Derate The Hate

Wilk

Bettering the world one attitude at a time. We did not create the hate, but together, we can Derate The Hate! In a world filled with divisiveness, and dominated by F.O.G. (Fear, Outrage & Grievance), it's time we find a better way to engage. That all starts with each of us as individuals. We cannot control all that we encounter within our day to day lives, or the environment in which we live, but we certainly have the ability and responsibility to control how we react to it. For me, it starts with gratitude and personal accountability. Take a listen and see if there is something here to help you in taking your part in turning down the hate. Welcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast...

All episodes

Best episodes

Top 10 Derate The Hate Episodes

Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Derate The Hate episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Derate The Hate for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Derate The Hate episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Thanksgiving, a Time For Gratitude... Replay of DTH Classic Episode 53

Derate The Hate

11/22/23 • 25 min

Thanksgiving, a Time For Gratitude
Thanksgiving serves as a poignant reminder that gratitude should not be confined to a single day but embraced every day. This special occasion, however, magnifies the importance of acknowledging and appreciating the blessings in our lives. Beyond the festive feast and familial gatherings, Thanksgiving cultivates a spirit of thankfulness that ideally extends into our daily routines. It prompts reflection on the multitude of reasons to be grateful, encouraging a mindset where appreciation becomes a constant companion. In essence, while Thanksgiving provides a dedicated moment for gratitude, it serves as a catalyst for fostering an ongoing attitude of thankfulness in our hearts, reminding us to cherish life's abundant gifts each day.
For the full show notes for Episode 53, Click the link below:
https://deratethehate.com/episodes/episode-53-attitude-of-gratitude-and-personal-accountability-challenge-1-year-anniversary-episode-448What have you done today to make your life a better life? What have you done today to make the world a better place? The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us leading a better life. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for everything you’ve got. Make each and every day the day that you want it to be!

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter , TruthSocial, Parler, Rumble, YouTube

Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio. Please leave us a rating and feedback. Send me a message on any media platform or subscribe directly from our sites. Let us know about someone you think should be on our podcast. If we book them for a conversation, I’ll send you a free gift! Not on social media? You can share your thoughts directly with me at

What have you done today to make your life a better life? What have you done today to make the world a better place? The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for everything you’ve got. Make each and every day the day that you want it to be!

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or directly from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. Not on social media? You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our site’s contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Episode 92: What's It Mean to be a Person of Influence?

Derate The Hate

01/19/22 • 14 min

What is aperson of influence? When most people think of people of influence, they often think of sports stars, celebrities, politicians, etc. What if I told you that you that you, no matter what you think of yourself, are most likely in some way a person of influence?
This week I talk a little about one of the most well known persons of influence this country has ever known, Martin Luther King Jr.. Dr. King changed the world through peace, love, understanding and common humanity. While MLK was a force for good, and an incredibly positive person of influence, not all people of influence are forces for good. The influence goes both ways, as is very evident in most peoples' news feed on their social media feed of choice (or main stream media channel)...
Not all people of influence a force for good in your life, so choose wisely. Check out this incredibly important episode, share it with your network far and wide, and help me be a person of influence and a force for good in what at times seems like a sea of divisiveness and darkness.
What have you done today to make your life a better life? What have you done today to make the world a better place? The world is a better place if we are better people, and that begins with each of us leading a better life. Be kind to one another, be grateful for everything you’ve got, and make each and every day the day that you want it to be!

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on Facebook, MeWe, Instagram, Twitter . Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio. Please leave us a rating and feedback. Send me a message on any media platform or subscribe directly from our sites. Let us know about someone you think should be on our podcast, and if we book them for a conversation, I’ll send you a free gift! Not on social media? You can share your thoughts directly with me at [email protected]

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Episode 16: Memories, Make Them Good

Derate The Hate

08/07/20 • 13 min

Welcome back my friends! Wilk here again from WilksWorld.com with Episode 16 of our #DerateTheHate podcast talking about not only making good memories, but more importantly, sharing those good times in life on Facebook so when they pop up as memories one, two or several years down the road, you have something good to look back on instead of all the negativity.
We may be living through some of the most turbulent times in human history, and my beautiful wife made a fantastic point the other day in a post on Facebook. As anyone who is a regular listener knows, or who has read some of my blog at WilksOpinion.com, I oftentimes refer to social media as a dumpster fire of Hate, Lies and Misinformation. My wife's post from the other day speaks for itself and read as follows:
"My little guy!...where does the time go? I love these memories and posts that remind me of times years ago and looking back on them.

He is now 11 and, right now, is with his scout patrol working on balloon rockets in the park. While I sit here and watch the young man I’m raising, and watching other families playing with their children, I can’t help but be thankful for theses little reminders that pop up every day.

There is a reason I don’t post anything about our current state of affairs, political and/or virus related. I see my own relatives and friends going fist for fist arguing about who is right or wrong and why. I frankly can’t stand it and I don’t even look at their posts anymore.

A year from now, two years, five..I want to see memories with my children, my husband and my family. I look forward to these memories and posts year to year!

Are you looking forward to yours?"
With that I'm going to say, when you can get back out among each other, be kind to one another, be grateful for everything you've got, and make each and every day the day that you want it to be! We'll catch you next week...

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Episode 10: Yes is Easy, but No is the Right Answer

Derate The Hate

06/26/20 • 16 min

Welcome back my friends to the Derate the Hate podcast. Wilk here from WilksWorld.com with the 10th episode of our podcast. I cannot believe it's been 10 weeks since we started this podcast. I want to express my sincere appreciation for all those who are supporting us and our podcast. If you would please, jump on a computer or laptop and subscribe wherever you get your podcasts and leave us a review, and of course, share us with your friends or whoever you may think would benefit!
OK, so in episode 10 I'm pointing out something that has been one of my greatest flaws as someone who tends to be a people pleaser. All too often, many of us find it easier to say YES when the answer really should be NO. Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone asked you a favor, or to do something you really didn't want to or didn't have the time to do, but you said yes anyway, almost out of instinct. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Many of us find ourselves saying yes to things we should not simply because we don't want to appear rude or confrontational, but saying NO is not rude, it is necessary in many situations...
Saying yes when we should have said no can lead to animosity, resentment and to some degree degrade our self-worth leading to one of the worst kinds of hate, self-hate. As an adult, we are responsible for our own happiness and as such have to take accountability for our actions. If we say yes to doing something that we should have said no to, we have taken what first appears to be the easy route but leads to worse consequences. This concept is also important in parenting where NO is often the correct answer but for the sake of ease we choose the easy YES and a prime parenting opportunity is lost to an emotional response where a logical solution was needed. This is something I personally have worked hard to correct in my life and hopefully something I say in this episode can steer you in the right direction.
In this weeks feel good story I talk about the young Tetreau sisters in Kelowna, B.C. who's lemonade stand went missing under questionable circumstances and a stranger came to the rescue and built them a new one. This great story is about good people helping good people and we need more of this during the extraordinary and troubling times.
Until next week

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Episode 8: Misery Loves Company

Derate The Hate

06/11/20 • 17 min

Welcome back my friends! Wilk from WilksWorld.com here with Episode 8 of the Derate the Hate podcast. We all know at least one person that has a complete inability to see the positive in anything, someone that has nothing positive to say and is always spreading negativity. In this episode I talk about how being positive in the initial part of any conversation can guide the way that conversation can go and the chain reaction effect of positivity or negativity in the people with which you may be interacting. Much like the financial principle that you are the average of the 5 people you associate with most, it is my opinion that you are incapable of being a happy and positive person if the people you associate with most are always negative and miserable. I have a sign in my office that says "3 ways to fail at everything in life" 1. Complain about everything 2. Never be grateful 3. Blame others for your problems. I contend that those who are constantly complaining about everything are both incapable of being happy and will always be a failure. One may have temporary successes such as athletes and movie stars and so forth, but if they are doing nothing but complaining, they are miserable people and are truly failures at life. Whether famous or not, someone who complains all the time is not someone to be around or they will bring you down with them...
Surround yourself whenever possible with positive people, those who have the ability to spread cheer and positivity rather than constant misery and negativity. If you don't, soon you will be the one that is spreading nothing but misery, because as I've said, Misery Loves Company.
Whenever you get the opportunity to get out among the people, be kind to each other, be grateful for everything you've got, and remember that it's up to you to make each day the day you want it to be!

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Episode 5: You Made Me Mad!

Derate The Hate

05/21/20 • 18 min

Welcome back my friends! Wilk from WilksWorld.com here and in episode 5, I am talking about emotions and the importance of not allowing emotions to dictate our actions. Many years ago, my father and I were discussing some issues I was dealing with at the time. He said something that stuck with me from that point on but never fully understood until many years later when I first heard of Austrian Psychotherapist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl and his teachings that one cannot always control what happens to them, but they can control how they react to it (paraphrasing). Emotions can be a very tricky thing, and to truly be happy and to be someone that is pleasant for others to be around, my life experience has taught me that you must become the master of your emotions instead of allowing your emotions to dictate your actions. Nobody can "make" you do anything, and by conquering your emotions, you no longer allow the actions of others to be any kind of guiding principle on how you react. By becoming self-accountable, you become the master of your own domain, so to speak.
Please let us know what you think. Subscribe wherever you prefer to get your podcasts, and please leave a review. Look for us on Facebook by searching for Wilk's World, or check out my blog at wilksopinion.com where I discuss different things a bit different than here.
Above all things, be kind to each other, be grateful every day for what you've got, and remember, it's up to you to make each day what you want it to be.

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Where Confidence & Arrogance Differ, & Why Being Kind Always Matters... DTH Episode 215 with Alan Lazaros

Derate The Hate

06/12/24 • 43 min

Where Confidence & Arrogance Differ, & Why Being Kind Always Matters
Today, Wilk is joined by Alan Lazaros, who shares his remarkable journey of overcoming adversity and trauma to achieve true success and fulfillment. Alan emphasizes the crucial distinction between confidence and arrogance, underscoring that genuine confidence comes from self-reflection and healing past wounds, not from professional achievements alone.
Alan’s story highlights the importance of balancing personal development with professional success, illustrating that inner fulfillment is essential for overall well-being. He explores themes of empathy, compassion, and understanding, urging listeners to approach others with kindness and recognize that everyone is fighting their own battles.
The conversation also delves into issues like bullying, self-belief, and the need for therapy and mindset work to build self-worth. Alan's insights serve as a powerful reminder that fulfilled individuals do not harm others and that it is our responsibility to lead by example with kindness and respect.
Takeaways:

Adversity can be a catalyst for personal growth and transformation.
There is a crucial difference between confidence and arrogance; true confidence stems from inner fulfillment.
Confronting past traumas and engaging in self-reflection are essential for personal development.
Balancing professional and personal growth is crucial for long-term success and well-being.
Approach others with empathy and compassion, as everyone is battling something.
Bullying often stems from trauma and low self-belief; it’s important to stand up to bullies without becoming one.
Personal growth, therapy, and mindset work are key to building self-worth and achieving goals.
Fulfilled people do not hurt others, and it is our duty to lead by example with kindness and respect.

Join us for this enlightening conversation and be inspired to prioritize personal growth, empathy, and the true meaning of confidence in your life.
Learn more about and connect with Alan Lazaros by checking out the full show notes for this episode at www.DerateTheHate.com.

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

If Your Life Sucks, It's Your Fault, Change It... DTH Episode 184 with Nico Lagan

Derate The Hate

10/26/23 • 44 min

If Your Life Sucks, It's Your Fault, Change It
Masculinity, in and of itself, is not toxic; it is a complex and multifaceted aspect of identity. However, men are undeniably influenced by the role models they look up to while growing up. If they choose toxic individuals as mentors, they may inadvertently follow a path of toxicity. The key to positive masculinity lies in fostering purpose and a sense of meaning in one's life. When men have a clear sense of purpose, they are more likely to make choices that align with their values and ideals, regardless of societal expectations. Ultimately, we have the agency to shape our destiny and the life we want to live by selecting mentors and role models who embody the virtues and values we wish to emulate. Join Wilk and Nico Lagan in their discussion that starts with "toxic masculinity" but goes into so much more. You may just come away realizing, "if your life sucks, it's your fault, change it."
Who is Nico Lagan?
Nico Lagan is a Social Media Strategist, Men's Coach, Author & Podcaster who engages thought-provoking discussions on masculinity, conservative news, common sense insights, politics, humor, stoicism, Gnosticism, Christianity. He is not your typical internet influencer. Nico is someone who dives deep in the pursuit of understanding of ancient masculinity, staying informed about conservative news, and finding humor in the world, all within the context of Christian values. I am honored to call Nico a friend and have him as my guest on this week's DTH podcast.
Learn more about and connect with Nico Lagan by checking out the show notes for this episode at DerateTheHate.com.
What have you done today to make your life a better life? What have you done today to make the world a better place? The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us leading a better life. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for everything you’ve got. Make each and every day the day that you want it to be!

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter , TruthSocial,

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

The Trans Community IS NOT A Monolith... DTH Episode 179 with Zander Keig

Derate The Hate

09/20/23 • 54 min

The Trans Community IS NOT A Monolith
Assuming that groups of people think as a monolith is a simplistic and often harmful mindset. It oversimplifies the rich diversity of perspectives and experiences within any given group, ignoring individual differences and perpetuating stereotypes. People are shaped by a multitude of factors, including their upbringing, culture, personal experiences, and beliefs, which can lead to a wide range of opinions and viewpoints even within the same demographic category. Recognizing and respecting this diversity is essential for fostering understanding and promoting inclusivity in our increasingly interconnected world. If you only listen to the loudest voices in modern society, you might not know that The Trans Community IS NOT A Monolith.
Who is Zander Keig?
Zander Keig is an award-winning social worker, author and educator. Zander is a first-generation American Latino transsexual man who delivers sought-after impactful emotional intelligence and constructive conflict resolution presentations, serves as an advisor and trainer for the LGBTQ Caregiver Center, and co-hosts the international radio show The Umbrella Hour.
I first learned of Zander through his past work with the organization FAIR (Foundation Against Intolerance & Racism) and then got to know more about him more recently through our work with Braver Angels. I'm excited to have Zander join me this week to discuss his thoughts and experience with the trans community and how they truly are no monolith in their thinking.
Learn more about and connect with Zander by checking out the full show notes for this episode at DerateTheHate.com
What have you done today to make your life a better life? What have you done today to make the world a better place? The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us leading a better life. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for everything you’ve got. Make each and every day the day that you want it to be!

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagr

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Barbarism Fueled By An Ideology of Hatred... Bonus Episode on the Terror Attacks in Israel with Moshe K. Levy

Derate The Hate

10/12/23 • 33 min

Barbarism Fueled By An Ideology of Hatred
What drives someone to commit the most evil acts imaginable by another human being? People are not born inherently evil, just like they are not born inherently good. Both are learned behaviors. Why then are some taught to hate others, to a point at which they would commit the unspeakable acts that have shocked the world in recent days, as the Jewish State of Israel was so brutally attacked by Hamas terrorists?
For this bonus conversation, I've invited back my friend Moshe K. Levy to discuss this barbarism fueled by an ideology of hatred.
Who is Moshe K. Levy?
Moshe K. Levy is a proud Zionist, father to three beautiful girls, and an avid motorcyclist. He received his MBA from New York University’s Stern School of Business and currently works as VP of Marketing and Sales at a high tech power supply manufacturer. He is also a columnist for several national motorcycle magazines. You may remember Moshe from back in DTH Episode 114 where a group of us discussed the Ibram X. Kendi book "Stamped".What have you done today to make your life a better life? What have you done today to make the world a better place? The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us leading a better life. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for everything you’ve got. Make each and every day the day that you want it to be!

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter , TruthSocial, Parler, Rumble, YouTube

Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube

If you would like to support the show, you’re welcome to DONATE or shop Amazon by going through our Support Us page and I’ll earn through qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Show more best episodes

FAQ

How many episodes does Derate The Hate have?

Derate The Hate currently has 244 episodes available.

What topics does Derate The Hate cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Happiness, Society & Culture, Accountability, Mental Health, Wisdom, Podcasts and Gratitude.

What is the most popular episode on Derate The Hate?

The episode title 'Humility & Free Speech Are Fundamental Prerequisites For Trust In Science... DTH Episode 174 with Dr. Jay Bhattacharya' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Derate The Hate?

The average episode length on Derate The Hate is 35 minutes.

How often are episodes of Derate The Hate released?

Episodes of Derate The Hate are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Derate The Hate?

The first episode of Derate The Hate was released on Apr 21, 2020.

Show more FAQ

Derate The Hate

Wilk

Top 10 Derate The Hate Episodes

FAQ

How many episodes does Derate The Hate have?

What topics does Derate The Hate cover?

What is the most popular episode on Derate The Hate?

What is the average episode length on Derate The Hate?

How often are episodes of Derate The Hate released?

When was the first episode of Derate The Hate?

Comments