
How to Care for Our Pets through End of Life
07/08/22 • 29 min
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This episode will inform your journey if you are facing an end of life time with your pet. They don't have words, so we will dive into how to assess their quality of life, their joy or pain, and how best to nurture them through their final days.
It's a subject I know intimately; I’m in the midst of this for the third time, and wanted to share the experience in case you face this in the future. Because our pets don’t have voices, we must make the best guesses we can about their pain, their will to live, and their desire to cross the rainbow bridge. I don’t have all the answers, far from it, but I’d still like to offer up my experiences so that you don’t feel alone when you face this.
I’m currently in the throes of pet hospice for our 19-year-old Maine Coon, Romeo. He’s been losing weight fast these last few months. His body has a tough time tolerating food. At his last check up, the just-out-of-vet-school-doctor couldn’t wrap her brain around end of life care. When she noted his feather weight and tooth situation she began to write down a litany of tests she’s recommend to get to the bottom of Romeo’s poor health. “He’s nineteen years old.” That didn’t sink in. We asked about quality of life. How, since Romeo can’t speak, do we know that he’s not suffering more than he’s thriving?
Show Creators and Social Media Links:Art Director: @NorasUnnamedPhotos (on Instagram)
Host, Jennifer Hotes, on Twitter
Show Resources and Materials:
https://www.cinderrockvetclinic.com/site/blog/2021/09/27/assessing-senior-pet-quality-of-life
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This episode will inform your journey if you are facing an end of life time with your pet. They don't have words, so we will dive into how to assess their quality of life, their joy or pain, and how best to nurture them through their final days.
It's a subject I know intimately; I’m in the midst of this for the third time, and wanted to share the experience in case you face this in the future. Because our pets don’t have voices, we must make the best guesses we can about their pain, their will to live, and their desire to cross the rainbow bridge. I don’t have all the answers, far from it, but I’d still like to offer up my experiences so that you don’t feel alone when you face this.
I’m currently in the throes of pet hospice for our 19-year-old Maine Coon, Romeo. He’s been losing weight fast these last few months. His body has a tough time tolerating food. At his last check up, the just-out-of-vet-school-doctor couldn’t wrap her brain around end of life care. When she noted his feather weight and tooth situation she began to write down a litany of tests she’s recommend to get to the bottom of Romeo’s poor health. “He’s nineteen years old.” That didn’t sink in. We asked about quality of life. How, since Romeo can’t speak, do we know that he’s not suffering more than he’s thriving?
Show Creators and Social Media Links:Art Director: @NorasUnnamedPhotos (on Instagram)
Host, Jennifer Hotes, on Twitter
Show Resources and Materials:
https://www.cinderrockvetclinic.com/site/blog/2021/09/27/assessing-senior-pet-quality-of-life
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While most think of cemeteries as great places to whip out ghost hunting tools, not so long ago people picnicked in graveyards, making a day of it. Yes, these greenscapes offer much more than potential jump scares. Each grave holds the story of someone that lived, struggled, failed and prevailed. The tombstones are bookmarks. There is symbology on the graves that, if you take the time to decipher, unlock a secret language that adds depth to your understanding of local history and lore. From the tragedy of the Spanish Flu to tragic fires to the flower-cloaked graves of Hollywood-types, cemeteries have no entrance fee. In fact, the grandest cemeteries across the US were planned and developed by some of the preeminent landscape architects of our time. My personal favorites, though, are the ones you hear about in whispers at a local coffee shop, where the graves have been grown over with weeds and ivy and the trees above drip with moss.
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Show Creators, Social Media Links and Sources:Art Director: @NorasUnnamedPhotos (on Instagram)
Host, Jennifer Hotes, on TwitterLinks to Sources and Materials:
Thomas Sherman Ambrose interred at Preston Cemetery on FindAGrave.com.
https://oakwoodniagara.org/history-of-the-rural-cemetery/
Thomas’s Grave Info on FindAGrave.com
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Show Creators and Social Media Links:Art Director: @NorasUnnamedPhotos (on Instagram)
Host, Jennifer Hotes, on TwitterShow Sources and Materials: Medium Article: https://medium.com/thrive-global/learn-the-difference-between-masculine-and-feminine-energy-ff1c14366aed
https://www.chopra.com/articles/how-to-balance-and-harmonize-masculine-and-feminine-energies
https://chopra.com/articles/how-to-balance-your-female-and-male-energy
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