Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor

For over 20 years now, we’ve fought the good fight of faith, and along the way we have learned so much about living a God-first life. Before Jesus, Tabatha was diagnosed depressed for over 12 years, we had $100,000 in debt, and we were headed straight for divorce. But when we started living for God, our lives radically changed. Tabatha was healed, we prospered financially, and we became best friends. With God's help, we learned how to do life well. And that’s exactly why we’ve created this Podcast – to help you do life with us and do it well. We will help you unlock principles for doing life God’s way, which will lead you to more joy, more peace, and true freedom.

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10 Ways to Prepare for Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

08/03/23 • 39 min

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Ever wondered why some relationships flourish while others flounder? Today, we're going to guide you on a journey to unlock the answers. We start by shattering a common misconception: your satisfaction comes from God, not from being married. With insights drawn from our own experiences, both as singles and married individuals, we propose 10 transformative ways to prime yourself for marriage. Our aim is to help you step into marriage as a fulfilled individual, rather than two halves seeking completion.
Let's switch gears a bit and venture into the exciting, yet often puzzling world of dating. Cultivating an unshakeable level of inner confidence is key. No desperation allowed here! We'll explain why having a life outside of dating is just as important as the dating itself. We'll also talk about why it's essential to focus more on spiritual qualities rather than being overly hung up on physical appearances.
And finally, are you ready to make your marriage a success? We'll highlight the value of investing time in prayer, mission trips, and small groups. It's about being actively engaged in the work of the Lord. We'll also discuss the importance of being in the best shape of your life - spiritually, emotionally, and physically. And no, we're not just talking about hitting the gym, but presenting the best version of yourself in every possible way. Remember, you don't have to wait until you're married to learn about marriage. So, whether you're single, dating, or considering proposing, join us as we share our experiences and insights to guide you on your relationship journey.

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Racism the part we play to end it

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

03/30/23 • 45 min

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Christmas with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

12/12/24 • 42 min

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Ever wonder how unwrapping gifts can spark a lively debate during Christmas morning festivities? Join us, as we recount our personal tales and unique traditions that make Christmas an extraordinary time every year. From the peace that Christmas offered Tabatha during a turbulent childhood, to Ken's family's amusing tradition of not wrapping gifts, we explore how these experiences shape our holiday spirit. We promise you'll walk away with a renewed appreciation for how diverse and meaningful holiday customs can be.
Our conversation isn't just about the past; we delve into the profound significance of Christmas as a celebration of Jesus's birth, adding layers of meaning to cherished family gatherings and festive feasts. From homemade sausage gravy and biscuits to the essential Christmas sugar cookies, we share the flavors and aromas that make our holiday tables unforgettable.
The holiday magic doesn't stop there. We invite you to experience the warmth and joy of our family traditions, from classic Christmas movies and candlelight services to the playful innocence of Santa Claus stories.
Merry Christmas!! We love you all and appreciate your support.

Recognizing and Overcoming Emotional Hurt: Steps to Healing

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

04/10/25 • 34 min

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What do you do when someone wounds you deeply? The reality is that emotional hurt is part of the human experience, but far too many people remain trapped in cycles of pain, resentment, and withdrawal long after the initial injury. In this candid and powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha expose what they call a "hurt epidemic" sweeping through communities and churches worldwide.
Drawing from personal experience with trauma, rejection, and betrayal, they offer a refreshingly practical approach to emotional healing. You'll discover the transformative principle of "cast, don't carry" - a visualization exercise where you literally hand your hurts over to a higher power. This isn't theoretical spirituality but a tangible practice that has brought freedom to countless lives.
The biblical story of Joseph becomes a powerful case study in overcoming significant betrayal without becoming bitter. His declaration to his brothers - "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good" - provides a template for anyone who's been wounded by others yet refuses to let those wounds define their destiny.
What sets this conversation apart is its balanced approach. Ken and Tabatha acknowledge the reality of legitimate hurts while challenging the tendency toward perpetual victimhood. They distinguish between "hurts that are hurtful" and "perceived hurts," offering wisdom for addressing both. Their perspective shift from "victim to victor" isn't about denying pain but refusing to let it have the final word in your story.
Whether you're carrying church hurt, relational betrayal, or family wounds, this episode provides the practical tools and spiritual insights needed to break free and reclaim your purpose. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear that their greatest pain might become their greatest purpose.

Sexless Marriage? Why Intimacy Fades & How to Reignite It

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

05/15/25 • 34 min

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Feeling the chill in your marriage bedroom? You're not alone. In this raw and honest episode, Ken and Tabatha break down the walls of silence surrounding sexless marriages, offering hope and practical wisdom from their 25-year journey together.
Marriage isn't always sexy – especially when life throws curveballs like career stress, parenting demands, health challenges, and aging bodies into the mix. After navigating breast cancer, menopause, and the everyday complexities of long-term commitment, Ken and Tabatha share how they've maintained a vibrant intimate connection despite the obstacles.
"When you're not in the mood" becomes more than just an occasional state – for many couples, it evolves into a persistent pattern that threatens the marriage foundation. The hosts challenge listeners to examine whether they've settled for less than God's design for marital intimacy, offering a biblical framework from 1 Corinthians 7 that reframes sex as both a privilege and responsibility within marriage.
Through candid conversation, they address common barriers to physical connection: exhaustion, body image issues, medical challenges, and the subtle ways couples begin prioritizing everything except their intimate life. Tabitha specifically speaks to women about recognizing and embracing their own sexual desires rather than viewing intimacy solely as meeting their husband's needs.
This conversation goes beyond bedroom techniques to address the heart issues that lead to sexual disconnection. Whether you're struggling with mismatched sex drives, physical limitations, or simply finding yourself in a pattern of rejection and resentment, this episode offers a pathway back to the intimate connection you once shared.
Ready to turn up the heat in your marriage? Listen now, and be sure to catch part two of this essential conversation about making Christian married sex great again.

The Power of Positive Living with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

08/29/24 • 36 min

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Have you ever wondered how a positive perspective can transform your life and relationships? Join us as we share our personal stories of growing closer to God and each other by embracing traits like patience, self-love, joy, and peace. We discuss our commitment to living joyfully regardless of circumstances, while we also open up about our quest for greater patience and self-compassion. Together, we debate who is more positive and how we can improve, aiming to inspire you to enhance your personal and spiritual growth.

Growing in Jesus with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

08/01/24 • 46 min

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Have you ever felt like your spiritual growth has hit a plateau? You're not alone. Join us as we share their deeply personal journeys—Ken from a Christian upbringing and Tabatha from an unchurched childhood—illustrating that growing in Jesus is a lifelong adventure marked by highs and lows. Whether you're a lifelong believer or just starting to explore faith, this discussion provides valuable insights into how our diverse experiences shape our spiritual paths and the importance of constantly seeking a closer relationship with God.

Single, Saved & Over It - Believing God for Spouse Without Settling

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

04/17/25 • 24 min

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How to Have a Spirit Filled Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

03/07/24 • 44 min

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Embark on an intimate voyage with us as we recount the pivotal moments of our marriage, marked by both trials and victories. We reveal how the Power of the Holy Spirit breathes new life into our union, turning our struggles into shared strengths. From the metaphorical 'death' of a tumultuous past to the rebirth of our relationship, we provide insights into the profound changes that led us to a more fulfilling, God-centered marriage. It's not just our story; it's an open invitation for every listener to discover spiritual renewal within their own lives.

Ingredients for Revival: What We Learned From Asbury

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

03/21/23 • 38 min

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How many episodes does Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha have?

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha currently has 137 episodes available.

What topics does Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha cover?

The podcast is about Suicide, Christianity, Society & Culture, Parenting, Spirituality, Love, Mental Health, Religion & Spirituality, God, Podcasts, Marriage, Relationships, Health, Sexuality and Bible.

What is the most popular episode on Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha?

The episode title 'The Fully Trained Marriage | How to Have a Resilient Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha?

The average episode length on Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha is 39 minutes.

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Episodes of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha?

The first episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha was released on Dec 30, 2022.

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