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Aurora Remember Holtzman
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141: Using Your Intensity to Add More Play to Your Life with Gary Ware
Embracing Intensity
08/26/19 • 44 min
129: Manifesting Intensity Through Music and Dance with Prashant Kakad
Embracing Intensity
06/03/19 • 50 min
272. Creativity as Self Care w/ Sharon Burton
Embracing Intensity
05/13/24 • 56 min
This week on Embracing Intensity, we share part of our call with Sharon J. Burton on "Creativity as Self-Care." Sharon delves into a chapter from her upcoming book "Creative Sparks" that explores how embracing creativity can be a powerful form of self-care. Through affirmations, inspiration, and practical tips, Sharon will guide attendees on how to use their creative talents to nurture their well-being, reduce stress, and cultivate a more mindful and fulfilling life. Join us for an enlightening discussion on the transformative power of creativity in self-care practices.
Join us for an engaging discussion with Sharon, a creativity coach, visual artist, teaching artist, yoga nidra guide, meditation guide, poet, and soon-to-be author. Sharon shares her journey back to art after pursuing a traditional career path and emphasizes the importance of creativity as self-care. The conversation covers themes such as the challenges and joys of embracing creativity at midlife, especially for those who may not have received encouragement earlier in life due to societal pressures towards more conventional careers. Sharon introduces her upcoming book, 'Creative Sparks: 21 Affirmations and Inspirations for Creativity at Midlife,' aimed at inspiring people to reconnect with their creativity. The discussion also explores the significance of creativity for personal growth, mental health, and cultural expression, particularly within the African American community. Additionally, it addresses overcoming common obstacles like the inner critic, imposter syndrome, and societal expectations, encouraging listeners to give themselves permission to explore their passions and creative impulses fully.
About SharonSharon J. Burton is a visual artist, art curator, poet and certified creative coach and Founder of Spark Your Creative Coaching. Since 2016, she has focused on helping people in "creative recovery"... those looking to revive or jump start their creativity through group and individual coaching, workshops, her blog and as the host of Spark Your Creative Podcast which features artists and other creatives who are using their unique talents to create more mindful communities and a safer world. Sharon is a certified creativity coach through the Creativity Coaching Association. She completed requirements for the professional certificate in Art Business from New York University and a certificate in Art History through the Smithsonian. a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration and a Master of Public Administration. Sharon is also a Level II, Reiki Certified practitioner and received her Breath Work + Meditation Teacher Certification. Sharon infuses her creativity coaching with wellness practices to help her clients break through the blocks that prevent them from fully engaging in their creative potential.
In this episode:- Aurora welcomes Sharon Burton to the "Embracing Intensity" podcast to discuss creativity as self-care.
- Sharon reflects on reconnecting with Aurora after years and discusses the importance of creativity in her life and others'.
- Aurora mentions the podcast's start in 2016, noting Sharon's early appearance in its second year.
- Sharon introduces herself as a creativity coach, visual artist, yoga nidra and meditation guide, and soon-to-be author.
- The discussion pivots to Sharon's upcoming book, "Creative Sparks: 21 Affirmations and Inspirations for Creativity at Midlife," focused on encouraging creativity in midlife individuals.
- Sharon shares her journey from pursuing a practical business degree to rediscovering her artistic side, emphasizing the challenge and reward of returning to creativity.
- A chapter from Sharon's book is shared, highlighting how creative practice can serve as a powerful form of self-care and aid in stress reduction, self-expression, self-discovery, boosting self-esteem, and promoting physical well-being.
- Aurora and Sharon discuss the societal pressures that often discourage creative pursuits and share personal insights on recognizing and affirming one's creativity.
- The conversation includes questions from the audience, exploring challenges faced by multi-talented individuals and ways to prioritize creativity amidst life's demands.
- Discussion on where creativity comes from, suggesting it can originate both from within the mind and beyond the physical body.
- The dialogue transitions to a discussion segment, where Sheldon joins to emphasize the unique experiences of creativity within the Black community and the impact of cultural and societal expectations.
- Sharon responds by highlighting the evolving opportunities for creative expression enabled by technology and the importance of embracing creativity at any life stage.
- Aurora wraps up by summarizing key takeaways: understanding one's creative "why," giving oneself permission to prioriti...
246: Rising Up Against Imposter Syndrome with Kate Arms
Embracing Intensity
03/14/22 • 25 min
Imposter syndrome is something that most people have felt at some point or another. Intense people may feel this in magnified ways, as the world tells them they are not welcome as they are. Join us on this guest call to learn more!
Kate Arms is a return guest to the show, and I’m thrilled to welcome her back for this guest call. Kate is a classic overthinker, high achiever, and multipotentiality who exudes intensity. Her career has spanned being a lawyer, arts administrator, coach for gifted and twice-exceptional adults and parents of gifted and twice-exceptional kids, and an Agile Coach in a high-tech company. She is the author of several books and has experience in coaching, leadership development, and psychology. Kate is here to help us understand imposter syndrome and how to reduce our suffering within it by building more connections.
Show Highlights:
- Kate defines imposter syndrome as “a group of symptoms clustered together to make us feel like we don’t belong”
- How symptoms can include anxiety, hypervigilance self-consciousness, self-sabotage, perfectionism, and a sense of hiding who you really are
- How these symptoms pair with suffering to make us feel awful and ashamed
- How symptom relief and root-cause relief work together
- Why imposter syndrome boils down to belonging, connection, and a feeling of, “They won’t want me if they know who I really am.”
- How we are programmed (especially intense people) to think we are not welcome as we are because of childhood shaming, being told to “tone down,” and being too much or too sensitive
- How the “mismatch” occurs and how to address it
- How the process of learning happens when we start out blissfully ignorant
- The difference between identity and character vs. skills and experiences
- Why we must to learn to be comfortable in being ourselves–even if it makes others uncomfortable
- Why it’s hard to risk having the courage to overwhelm others with who we really are
- How we can build our sense of belonging through building our community
- How feeling connection with at least three people in your group will foster your feeling of belonging
Resources:
Hear the follow-up conversation with Kate: Community.embracingintensity.com
244: Giftedness, Twice-Exceptionality, Autism and ADD within the Overexcitability Framework
Embracing Intensity
02/14/22 • 48 min
Today’s show looks at the differences and overlap of giftedness, twice-exceptionality, autism, and ADHD within the overexcitability framework. Join us to learn more!
Chris Wells is a writer, therapist, and researcher on all things Dabrowski. She has a nuanced take on the concept of overexcitability, a topic on which she has focused much time, energy, and study. Chris is our first three-time guest on the podcast, having appeared most recently to discuss positive disintegration. Let’s hear more from Chris!
In this episode:
- How Chris came to overexcitability in 2014 on her quest to learn more about twice-exceptionality
- How Chris was identified as gifted as a kid but felt more disabled and mentally ill
- How Chris felt broken and emotionally intense by the time she was 40
- How overexcitability turned around her perceptions of herself as problematic and defective
- How Chris became hyperfocused on understanding overexcitability
- How Chris found Dabrowski’s early work, which identified four types of overexcitability: psychomotor, imaginational, sensual, and emotional
- How the gifted education world has finally accepted overexcitability as a characteristic of giftedness
- Why overexcitability is an umbrella term that brings together all the elements of neurodivergence
- Why Chris says autism and ADHD are “clearly neuro-cousins”
- Why there are so many misunderstandings about overexcitability in gifted education
- How overexcitability brings a whole different reality to those who have it
- How Chris’s imagination would take her to another place and another reality when she was growing up–and overexcitability gave her the answers for it
- The problem in learning to live with overexcitability
- Why giftedness is a meaningful difference, even in adults
- How we can best support those with overexcitability in light of the knowledge we now have and the labels we use
- Why we struggle as a whole to figure out the right language to use
Resources:
Check out our calendar of upcoming events: www.embracingintensity.com/community
241: Making Room for the Voices of Others with Aileen Kelleher
Embracing Intensity
01/10/22 • 39 min
Today’s guest has wonderful Instagram posts, many of them covering her work with twice-exceptional adults. I’m a fan of hers, and she’s a fan of the podcast, so it’s exciting to introduce her to the Embracing Intensity audience!
Aileen Kelleher is a licensed clinical social worker, therapist, and coach. Her therapy practice in Chicago specializes in helping gifted and twice-exceptional children build social-emotional skills, self-compassion, and confidence to recover from anxiety, depression, and other mental health difficulties. Her international coaching practice focuses on helping gifted and 2E women harness their talents to help them find fulfillment and fun in their personal, professional, and social lives.
Show Highlights:
- Why Aileen is intensely passionate about working with 2E people and sharing tools and resources
- How Aileen’s personal brand of intensity manifests in her passion and her ability to embrace conflict and argumentative engagement; she appears intimidating to others and feels emotions deeply
- Growing up, Aileen experienced bullying from her peers that put her “on guard” with anxiety and fear where there was the capacity for negative emotions; she also had an early sense of social justice
- How Aileen identifies now as a 2E person who has anxiety, depression, and some ADHD characteristics
- In school, Aileen was a student who was eager to please her teachers and experienced solid support from her mother; she struggled to fit in and be accepted with peers
- How, as she grew older, she began challenging authority, rebelling, and calling out injustice
- How being from a large, Irish Catholic family trained her to use direct bluntness that not everyone accepts
- How Aileen learned to tone herself down and tune herself out by escaping in reading books and watching TV; in later life, she numbed herself through substance abuse to “check out” from reality
- How Aileen experienced her out-of-control intensity through raging at people as a young person and now uses writing, exercise, and art as ways to maintain control
- How Aileen has learned not to be “the biggest voice” in the room but to lift up and make room for the voices of others in community and collaboration
- How Aileen uses her fire for good by being helpful and learning all that she can about what she feels passionate about; she has also learned to admit her mistakes and keep going
- How Aileen helps other 2E adults find meaning, joy, and purpose in their lives
- How relationships with family and friends have helped Aileen learn to reach out for help and trust herself
- Why Aileen likes helping others define and find their personal values
- How ACT (acceptance and commitment therapy) helps gifted kids figure out what they care about beyond simply proving how smart they are
Parting words from Aileen: “You are OK just the way you are, even if you feel like you don’t belong in a certain situation. That doesn’t mean that there is something fundamentally wrong with you, and it’s OK to ask for help if you need it. Gifted and 2E can have full and satisfied lives, and the fact that we are different shouldn’t stop us from pursuing what we want--and what everyone else gets to have.”
Resources:
Find Aileen on Instagram or at www.coaching4gifted.com. Her work with kids is at www.aileenkelleher.com.
239: Perspectives in Giftedness with Gail Post
Embracing Intensity
10/25/21 • 45 min
If you or someone you love is a gifted person, you understand that it can complicate many situations in life. It’s wonderful to know that empathetic and supportive professionals are dedicating their lives to advocacy for these individuals. Join me to learn more about one such psychotherapist in today’s episode!
Gail Post is a clinical psychologist, parenting coach, workshop leader, and writer. In clinical practice for over 35 years, she provides psychotherapy in the Philadelphia area with a focus on the needs of the intellectually and musically gifted. Gail does consultations with educators and psychotherapists and parent coaching throughout the US and Canada. Dr. Post served as a co-chair of a gifted parents’ advocacy group when her children were in school, and she continues to advocate through workshops in schools and parenting groups. Her writing related to giftedness includes online articles, several books, chapters, plans for an upcoming book, and a long-standing blog, Gifted Challenges. Gail is just one of the popular gifted writers whose work is included in the book, Perspectives on Giftedness: Sound Advice from Parents and Professionals by GHF Press.
Show Highlights:
- Why Gail is intensely passionate about working with gifted and twice-exceptional teens and adults, advocacy, parenting issues, nature, art, music, and trying to make a difference
- How psychotherapists help clients with mirroring and attunement to create encouragement for the changes people need to make
- Why it’s difficult to find psychotherapists who specialize in giftedness
- Why Gail’s personal brand of intensity looks like overthinking and being passionate about her work and values
- How Gail grew up feeling things intensely and feeling out of sync with others as she tried to fit in
- How Gail was affected by white privilege and by other issues of the 70s like the Vietnam anti-war movement, women’s right, and civil rights
- How Gail had to tone herself down as a shy child when she learned to hide her abilities and talents
- Why Gail got out of control when she felt things and reacted strongly, especially in work settings
- How Gail uses her fire for good in helping people, writing, and utilizing her strengths, and engaging with her interest in the human psyche and behavior
- How Gail harnesses her power by knowing her strengths, pacing herself, and managing stress
- How she helps others by encouraging them to feel safe and accept themselves with empowerment in challenging situations
- Gail’s upcoming book, Perspectives in Giftedness, written with several other authors: her articles include “How to Explain Giftedness to Your Child,” one about what happens when kids know they are smart by society or school tells them they are not, and one about college planning to teach students and parents what they don’t know about the process
- Why we shouldn’t tell kids their IQ number because it can harm them or hold them back
- Final words from Gail: “I encourage everyone to work on self-acceptance with who you are because that’s the foundation for moving forward in life. It’s also important to accept your child’s imperfections and all of who they are.”
Resources:
Connect with Gail on Facebook.
196: Gifted and Using her Fire for Good with Lana Quackenbush
Embracing Intensity
10/26/20 • 64 min
In today’s show, I introduce you to a good friend who has been an anchor for me in creating a community over the last ten years, both in-person and online. Join us!
Lana Quackenbush has been part of my Ignite Your Power program for several years, and she frequently joined the monthly Embracing Intensity guest calls last year. I’ve seen from the beginning of our relationship what an amazing person she is and how she’s learning to own the uniqueness of who she is. Lana and I both love helping people find connections in the common experiences of intensity, giftedness, twice-exceptionality, and creativity.
Show Highlights:
- Why Lana identifies as a mixed-race, newlywed, preschool teacher who loves peacemaking and doing the right thing
- How Lana’s personal brand of intensity revolves around her qualities of being intensely intellectual, perfectionistic, and judgmental
- Why as a Virgo, Lana has to work on finding balance in many ways
- Growing up, Lana’s mom told her she was “exhausting,” and she had a hard time sleeping as a sickly child who learned to tune out her body’s signals
- The cultural factors that added to the “tornado of chaos” in Lana’s biracial, highly social family; it was always stressed to her the importance of “presenting” herself well
- How Lana learned to tune herself out or tone herself down in light of her mother’s postpartum depression and the realization that her needs weren’t always going to be met
- How Lana’s intensity gets out of control at times when she is wronged, and her self-righteous indignation kicks in
- The shift for Lana in finding a relationship that uplifts her intensity in a positive way
- How Lana uses her fire for good as she spends her days teaching two-year-olds and shows interest in families, children, and their parents
- Why Lana loves to see the emotional model of raising children reign over the intellectual model
- How Lana harnesses the power of her intensity by doing yoga and studying Buddhism
- How Lana follows her varied interests in phases, organizes spaces in her home to meet her needs, and imposes rules for herself about cleaning up one area before moving on
- Lana’s inspirational to-do list hack: she writes her list on business cards so the list is manageable, and she can feel the satisfaction of checking off each item
- Why Lana is ever-so-grateful that she followed the best advice she ever received: “Don’t make any permanent life choices before age 25.”
- Books that Lana recommends: Ishmael by Daniel Quinn and The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield
- How Lana helps others use their fire by kid-wrangling, making spaces for them, and meeting their needs
- Why Lana is learning to identify proudly as a person of color
Resources:
The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield
Find Lana on Instagram: ThatLanaLady
175: Champion of the Quirky Kids with Kathleen Humble
Embracing Intensity
05/25/20 • 49 min
Today’s guest is someone I met through The Gifted Homeschooler Forum for which we both write. Through her experiences and those of her children, she’s become a champion for parents of “quirky children who don’t fit the mold.”
Kathleen Humble is an ADHD mom in Melbourne, Australia. She writes at Yellow Readis about gifted and twice-exceptional homeschooling. Her book, Gifted Myths, is available at The Gifted Homeschooler Forum Press. She’s been published in Victorian Writer, The Mighty, and Otherways magazine, and she was the recipient of the 2018 Writers Victoria Write-Ability Fellowship. In between writing and homeschooling her kids, Kathleen loves reading, sewing, and big cups of tea.
Show Highlights:
- As a long-time homeschooling mom of two twice-exceptional children, Kathleen is intensely passionate about helping parents with quirky children who don’t fit into the mold
- As a twice-exceptional person with ADHD, Kathleen can focus intensely on something to the point of not remembering to do anything else
- Growing up, she had trouble controlling her passions, but her intensity turned inward as she resorted to reading
- Being small and good at things made Kathleen an easy target for bullies in school
- One of the cultural factors that affected her intensity was learning that in Australia, standing out from others is not a great thing that’s not appreciated
- How intensity became an asset for Kathleen through performance and writing
- How Kathleen toned down and tuned out her intensity in high school when she deliberately stopped learning
- How Kathleen observed in school the behaviors that invited bullying
- Why Kathleen has to work against her intensity all the time
- How Kathleen learned to do “the pause,” a technique to physically break the intensity
- How Kathleen loves helping others, answering questions, exploring things, and empowering others
- How Kathleen harnesses the power of her intensity through “the pause,” medication, and therapy
- Kathleen’s system of “touch once” to keep track of tasks and remember names
- The best advice Kathleen ever received: “I’m OK. It’s going to be OK. Being you is OK. Being intense is OK.”
- Books that Kathleen recommends: Foundation by Isaac Asimov and NeuroTribes by Steve Silberman
- How Kathleen helps others use their fire for good by writing on her blog and people find the information they need
Resources:
Find Kathleen: Yellow Readis
Facebook: Yellow Readis
Twitter: @Yellow Readis
Pinterest: Yellow Readis
187: A Cautionary Tale of Non-Violent Communication with Meenadchi
Embracing Intensity
08/24/20 • 33 min
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How many episodes does Embracing Intensity have?
Embracing Intensity currently has 192 episodes available.
What topics does Embracing Intensity cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture, Personal Journals, Podcasts, Education and Ocd.
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The episode title '189: Using His Fire for Good with Matt Zinman' is the most popular.
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The average episode length on Embracing Intensity is 34 minutes.
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Episodes of Embracing Intensity are typically released every 7 days.
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The first episode of Embracing Intensity was released on Oct 15, 2018.
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