
001 | She Followed You First: Why Social Media Bots Feel So Real
04/23/25 • 4 min
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You knew it wasn’t real—but you looked anyway. 👀
In this debut episode of Everyone’s A Bot: A Social Media Story, host Chris Smith dives headfirst into the DM that started it all. You know the one: “Hey cutie.” Zero posts. Maximum thirst. Somehow... you still felt something. Why?
We explore the weird psychology behind bot accounts that flirt, follow first, and trigger real emotions. From the dopamine rush of fake compliments to the eerie comfort of algorithmic attention, this episode unpacks why even the smartest of us get caught looking.
🤖 They're not catfishing for cash (yet). They’re farming your clicks, and your brain loves it.
If you've ever replied just to see what happens—or wondered why a digital ghost made you feel kinda special—this one’s for you.
🔍 You’ll Learn:
- Why bots act more human than your ex
- How flirty DMs hack your brain’s reward system
- The fine line between fake validation and real emotion Timestamps 00:00 – Intro: “You liked my post. I followed you first.” 00:23 – That suspicious DM: Flirty bots and algorithmic blessings 01:09 – “What if she’s real?”: The fantasy behind fake profiles 01:52 – Bots aren’t scamming—yet. They’re farming your attention 02:40 – You replied for fun, but ended up 30 mins deep 03:22 – If it feels good, does it matter if it’s fake? 03:57 – Wrap-up: Trust is low, engagement is high + Next episode teaser #SocialMediaBots #DigitalDeception #FakeProfiles #OnlineTrust #BotAccounts #AIInfluencers #AlgorithmHacks #CatfishCulture #DMScams #EmotionalAI #HumanVsBot #AIConversations #DopamineRush #FakeValidation #TechAndPsychology #OnlineFlirting #BotSeduction #EveryoneIsABot #AIOnSocialMedia #DigitalManipulation #SocialMediaPsychology #FlirtyBots #ScrollCulture #InfluencerAI #RealOrBot
You knew it wasn’t real—but you looked anyway. 👀
In this debut episode of Everyone’s A Bot: A Social Media Story, host Chris Smith dives headfirst into the DM that started it all. You know the one: “Hey cutie.” Zero posts. Maximum thirst. Somehow... you still felt something. Why?
We explore the weird psychology behind bot accounts that flirt, follow first, and trigger real emotions. From the dopamine rush of fake compliments to the eerie comfort of algorithmic attention, this episode unpacks why even the smartest of us get caught looking.
🤖 They're not catfishing for cash (yet). They’re farming your clicks, and your brain loves it.
If you've ever replied just to see what happens—or wondered why a digital ghost made you feel kinda special—this one’s for you.
🔍 You’ll Learn:
- Why bots act more human than your ex
- How flirty DMs hack your brain’s reward system
- The fine line between fake validation and real emotion Timestamps 00:00 – Intro: “You liked my post. I followed you first.” 00:23 – That suspicious DM: Flirty bots and algorithmic blessings 01:09 – “What if she’s real?”: The fantasy behind fake profiles 01:52 – Bots aren’t scamming—yet. They’re farming your attention 02:40 – You replied for fun, but ended up 30 mins deep 03:22 – If it feels good, does it matter if it’s fake? 03:57 – Wrap-up: Trust is low, engagement is high + Next episode teaser #SocialMediaBots #DigitalDeception #FakeProfiles #OnlineTrust #BotAccounts #AIInfluencers #AlgorithmHacks #CatfishCulture #DMScams #EmotionalAI #HumanVsBot #AIConversations #DopamineRush #FakeValidation #TechAndPsychology #OnlineFlirting #BotSeduction #EveryoneIsABot #AIOnSocialMedia #DigitalManipulation #SocialMediaPsychology #FlirtyBots #ScrollCulture #InfluencerAI #RealOrBot
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Trailer: Everyone’s a Bot — A Social Media Story
This is your official first look at Everyone’s a Bot — a short-form podcast about identity, digital trust, and the bots that flirt better than real people.
From fake influencers and flirty DMs to AI thirst traps and comment section chaos, we decode the weird digital world one glitch at a time.
🎧 Subscribe now — full episodes launching soon. #EveryonesABot
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