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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor

For over 20 years now, we’ve fought the good fight of faith, and along the way we have learned so much about living a God-first life. Before Jesus, Tabatha was diagnosed depressed for over 12 years, we had $100,000 in debt, and we were headed straight for divorce. But when we started living for God, our lives radically changed. Tabatha was healed, we prospered financially, and we became best friends. With God's help, we learned how to do life well. And that’s exactly why we’ve created this Podcast – to help you do life with us and do it well. We will help you unlock principles for doing life God’s way, which will lead you to more joy, more peace, and true freedom.

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The episode explores the profound effects of relationships on spiritual growth, emphasizing the need for discernment in choosing one's company. We discuss boundary-setting, the challenges posed by misunderstandings, and the call to prioritize spiritual families over blood ties.
• The impact of friends on decisions and behavior
• The duality of positive and negative influences
• Discernment in new relationships after conversion
• Misunderstandings from friends and family
• Emphasis on spiritual families
• The importance of setting healthy boundaries
• Prioritizing God’s approval over others’ opinions

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - 10 Ways to Prepare for Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
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08/03/23 • 39 min

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Ever wondered why some relationships flourish while others flounder? Today, we're going to guide you on a journey to unlock the answers. We start by shattering a common misconception: your satisfaction comes from God, not from being married. With insights drawn from our own experiences, both as singles and married individuals, we propose 10 transformative ways to prime yourself for marriage. Our aim is to help you step into marriage as a fulfilled individual, rather than two halves seeking completion.
Let's switch gears a bit and venture into the exciting, yet often puzzling world of dating. Cultivating an unshakeable level of inner confidence is key. No desperation allowed here! We'll explain why having a life outside of dating is just as important as the dating itself. We'll also talk about why it's essential to focus more on spiritual qualities rather than being overly hung up on physical appearances.
And finally, are you ready to make your marriage a success? We'll highlight the value of investing time in prayer, mission trips, and small groups. It's about being actively engaged in the work of the Lord. We'll also discuss the importance of being in the best shape of your life - spiritually, emotionally, and physically. And no, we're not just talking about hitting the gym, but presenting the best version of yourself in every possible way. Remember, you don't have to wait until you're married to learn about marriage. So, whether you're single, dating, or considering proposing, join us as we share our experiences and insights to guide you on your relationship journey.

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - Racism the part we play to end it

Racism the part we play to end it

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

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03/30/23 • 45 min

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Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclay...
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenCla...
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabath...
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - Christmas with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Christmas with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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12/12/24 • 42 min

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Ever wonder how unwrapping gifts can spark a lively debate during Christmas morning festivities? Join us, as we recount our personal tales and unique traditions that make Christmas an extraordinary time every year. From the peace that Christmas offered Tabatha during a turbulent childhood, to Ken's family's amusing tradition of not wrapping gifts, we explore how these experiences shape our holiday spirit. We promise you'll walk away with a renewed appreciation for how diverse and meaningful holiday customs can be.
Our conversation isn't just about the past; we delve into the profound significance of Christmas as a celebration of Jesus's birth, adding layers of meaning to cherished family gatherings and festive feasts. From homemade sausage gravy and biscuits to the essential Christmas sugar cookies, we share the flavors and aromas that make our holiday tables unforgettable.
The holiday magic doesn't stop there. We invite you to experience the warmth and joy of our family traditions, from classic Christmas movies and candlelight services to the playful innocence of Santa Claus stories.
Merry Christmas!! We love you all and appreciate your support.

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - Recognizing and Overcoming Emotional Hurt: Steps to Healing
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04/10/25 • 34 min

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What do you do when someone wounds you deeply? The reality is that emotional hurt is part of the human experience, but far too many people remain trapped in cycles of pain, resentment, and withdrawal long after the initial injury. In this candid and powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha expose what they call a "hurt epidemic" sweeping through communities and churches worldwide.
Drawing from personal experience with trauma, rejection, and betrayal, they offer a refreshingly practical approach to emotional healing. You'll discover the transformative principle of "cast, don't carry" - a visualization exercise where you literally hand your hurts over to a higher power. This isn't theoretical spirituality but a tangible practice that has brought freedom to countless lives.
The biblical story of Joseph becomes a powerful case study in overcoming significant betrayal without becoming bitter. His declaration to his brothers - "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good" - provides a template for anyone who's been wounded by others yet refuses to let those wounds define their destiny.
What sets this conversation apart is its balanced approach. Ken and Tabatha acknowledge the reality of legitimate hurts while challenging the tendency toward perpetual victimhood. They distinguish between "hurts that are hurtful" and "perceived hurts," offering wisdom for addressing both. Their perspective shift from "victim to victor" isn't about denying pain but refusing to let it have the final word in your story.
Whether you're carrying church hurt, relational betrayal, or family wounds, this episode provides the practical tools and spiritual insights needed to break free and reclaim your purpose. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear that their greatest pain might become their greatest purpose.

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - 3 Keys to a Better Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
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06/13/24 • 40 min

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When we tied the knot, we never imagined that our road to happily ever after would include detours through depression, communication breakdowns, and a near-divorce. But here we are, 25 years later, sharing not just our lives but a bond tighter than most. Today's episode peels back the curtain on our own marriage, revealing that even the rockiest of relationships can evolve into an extraordinary love story. We've distilled our journey into keys that unlock continuous improvement, whether your marriage feels like it's hanging by a thread or it's already the stuff of fairytales. Our candid conversation serves up hope and practical steps to nourish the health of your partnership, proving that dedication and the right tools are the secret ingredients to a fulfilling, lifelong commitment.

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - How to Live a God First Life with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
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06/20/24 • 51 min

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Ever wonder how prioritizing a God-first life can transform your everyday experiences? Join us for an inspiring journey as we share the story behind "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," from the initial spark of an idea to the heartfelt decision to make it happen. We reflect on the profound impact of living with a God-centered approach and how it has enriched our lives, providing valuable insights that go beyond our weekly sermons. You'll hear about the motivations and processes that brought our podcast to life, aiming to cover a spectrum of topics such as relationships, finances, and personal growth.

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - Lessons from 25 Years of Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
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06/27/24 • 52 min

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Ever wondered what it takes to sustain a loving, committed marriage for 25 years? Join us on this special anniversary episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, where we share 25 essential marriage principles that have helped us thrive. From navigating the turbulent early years to developing spiritual maturity, we reflect on our journey and offer insights that can help you deepen your relationship with both God and your loved ones.

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - Building a Godly and Intimate Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
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07/11/24 • 29 min

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Have you ever wondered how to navigate the tricky waters of a marriage where faith and commitment levels differ between partners? In this heartfelt episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," we promise you'll gain actionable insights into enhancing your relationship and finding fulfillment. We open up about the importance of self-examination and living a godly lifestyle to influence your spouse positively.

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha - Ingredients for Revival: What We Learned From Asbury
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03/21/23 • 38 min

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https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclay...
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-

GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)
DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
Support Our Ministry:
https://myalivechurch.org/give
Connect with us:
- Website:
https://www.kenclaytor.com
https://www.tabathaclaytor.com
https://www.myalivechurch.org
- Socials:
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/
https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/
TikTok-
@Ken_Claytor
@Tabathaclaytor
@myalivechurch
Facebook-
https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytor
https://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytor
https://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch
- Ask us questions:
[email protected]

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How many episodes does Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha have?

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha currently has 138 episodes available.

What topics does Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha cover?

The podcast is about Suicide, Christianity, Society & Culture, Parenting, Spirituality, Love, Mental Health, Religion & Spirituality, God, Podcasts, Marriage, Relationships, Health, Sexuality and Bible.

What is the most popular episode on Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha?

The episode title 'The Fully Trained Marriage | How to Have a Resilient Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha?

The average episode length on Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha is 39 minutes.

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Episodes of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha was released on Dec 30, 2022.

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