
Stephanie Wittels Wachs: When Life Gives You Lemons
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02/06/24 • 50 min
Today, we’re talking about tragicomedy. And isn’t that all of life? The absurdity. The horror. The laughter that somehow cuts through the most difficult of moments. Our guest today, Stephanie Wittles Wachs wrote a beautiful memoir called Everything is Horrible and Wonderful about the death of her brother to an accidental heroin overdose when he was 30 years old.
In this conversation, Kate and Stephanie discuss:
- Loving someone with addiction
- Grieving a person in public
- Why it’s okay (and maybe necessary) to laugh in the midst of the worst moments
- The 6th stage of grief—the manic-investigative stage
CW: mention of suicide, drug overdose, death of a sibling
Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.
Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Today, we’re talking about tragicomedy. And isn’t that all of life? The absurdity. The horror. The laughter that somehow cuts through the most difficult of moments. Our guest today, Stephanie Wittles Wachs wrote a beautiful memoir called Everything is Horrible and Wonderful about the death of her brother to an accidental heroin overdose when he was 30 years old.
In this conversation, Kate and Stephanie discuss:
- Loving someone with addiction
- Grieving a person in public
- Why it’s okay (and maybe necessary) to laugh in the midst of the worst moments
- The 6th stage of grief—the manic-investigative stage
CW: mention of suicide, drug overdose, death of a sibling
Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.
Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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