EXPIRING TONIGHT: Masculinity Reclaimed ENROLLMENT; Free Men's Training; and Coaching Call!

06/19/20 • 0 min

Delight Your Marriage

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251-How Intimacy Affects Your (God-Given) Assignment

You have an Assignment (1 Cor 7:17). A plan a purpose God laid out for you to do.

A set group of people He wants you to impact.

Jesus didn't assign you to everyone.

He even had limits on himself.

Jesus himself limited his prayers: "I am not praying for the world, but for those whom you have given me" John 17:9

But if we think that we're supposed to be doing everything, we'll miss who He is really assigning us to. Thus, His perfect plan doesn't go forward.

This impacts your sex life, and is impacted by your sex life. Whether you're a woman or a man this has impact.

I think this allows us to all take a breath and say, "Lord help me to know who you have given me.

Help me to be content with who you have given me. Help me to truly serve, love and impact only those you have given me".

And if all of us did that... then the world would look a lot different, I think.

I share how I'm doing that in my life, with my family and in my current launch of the renewed Masculinity Reclaimed program right now.

I share how men I've worked with (who I believe God put in my assignment) have been able to stop "burning with passion" even though they're married and get on with what God wants them doing. Because after my program they are more Christ-centered men.

One--maybe surprising--thing I share in this episode is how I wish my ex-husband took the Masculinity Reclaimed course. It's basically written for a man who thinks like that to help him become a man who thinks like my current husband...a man by his behavior and heart motivates me to want to make love to him. (I'll tell you it works!)

I hope this encourages you to deeply reflect on your Assignment and the role sex plays in it. And I pray that will help direct your steps.

Enrollment for the Masculinity Reclaimed program is open now, but is closing very soon, so I hope you register now. Delightyourmarriage.com/mrsp

Once enrollment closes, it won't be around again this year.

Next Episode

252-The Sexiest Dad Alive! Interview with My Husband, Part 1

Like the title? LOL. I know, I know... I'm too much. But it was intriguing right? If not... pretend it was something more mature like: "How to Be the Man Your Wife Is Attracted To, Hint: Fatherhood Matters." That's what today's podcast is about. Here's a story that's not in the episode... Last night, our just-turned-7-year-old insisted that we relax on the couch with our wine while he made us dinner. He found a recipe for tacos in his school book and asked daddy to buy the right ingredients, so he could make it! Then when the 5-year-old finished showering, he taught his younger brother how to scoop the salsa, avocados, beans and lettuce into the shells. Between the two of them, about 1/8 of the ingredients landed on the floor... But golly---we ate dinner and didn't have to make it! You better believe those boys got some serious compliments and encouragement for treating mom and dad to a "feast"! And because of our reaction I'm sure it won't be the last time! (You should have seen those boys puff out their chests!) Am I bragging? Well, maybe. I think there is purpose to it. I'm hopefully casting a vision of what's possible when you have an amazing marriage. I never saw or heard of such things. EVER. Growing up. So, maybe this is me sharing a vision of what I wish I had had. Here's what I've learned... My son treats us that way because he imitates his dad. His dad treats me that way. And (I fail plenty... but..) I sure try to treat my husband that way. So, today, I invite my husband on to share his insights on fatherhood (and I share why that makes him irresistible to me!) In the past when he's come on I've received comments like: "I listened to a three part series about being peaceful and laid back [Episode 214-Transform to Be Easygoing Part 1 of 3]. As I listened to her husband talk I fell to my knees in tears. I have been teaching men for a long time, and have been thirsting for someone to look up to. Yes, it's Jesus. But I heard Jesus's character in these two's hearts. It was beautiful hearing Belah laugh at and affirm him. I loved it when he spoke so highly and with gratitude of her and listened to her sounds in the background. Their interactions and emotion while speaking is novel in a world where we are so used to sarcasm and selfishness and calloused feelings about our kids and loved ones." First of all, we are honored and humbled and feel unworthy of such praise. But are grateful that God could use our weak words to draw people to Himself. If you listen closely, curiously, carefully... I think you'll understand why I'm so attracted to this man and do all the "sexy stuff" because of who he IS. God bless! Belah