192: Opposites attract, but can they repair? (ft. Azrya & Benjamin Bequer)

02/18/22 • 50 min

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

When you're in a relationship, how do you navigate the really hard conversations — the ones where you know you could be risking everything by even engaging the topic. Like, for example, "I want kids" when you know the other person doesn't. Coordinating moments or even long periods of tension in a relationship with grace is part of what a healthy relationship is about. But it turns out you need to have a strong relationship with something else to even be able to do that in a romantic partnership. Listen for what that is.

Benjamin & Azrya's site: https://www.beqoming.me

Their IG: @beqoming

Benjamin & Azrya's site: https://www.beqoming.me

Their IG: @beqoming

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191: Supporting a woman in her sexual pleasure & healing (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola) [replay]

Sexual trauma shows up in different ways — both physically and emotionally. For example, some folks may not have undergone sexual abuse or assault, but have experienced religious trauma that actually impacts their physical body and experience of sex. If you've ever had a woman partner who struggled with vaginismus, vaginal dryness, sexual trauma, or other issues with ladyparts, you'll appreciate this non-judgmental, open conversation about sexual pleasure on the feminine side. Topics include vaginal steaming, the jade egg, sexual healing, and more. Plus shifts in levels of libido (what if hers is higher?) and how lubrication changes over time.

Violet's site: https://violetlange.com/

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193: Want freedom from attachment? You can get there. (ft. Tracy Crossley)

You can be an expert on your anxious, avoidant, or anxious/avoidant attachment style, but that doesn't necessarily help you actually get to healthy attachment. What does it actually take to get there? Tracy Crossley and I break it down, and in a fascinating twist we cover the link between healthy attachment to other human beings and your attachment to life itself. Tracy also shares her own in-depth experience of moving into healthy attachment over time — the work we each need to do solo, and then the work we must do in relationship.

To find Tracy's podcast: https://tracycrossley.com/podcast/