
Ep #132 Be Honest About What You Want
12/06/24 • 23 min
In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca Hogi reflects on her previous conversation with Tyler, focusing on the theme of honest communication in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of expressing one's needs and goals, particularly in the context of dating. Francesca encourages listeners to confront their fears and the potential downsides of vulnerability, highlighting that love and connection require conscious choices. She advocates for embracing emotional intimacy and the ripple effect of love in our lives, concluding with a call to action for listeners to engage in self-reflection and open-hearted communication.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Reflection on Previous Episode
02:48 The Importance of Honest Communication in Relationships
06:05 Understanding Your Needs and Goals
09:09 Facing Fears and Downsides in Relationships
11:59 The Power of Choice in Love and Relationships
14:50 Embracing Vulnerability and Emotional Intimacy
18:04 The Ripple Effect of Love and Connection
20:55 Conclusion and Call to Action
Apply to be coached by Franny for an upcoming episode HERE.
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Connect on social media:
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@dearfrannypodcast on Instagram
Credits:
Edited and produced by Bex Carlos
Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta
Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi
In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca Hogi reflects on her previous conversation with Tyler, focusing on the theme of honest communication in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of expressing one's needs and goals, particularly in the context of dating. Francesca encourages listeners to confront their fears and the potential downsides of vulnerability, highlighting that love and connection require conscious choices. She advocates for embracing emotional intimacy and the ripple effect of love in our lives, concluding with a call to action for listeners to engage in self-reflection and open-hearted communication.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Reflection on Previous Episode
02:48 The Importance of Honest Communication in Relationships
06:05 Understanding Your Needs and Goals
09:09 Facing Fears and Downsides in Relationships
11:59 The Power of Choice in Love and Relationships
14:50 Embracing Vulnerability and Emotional Intimacy
18:04 The Ripple Effect of Love and Connection
20:55 Conclusion and Call to Action
Apply to be coached by Franny for an upcoming episode HERE.
Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.
Work with Franny:
Connect on social media:
@dearfranny on Instagram
@dearfrannypodcast on Instagram
Credits:
Edited and produced by Bex Carlos
Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta
Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi
Previous Episode

Ep #131 *SPECIAL EPISODE* “I’ve had to be more vulnerable in saying what I need”
In this special one-time session, Tyler shares with Franny his journey of navigating self-esteem issues that have impacted his love life. He discusses a new, powerful romantic connection he has formed and his uncertainty about its future.The conversation explores the dynamics of his relationship, including the challenges of non-monogamy and the desire for clarity and alignment in their future together. Tyler reflects on his past experiences and how they shape his current understanding of love and connection. It’s a can’t miss conversation about the complexities of self-worth, people-pleasing, and more.
PLUS: Franny announces her new True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! Get 50% off your first month at https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny
Timestamps
00:00 Navigating Self-Esteem and Relationships
02:00 Exploring a Divine Connection
04:59 The Nature of Their Relationship
07:51 Clarity and Intentions for the Future
11:59 Understanding Relationship Dynamics
13:03 The Challenge of Non-Monogamy
16:59 Finding Balance in Love
19:00 The Magic Wand Scenario
20:12 Navigating Uncertainty in Relationships
28:34 Exploring Self-Worth and People-Pleasing
33:13 Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Communication
35:49 Understanding Relationship Expectations and Boundaries
41:58 The Importance of Vulnerability in Relationships
46:56 Growth and Self-Reflection in Relationships
Apply to be coached by Franny for an upcoming episode HERE.
Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.
Work with Franny:
Connect on social media:
@dearfranny on Instagram
@dearfrannypodcast on Instagram
Credits:
Edited and produced by Bex Carlos
Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta
Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi
Next Episode

Ep #133 *SPECIAL EPISODE* “I never assume anyone is vaguely interested in me”
This week Francesca coaches Mary through her personal narratives surrounding her attractivenss, her ability to meet someone, and the impact of societal standards on her confidence and relationships. Mary opens up about her experiences with trauma, the challenges of navigating the dating culture, and her journey towards self-acceptance.
Apply to be coached by Franny for an upcoming episode HERE.
Join Francesca and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny
Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.
Work with Franny:
Connect on social media:
@dearfranny on Instagram
@dearfrannypodcast on Instagram
Credits:
Edited and produced by Bex Carlos
Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta
Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi
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