Excellence Above Talent Podcast

Aaron Thomas

The State of Man Is in Crisis—It’s Time for a Conversation.
The Excellence Above Talent podcast was born from pain, loss, and a deep need for change.
- Men are 3.6 times more likely to die by suicide than women.
- Men commit the majority of violence in the U.S., including domestic abuse and sexual assault.
- 90% of the prison population consists of men.
These are not just statistics—they represent broken families, lost lives, and a cycle of harm and abuse that must end.
As a BIPP (Batterer’s Intervention and Prevention Program) Director for four years, I’ve had countless conversations with men—men who believed abuse was necessary, men who didn’t even realize they were abusers. What I learned is that men want to talk, but they have no safe space to do so.
Society teaches men to suppress their struggles, to avoid vulnerability, and to uphold a toxic version of manhood. But silence is destroying us.
The Excellence Above Talent podcast is here to challenge the status quo. We’re redefining what it means to be a man—one conversation at a time.
Join me. Let’s fight for the future of manhood. Our sons are watching.
#ExcellenceAboveTalent #MensMentalHealth #RedefiningManhood #BreakTheCycle

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - A conversation with Kelci and Yesenia

A conversation with Kelci and Yesenia

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01/07/22 • 82 min

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Join us as we discuss the male suicide rate, what makes a high-value man, what quality would be your #1 pick when choosing a male, and so much more.
I enjoyed this conversation and learned a few things along the way.

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - Men Need Safe Places Too: A Wife's Perspective on Male Mental Health
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04/25/25 • 39 min

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Aaron Thomas explores the evolving definition of masculinity with his wife Yanni, examining how men can find purpose beyond societal expectations and create healthier relationships through emotional intelligence.
• Men today have more opportunity to be themselves beyond traditional provider roles
• Creating safe spaces where men can remove their masks and express vulnerability
• The energy a man brings home shapes the entire household
• Emotional intelligence is often excluded from discussions about manhood due to tradition
• Healthy male friendships provide accountability and encourage personal growth
• Supporting mentors means ensuring they're mentally and emotionally equipped to pour into others
• "Daddy issues" manifest as fear of abandonment and feelings of unworthiness for both men and women
• Women can support men's mental health by being curious and attentive to behavioral changes
If no one's told you today, we want to be the first to tell you that you are loved, needed, wanted, valued, seen, appreciated, and heard. Be who God has called you to be, not who this world wants you to be.

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - Aaron Thomas's Tale of Overcoming Cyber Seduction and Reclaiming Life
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05/24/24 • 22 min

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Struggling with an addiction that lurks behind screens and clicks, I, Aaron Thomas, have fought a personal war against the grip of pornography. Today, I invite you into my world, not as a passive observer, but as a companion on a path paved with resilience and determination. Witness the profound impact this battle has had on my life, carving deep into the fabric of my first marriage and the valleys of my soul. It's been a year and a half of relentless pursuit towards recovery, where technology isn't just a gateway to temptation but a barricade against it, where a return to faith isn't a cliché but a cornerstone for rebuilding, and where initiating a heartfelt dialogue through this podcast serves as a beacon for others lost in similar shadows.
Embarking on this episode, I unravel the threads of enticement that weave through the fabric of social media and the deceptive allure of superficial attractions. This journey is not just an outward quest but an inward odyssey, confronting the depths of our desires, understanding the distinction between looking and lusting, and embracing the vulnerability that comes with such stark honesty. As we navigate these revelations, I emphasize the powerful symbiosis of faith and action, the transformative shift from distraction to devotion—to family, self-improvement, and authentic connections. To those of you fighting this invisible foe or any other that threatens to undermine the essence of who you are, let's walk together with courage, unraveling the hold of addiction and stepping into a realm of genuine fulfillment.

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - Men in the Making Understanding and Reversing Harmful Patterns
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05/10/24 • 18 min

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When I stepped into my 7th grade math classroom, I didn't expect to confront the harsh reality of how young boys treat their female teachers. But there it was, a microcosm of the disrespect and intimidation that can seed future abusive behaviors. In my latest podcast episode, I, Aaron Thomas, take you through a journey that is both harrowing and hopeful. I invite courageous men, who once walked a troubled path, to share their stories of transformation and the conversations they wish they'd had earlier. This is a deep look into the origins of abuse, the societal constructs of masculinity, and the critical importance of early intervention.
Together, we question the societal blueprint that shapes the way young boys view strength, control, and power. Are they learning from family dynamics, societal pressures, or is it the toxic influence of objectifying women? We dissect these complex influences with the aim of understanding and reshaping the narrative around what it means to be a man. This episode isn't just an exploration—it's a call to action for anyone who cares about the development of our boys and the safety of our communities. Tune in for an insightful conversation that challenges us to be better mentors, educators, and allies in the fight against the cycle of abuse.

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - Reshaping Grief: Counselor Bryn's Journey from Sorrow to Service
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06/30/23 • 29 min

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Have you ever wondered what kind of strength it takes to turn a personal tragedy into a purpose? Join me, Aaron Thomas, for an intimate conversation with the inspiring Bryn, a professional counselor, who has navigated this very journey following the heartbreaking loss of her son. Bryn opens up about the harsh realities of grief, and how her faith became a beacon of light during the darkest times.
We delve into the invincibility mindset of 18-year-old boys, their skewed prioritization of social life, and the grave consequences of ill-thought-out decisions. Bryn enlightens us about the importance of leveraging our innate talents to effect positive change while sharing her inspirational mantra - the 999 quote from Juice World. We navigate the choppy currents of grief and the importance of confronting it head on. Bryn emphasizes the need for creating a safe space for grief and how services like Agape Counseling and Teen Court can provide invaluable support.
Finally, Bryn emphasizes the capability of human resilience and the transformative power of a positive outlook. In a world that often seems bleak and challenging, she encourages listeners to persevere, reminding them that they are never alone in their battles. Join us for a soul-stirring episode and be inspired by Bryn’s unflagging spirit, as she turns her tragedy into a purpose.

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - Guiding the Next Generation with Emotional Awareness
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10/14/24 • 19 min

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Have you ever felt lost in the whirlwind of life’s challenges, searching for a steadfast anchor? Join me, Aaron Thomas, as I return to podcasting after a significant break, sharing my journey of rediscovering purpose and stability. Through candid reflection, I open up about my personal struggles and the fear that has held me back from embracing a deeper spiritual connection with God. My mission is to surpass the expectations set by previous generations, embracing authenticity and vulnerability in my quest to become the best version of myself. As I take on new commitments like coaching, I wrestle with balancing these with what truly matters, navigating the uncertainty of life’s direction with renewed commitment.
Let's redefine the essence of true manhood together, challenging the outdated notion of men as mere providers and protectors. I passionately discuss the importance of emotional awareness and the willingness to sacrifice for beliefs, family, and future generations. It's time to guide young boys towards moral excellence, ensuring they grow into strong, emotionally aware men who find fulfillment beyond external success. My goal is to inspire change and build a supportive community for the next generation, using my voice and platform to nurture responsible and connected men who lead meaningful lives. Listen in and join the movement toward a more emotionally aware and morally excellent future.

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What happens when a soldier returns home but finds no support to help them cope with the shadows of war? On this impactful episode of Excellence Above Talent, I, Aaron Thomas, share my deeply personal journey from the battlefields of Iraq to the daunting reality of civilian life. You'll hear about the harrowing encounters with IEDs, the tragic loss of comrades, and the ever-looming threat of death that haunted each mission. As I transitioned back home, the absence of a robust support network led me down a dark path of unhealthy coping mechanisms, including alcohol and seducing women. This raw and honest recount aims to illuminate the profound struggles veterans face, urging for a greater understanding and stronger support systems.
Shifting our focus to another critical issue, we delve into the poignant story of a crisis center worker in West Texas who tried valiantly to save a friend from the brink. Despite his efforts, the friend tragically passed away, leaving behind a legacy of heartbreak and profound self-reflection. This tragic event catalyzed the creation of a Facebook support page for veterans and the nonprofit organization, Excellence Above Talent, dedicated to combating high suicide rates among men and addressing abuse. By sharing these stories, we hope to stress the importance of mental health awareness and the collective efforts needed to support those in distress. Join us for a powerful discussion on healing, resilience, and the urgent need for comprehensive mental health support.

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - Evolving Masculinity: Building a Society of Accountable, Authentic Men
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06/09/23 • 83 min

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What does it truly mean to be a man in today's society, and how can we take responsibility for bettering the state of manhood? Join us, Aaron Thomas, Patrick Mackie, and Kenzie Clifton, as we embark on an eye-opening journey to redefine manhood and explore the responsibilities of men in society, from the impact of absent fathers to the importance of self-respect and confidence.
Throughout this episode, we discuss the urgent need for men to hold each other accountable and engage in honest, straightforward conversations. We delve into the shocking statistics surrounding men's suicide rates and the societal pressures that contribute to them. We also examine the power dynamics in relationships, discussing women's choice in partners and the misconception of men as the enemy.
As we navigate through these thought-provoking topics, we share insights on personal growth and the importance of authenticity, both online and offline. We emphasize the power of words, the significance of embracing the journey of life, and the necessity of maintaining a balance between genders. Let's come together to build a better understanding of manhood and create a society where men are heard, appreciated, and supported.

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - Keep Fighting!!!

Keep Fighting!!!

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05/06/22 • 18 min

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“You either walk inside your story and own it or stand outside your story and hustle for your worthiness.”
“If you’re not in the arena also getting your ass kicked, I’m not interested in your feedback.”

—Brené Brown

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Excellence Above Talent Podcast - Without Self-Discipline, success is impossible. PERIOD!!!!! - Lou Holtz
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03/25/22 • 24 min

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Discipline is a way of life that most people want, but when they realize how tough it truly is, goes back to living life the easy way.
Men of high value have discipline in all phases of their lives and strive to be disciplined daily.
The goal is to try and never give up or quit on what you are trying to accomplish in life.
The pain SUCKS, but life after the pain is SWEET!!!

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How many episodes does Excellence Above Talent Podcast have?

Excellence Above Talent Podcast currently has 86 episodes available.

What topics does Excellence Above Talent Podcast cover?

The podcast is about Culture, Christianity, Self Improvement, Sex, Domestic Violence, Society, Love, Mental Health, Religion & Spirituality, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education and Leader.

What is the most popular episode on Excellence Above Talent Podcast?

The episode title 'A Soldier's Path to Emotional Clarity' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Excellence Above Talent Podcast?

The average episode length on Excellence Above Talent Podcast is 41 minutes.

How often are episodes of Excellence Above Talent Podcast released?

Episodes of Excellence Above Talent Podcast are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Excellence Above Talent Podcast?

The first episode of Excellence Above Talent Podcast was released on Oct 29, 2021.

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