
How to Be the Happiest Couple You Know by Following 3 Traits of the Happiest People on Earth: Episode 199
11/09/21 • 28 min
The Danish people have ranked as the “happiest people on earth” for 40 years in a row starting in the 70’s, only to be rivaled by Norwegian and Finish people over the last several years. And their happiness isn’t dependent on things like: the weather or low taxes (it’s actually pretty cold and dark there, and they have relatively higher taxes)....so they must be doing something else right to be so happy.
So in today’s episode we cover 3 of the traits that they focus on to be the happiest people. Many of the traits we KNOW are critical to having a happy marriage. Of course just being a happier individual will lead to a happier relationship, but you will be able to know exactly what traits to improve in your relationship, so that your own happiness is intentional and not just based on better life circumstances.
Episode Resources & Links:
- If you’re a parent, attend the WebClass taught by parenting expert, Amy McCready, on November 10th. Details and registration HERE.
- Read the book we referred to in the podcast, The Danish Way of Parenting HERE
- Read our book, The Argument Hangover and claim $200 worth of bonuses HERE.
About Us:
We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.
The Danish people have ranked as the “happiest people on earth” for 40 years in a row starting in the 70’s, only to be rivaled by Norwegian and Finish people over the last several years. And their happiness isn’t dependent on things like: the weather or low taxes (it’s actually pretty cold and dark there, and they have relatively higher taxes)....so they must be doing something else right to be so happy.
So in today’s episode we cover 3 of the traits that they focus on to be the happiest people. Many of the traits we KNOW are critical to having a happy marriage. Of course just being a happier individual will lead to a happier relationship, but you will be able to know exactly what traits to improve in your relationship, so that your own happiness is intentional and not just based on better life circumstances.
Episode Resources & Links:
- If you’re a parent, attend the WebClass taught by parenting expert, Amy McCready, on November 10th. Details and registration HERE.
- Read the book we referred to in the podcast, The Danish Way of Parenting HERE
- Read our book, The Argument Hangover and claim $200 worth of bonuses HERE.
About Us:
We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.
Previous Episode

How We’re Preparing to Parent Consciously With Non-Mainstream Techniques, Emotional Intelligence, and Communication Before She Can Speak: Episode 198
Episode Resources & Links:
- FREE Parenting WebClass with Amy McCready on November 10th HERE
- Hypnobabies Program for Natural Birth HERE
- Pelvic Floor Birth Program (One Strong Mama) HERE
- The Conscious Parent book by Dr Shefali HERE
- Video on baby communication sounds HERE
- Elimination Communication (Go Diaper Free) HERE
There are many ways to parent a child and even the way of "let's just figure it out as we go". We wanted to take this episode to share with you about our prep for becoming parents this coming December.
As we are so into communication and emotional intelligence between couples, you shouldn't be surprised that we are learning about how to do that with our own daughter.
Of course reading and listening is not the same as the "as lived experience", there are a number of philosophies and parenting guidelines that we are committed to implementing so that we can be truly conscious parents. Being conscious parents will allow us the best opportunity to raise a conscious child.
By no means are we saying we will be perfect or that we are judging any other ways of parenting, we just wanted to be open with you all about our journey and to even see the correlations to being a great partner. We believe that if you want your children to have great relationships, you have to have one yourself!
In this episode, we discuss:
- Our preparation for natural birth and helpful programs
- Non-mainstream techniques for parenting intentionally
- Conscious parenting and raising her to be the best version of herself
- Developing “Emotional Intelligence” in our parenting approach (just like our marriage)
- What we’ve learned from different cultures (outside the United States) for developing happy human beings
Additional Resources For Your Relationship:
Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)
Next Episode

Closing the Gap Between Where You Are Now and Where You Want to Be Without Feeling Disappointed: Aaron Solo Episode 200
There has always been a focus on the future that we each want to create. As a couple this can be in the form of setting goals or establishing your vision statement. This is a great thing because you can’t get anywhere if you don’t know where you want to go. But sometimes this can leave you feeling disappointed that you are “not there yet” or be discouraged when you feel you are not making as much progress as you would like.
In this solo episode with Aaron you will hear how there is a gap that gets created from this thinking, which can cause you to feel more disappointed about the relationship, when really you just need to change a particular focus. You will hear how you can close the gap between where you want to be and where you are now, so that you are not left feeling discouraged about your current relationship or your partner. You will easily gain appreciation and gratitude by making this one small shift.
Episode Resources & Links:
- Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)
- The Gap and The Gain book by Ben Hardy HERE
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