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Diary, She Wrote - Series 1, Ep. 7 - Can I Tell You A Secret?
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Series 1, Ep. 7 - Can I Tell You A Secret?

03/01/20 • 24 min

Diary, She Wrote

This week's episode is taken from April 2014 and is about the highs and the lows of dating in London. Dating apps were just beginning to really take off, but it wasn’t rare to still meet people in real life. This story features another guy who plays a big role in my life, but of course when I first met him, I didn’t know the impact he was going to have and I love that I have my first impression of him captured in my diary.

Follow Instagram for more extracts from my Diaries: https://www.instagram.com/diaryshewrote/

Key Characters:

Ashlee, Lily, Dawn, Tim - Some of my oldest friends

Beth - My best mate

Eric Taylor - The God who solved my vaginismus

Heather, Brittany, Jacob, Katie, Matt, Atlas, Caroline, Dillon, Adina, Dave, James, Mick, Marie - London friends

Sam - A guy I dated

Dan - My ex boyfriend who I spent 11 years with from 2001 - 2012

Rowan - One of my best mates who I met in my single years

Mum - Family

Isaac - A London friend and the first man I fancied after ending my 11 year relationship

Johnny - A one night stand

Locations:

The Spurstowe Arms
http://www.thespurstowearms.com/

The Prince George
http://www.theprincegeorgepub.co.uk/

Voodoo Rays
http://voodoorays.com/

Royal Free Hospital
https://www.royalfree.nhs.uk/

Floyd’s
Restaurant on Shacklewell Lane, Hackney, now closed

Towpath Cafe
https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Towpath-Cafe/118939978161114

Shacklewell Arms
http://www.shacklewellarms.com/

HBV Dalston
https://www.hackneyicare.org.uk/kb5/hackney/asch/service.page?id=WV1aOPYUtQ0

Euston Station
https://www.nationalrail.co.uk/stations_destinations/eus.aspx

Trangallan
https://www.trangallan.com/

Scolt Head
https://www.thescolthead.co.uk/

Efes
Snooker Club on Stoke Newington Road, now closed

The Alibi
Club on Kingsland High Street, now closed

Rita’s Dining
https://www.ritasdining.com/

Oslo
http://oslohackney.com/

Dalston Kingsland Centre
http://www.kingslandshopping.com/

Entertainment References:

Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin consciously uncouple after 10 years of marriage
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/shortcuts/2014/mar/26/conscious-uncoupling-gwyneth-paltrow-chris-martin-separation

The Grand Budapest Hotel
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Grand_Budapest_Hotel

The Ice Bucket Challenge
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ice_Bucket_Challenge

Tinder
https://tinder.com

David Gandy
https://www.instagram.com/davidgandy_official/?hl=en

Jack Guiness
https://www.instagram.com/jackguinness/?hl=en

Alexa Chung
https://www.instagram.com/alexachung/?hl=en

Friday Night Lights
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friday_Night_Lights_(TV_series)

Glastonbury
https://www.glastonburyfestivals.co.uk/

Medical References:

Vaginismus
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/vaginismus/

Diary, She Wrote was produced by Liz Beardsell, and edited and engineered by Ethan Illingworth

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This week's episode is taken from April 2014 and is about the highs and the lows of dating in London. Dating apps were just beginning to really take off, but it wasn’t rare to still meet people in real life. This story features another guy who plays a big role in my life, but of course when I first met him, I didn’t know the impact he was going to have and I love that I have my first impression of him captured in my diary.

Follow Instagram for more extracts from my Diaries: https://www.instagram.com/diaryshewrote/

Key Characters:

Ashlee, Lily, Dawn, Tim - Some of my oldest friends

Beth - My best mate

Eric Taylor - The God who solved my vaginismus

Heather, Brittany, Jacob, Katie, Matt, Atlas, Caroline, Dillon, Adina, Dave, James, Mick, Marie - London friends

Sam - A guy I dated

Dan - My ex boyfriend who I spent 11 years with from 2001 - 2012

Rowan - One of my best mates who I met in my single years

Mum - Family

Isaac - A London friend and the first man I fancied after ending my 11 year relationship

Johnny - A one night stand

Locations:

The Spurstowe Arms
http://www.thespurstowearms.com/

The Prince George
http://www.theprincegeorgepub.co.uk/

Voodoo Rays
http://voodoorays.com/

Royal Free Hospital
https://www.royalfree.nhs.uk/

Floyd’s
Restaurant on Shacklewell Lane, Hackney, now closed

Towpath Cafe
https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Towpath-Cafe/118939978161114

Shacklewell Arms
http://www.shacklewellarms.com/

HBV Dalston
https://www.hackneyicare.org.uk/kb5/hackney/asch/service.page?id=WV1aOPYUtQ0

Euston Station
https://www.nationalrail.co.uk/stations_destinations/eus.aspx

Trangallan
https://www.trangallan.com/

Scolt Head
https://www.thescolthead.co.uk/

Efes
Snooker Club on Stoke Newington Road, now closed

The Alibi
Club on Kingsland High Street, now closed

Rita’s Dining
https://www.ritasdining.com/

Oslo
http://oslohackney.com/

Dalston Kingsland Centre
http://www.kingslandshopping.com/

Entertainment References:

Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin consciously uncouple after 10 years of marriage
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/shortcuts/2014/mar/26/conscious-uncoupling-gwyneth-paltrow-chris-martin-separation

The Grand Budapest Hotel
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Grand_Budapest_Hotel

The Ice Bucket Challenge
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ice_Bucket_Challenge

Tinder
https://tinder.com

David Gandy
https://www.instagram.com/davidgandy_official/?hl=en

Jack Guiness
https://www.instagram.com/jackguinness/?hl=en

Alexa Chung
https://www.instagram.com/alexachung/?hl=en

Friday Night Lights
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friday_Night_Lights_(TV_series)

Glastonbury
https://www.glastonburyfestivals.co.uk/

Medical References:

Vaginismus
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/vaginismus/

Diary, She Wrote was produced by Liz Beardsell, and edited and engineered by Ethan Illingworth

Previous Episode

undefined - Series 1, Ep. 6 - If He's Playing A Game He's Winning

Series 1, Ep. 6 - If He's Playing A Game He's Winning

After I split up with Dan, who I’d spent the whole of my twenties with, I was faced with a situation where many of my friends were now married, had started a family and were moving out of London to buy a home. I realised that over the last 11 years I’d not made an effort to expand my friendship circle other than the friends I’d naturally made at university & at work. And despite feeling lonely at points, I was still excited about single life, I saw it as an opportunity. I always knew London was one of the most exciting places to live, I was in awe of the lives others lived and I knew I was just skimming the service, I wanted to meet new people, stay out all night, go on dates & try new things.

This week's reading is taken from April - Aug 2013 and they are predominantly about one amazing man, and now a friend, he was the first guy I fancied after ending my 11 year relationship, and they touch on my first steps into dating and ALL the confusion that comes with it.

Follow Instagram for more extracts from my Diaries: https://www.instagram.com/diaryshewrote/

Key Characters:

Dan - My ex boyfriend who I spent 11 years with from 2001 - 2012

Beth - My best mate

Rowan - One of my best mates who I met in my single years

Isaac - A London friend and the first man I fancied after ending my 11 year relationship

Ollie, Atlas, Heather, Caroline, Holly - London Friends

Lily, Alf, Susie, Ellie - Some of my oldest friends

Jared - A one night stand

Locations:

Shoreditch House
https://www.shoreditchhouse.com/

Columbia Road
http://www.columbiaroad.info/

The Fox
Pub on Kingsland Road - Now closed down

Scolt Head
https://www.thescolthead.co.uk/

Duke of Wellington
https://www.frontierpubs.co.uk/your-local/duke-of-wellington-dalston-pub/

The Hunter S
http://www.thehunter-s-pub.co.uk/

Kempton Antiques Market
https://www.sunburyantiques.com/kempton/

A Little Bit Of What You Fancy
Restaurant on Kingsland Road - Now closed down

The Dead Dolls Club
Bar on Kingsland Road - Now closed down

John Lewis
https://www.johnlewis.com/

Old Blue Last
https://www.theoldbluelast.com/

Looking Glass Cocktail Club
http://www.lookingglasslondon.co.uk/

Broadway Market
https://broadwaymarket.co.uk/

Off Broadway
https://www.offbroadway.org.uk/

Entertainment References:

David Beckham retires from professional football:
https://www.independent.co.uk/sport/football/news-and-comment/david-beckham-retires-the-time-is-right-to-retire-from-football-8619336.html

Andy Murray Wins Wimbledon
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/av/tennis/23220414

Miley Cyrus and Robin Thick MTV VMA’s 2013
https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/twerk-it-out-miley-and-robins-vma-performance-one-year-later-65286/

Land of Kings
https://www.hackneycitizen.co.uk/2013/04/09/dalston-prepares-land-of-kings-festival/

Grazia Magazine
https://graziadaily.co.uk/

Mud
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mud_(2012_film)

Burning Man
https://burningman.org/

New Girl
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Girl

Diary, She Wrote was produced by Liz Beardsell, and edited and engineered by Ethan Illingworth

Next Episode

undefined - Series 1, Ep. 8 - I Don't Like People

Series 1, Ep. 8 - I Don't Like People

This week's episode is taken from the shortest time period, just 5 days of diary entries. I think it’s a great example of a Sliding Doors moment, there is a point in the story where I am offered a glass of red wine, and had I said no, I would have had a totally different 5 day experience.

Follow Instagram for more extracts from my Diaries: https://www.instagram.com/diaryshewrote/

Key Characters:

Elliot Lite - A Parisian fling

Rowan - One of my best mates who I met in my single years

Beth - My best mate

Grace - One of my best mates who I met in my single years

Dexter Turner - A guy who briefly entered and quickly exited my life on a number of occasions and unjustifiably has become one of those people who is hard to shake off and annoyingly someone I’m quite fond of.

Brother, Dad - Family

Miles - A guy I dated

Laura - A London friend

Locations:

Hotel Amore
https://www.hotelamourparis.fr/en/

Merci
https://www.merci-merci.com/en/

Poulette
https://www.pouletterestaurant.com/

Berghain
https://www.berghain.berlin/en/

Palais De Tokyo
https://www.palaisdetokyo.com/en

Eiffel Tower
https://www.eiffeltickets.com/

Louvre
https://www.louvre.fr/en

Chez Janou
http://www.chezjanou.com/

Sacre Coeur
http://www.sacre-coeur-montmartre.com/english/

Pompidou Centre
https://www.centrepompidou.fr/en

Jim's Cafe
https://jimscafe.co.uk/

Cultural References:

100 Year WW1 Anniversary
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_World_War_centenary

Single-use
https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/single-use

Entertainment References:

Sliding Doors
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sliding_Doors

Jodie Whittaker
https://www.instagram.com/jodie.whittakeruk/

Dr Who
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doctor_Who

Thierry Henry
https://www.instagram.com/thierryhenry/

Terminator 2
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terminator_2:_Judgment_Day

Speed
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Speed_(1994_film)

Die Hard 3
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Die_Hard_with_a_Vengeance

Love Actually
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_Actually

Whiplash
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whiplash_(2014_film)

Lost In Paris
https://lostin.com/products/lost-in-paris

Photo Paris
https://www.parisphoto.com/en/Home/

Fotografiska
https://www.fotografiska.com/london/

Saatchi Gallery
https://www.saatchigallery.com/

Blue Is The Warmest Colour
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_Is_the_Warmest_Colour

Ralph Lauren
https://www.ralphlauren.co.uk/

Daniel Day Lewis
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Day-Lewis

Dr Martens
https://www.drmartens.com/uk/en_gb/

Killing Eve
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killing_Eve

Diary, She Wrote was produced by Liz Beardsell, and edited and engineered by Ethan Illingworth

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