
If There's DRAMA, You Have TRAUMA: What Your Relationship Is Telling You About Your Childhood With Breakup Coach, Lindsey Ellison
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02/08/22 • 52 min
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In this episode, we’re going deep into childhood traumas and how it affects your relationships with our guest, Lindsey Ellison. She is an author, speaker, relationship coach, and fellow podcaster... yey! We talk about childhood trauma, how it manifests in your relationships, how you can address it, and how you can finally heal from it.
Lindsey Ellison is an author, a relationship coach, and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc. She specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, navigate their divorce or break-up, and find happiness and peace.
Originally stemming from her own personal experiences, Lindsey’s mission is to inspire you to make those amazing changes in your life to help you start over and find happiness. She takes you from victim to victor.
Reach out to Lindsey at:
Website: https://lindseyellison.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/ThriveWithLindsey/
Twitter:https://twitter.com/startovercoach
IG: https://www.instagram.com/lindsey_ellison/
Access her online course: https://breakfreefromyournarcissist.com/
Get her book at: https://www.amazon.com/Lindsey-Ellison/e/B07KYVWPHS
Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!
Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!
Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast
Where to find me:
Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/
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You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/
Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.
Show notes:
[2:11] More about Lindsey
[13:11] What exactly is childhood trauma?
[16:30] What to do when you have childhood trauma
[21:51] Hypervigilance
[25:18] Look at the behavior
[26:40] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)
[28:52] Hyper parenting and co-dependency
[36:11] Nascent reasoning
[42:42] Childhood trauma and relationships
[46:56] Love avoidants and love addicts
In this episode, we’re going deep into childhood traumas and how it affects your relationships with our guest, Lindsey Ellison. She is an author, speaker, relationship coach, and fellow podcaster... yey! We talk about childhood trauma, how it manifests in your relationships, how you can address it, and how you can finally heal from it.
Lindsey Ellison is an author, a relationship coach, and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc. She specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, navigate their divorce or break-up, and find happiness and peace.
Originally stemming from her own personal experiences, Lindsey’s mission is to inspire you to make those amazing changes in your life to help you start over and find happiness. She takes you from victim to victor.
Reach out to Lindsey at:
Website: https://lindseyellison.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/ThriveWithLindsey/
Twitter:https://twitter.com/startovercoach
IG: https://www.instagram.com/lindsey_ellison/
Access her online course: https://breakfreefromyournarcissist.com/
Get her book at: https://www.amazon.com/Lindsey-Ellison/e/B07KYVWPHS
Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!
Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!
Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast
Where to find me:
Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/
Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️
TikTok: CLICK HERE!
Pinterest: click here!
You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/
Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.
Show notes:
[2:11] More about Lindsey
[13:11] What exactly is childhood trauma?
[16:30] What to do when you have childhood trauma
[21:51] Hypervigilance
[25:18] Look at the behavior
[26:40] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)
[28:52] Hyper parenting and co-dependency
[36:11] Nascent reasoning
[42:42] Childhood trauma and relationships
[46:56] Love avoidants and love addicts
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Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!
Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!
Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast
Where to find me:
Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/
Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️
TikTok: CLICK HERE!
Pinterest: click here!
You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/
Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.
Show notes:
[3:04] How did Melissa start her podcast
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[8:35] Accountability in relationships
[17:53] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)
[25:52] Attachment styles
[28:03 Her podcast consultation and coaching
[30:49] Where to find Melissa
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"But we are in love, so there's that."
Umm..we've heard this time and time again. And as a relationship coach, I'm calling BS! Listen as we dive in and discuss what really matters for a long, healthy partnership.
Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!
Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast
Where to find me:
Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/
Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️
TikTok: CLICK HERE!
Pinterest: click here!
You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/
Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.
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