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Contenders Wanted

Contenders Wanted

Rob Cook

Welcome to Contenders Wanted where we’re working relentlessly to solve our money problems without sacrificing what’s most important in life. We know money won’t solve our problems, but we don't want money to be THE problem. Cause for us it’s faith, family, and finances, in that order. So, how do we adopt the thoughts and behaviors that enable us to wisely take advantage of the opportunities before us, all while sifting out financial mis-information and not losing sight of our true priorities? My name is Rob Cook. I’m a husband, father, CPA, CFP, and a former financial advisor. Come with me as I search for the answer and share what I learn along the way. And if you’re a fellow Contender, then join us where Contenders are always Wanted.
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What comes to mind when you hear the word freeloader? What about mooch? Parasite? Slacker? Or deadbeat? No matter what came to mind, it likely wasn’t something nice. But at the end of the day we all know what it means: someone who takes advantage of the kindness and charity of others who shouldn’t. And almost universally we wouldn’t want to be described like that. But the problem is that none of us really is a “lone wolf”. We all need each other. So how do we appropriately accept and even at times elicit help from others without becoming that freeloader we all despise?
Well our guests today were given a lesson, or better said six little lessons, in how to give and receive help when in less than four years they went from a young married couple with no kids to parents of six and they had to learn how to be willing to receive help in order to just keep things afloat and, later, the value of returning the favor.
Dallin & Alyssa McEwen’s story began when they were 12 years old leading them to finally be in the same place at the same time in college. They’ve been married for 8 years. The first year spent playing college sports and the next two spent trying to grow their family. After a successful first round of IVF they had twin girls join the crew. 18 months later came what they believed to be the biggest surprise of their life when their little boy was born. But then a year and a half later, they got pregnant with triplets! If you’re still doing the math that’s 6 kids in 3 years. As they say, their life is busy and chaotic and filled with love, giggles and a lot of diapers. They wouldn’t change their circumstance for the world, but instead have jumped two feet in to making the day to day not just manageable but enjoyable. On the show today we discuss the following:

  • Who are Dallin & Alyssa and what do they do (4:08)
  • How they have 6 kids ages 4 and under (5:43)
  • What is life like? (10:17)
  • How structure helps Dallin & Alyssa thrive (12:51)
  • Learning how to allow others to serve them (14:35)
  • Dallin & Alyssa's annual ritual that keeps their lines of communication open (20:57)
  • How they make time for each other every day (25:53)
  • How Dallin uses the financial pressure of life with 6 small kids to make him better professionally (29:33)
  • How Alyssa became an Instagram Influencer (38:16)
  • How Alyssa handles social media trolls (44:08)
  • How Alyssa balances being authentic and protecting her children (46:36)
  • What does it mean to them to be a Contender (51:52)

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Contact the Host: [email protected]

Giveaway: If you'd like to learn how to get more time back in your day like we talked about on today's episode, send me an email at [email protected] with the subject line "Time" and I'll send you a free copy of my e-workbook "6 Ways to Get More Time Instantly".

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Contenders Wanted - Episode 17 - The Power of Choice with Robert Paylor
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02/08/21 • 56 min

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Can you imagine being at the top of your game and then suddenly losing everything? To go from being one of the best to fighting for your very life? Well our guest today is Robert Paylor and he has lived this reality.

In one moment, Robert was in the best day of his life, competing for the collegiate rugby national championship. In the next moment, his life changed forever. Robert suffered a spinal cord injury in the first minutes of the game and found himself face down in the turf unable to move anything below his neck. His doctor told him he would never walk or move his hands for the rest of his life. Through an unbreakable vision and relentless determination, Robert is defying the odds. He has graduated from UC Berkeley, is winning the fight to walk again, and is sharing his method of how he overcomes quadriplegia. Every person faces challenges; Robert’s are just visible. The skills Robert uses to overcome paralysis can be used by all to optimally perform. His message is one that inspires others to access their full potential and conquer their challenges no matter how daunting they may seem. Robert’s story is incredible and shows just how much you can accomplish when you refuse to give up and when you choose to control your attitude, no matter what’s going on around you. On the show today we discuss:

  • Who is Robert and what does he do (5:53)
  • How Robert became paralyzed (6:47)
  • The thoughts going through his mind right in the moment (12:02)
  • The hope Robert found in controlling his mindset (16:07)
  • False hope vs. false hopelessness (19:51)
  • The rehabilitation process and the barriers he hit (22:45)
  • The power of vision to help Robert overcome his barriers (26:50)
  • The power of perspective in Robert's life (32:39)
  • The power of gratitude (37:06)
  • Forgiving those who hurt him (44:20)
  • What does the future hold for Robert Paylor (48:05)
  • What does it mean to him to be a Contender (51:31)

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As always, feel free to reach out to me by emailing me at [email protected] for suggestions of ways to improve the show, to let me know how the show is helping you, or to even suggest a future guest.

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Have you ever wondered how to get out of a job that you just can't stand but you feel stuck? Well on today's bonus episode Rob shares how he did it in this portion of an interview he recently did on another podcast called Capital Stack with Derrick Reiner. In the interview you hear the specific things he did to get out of his old job and the lessons he learned along the way. If you like what you hear or want to learn more about Rob, be sure to check out the full episode on Derrick's podcast linked below.

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If you liked this bonus episode and want more of this type of content, feel free to reach out to me and let me know by emailing me at [email protected].

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Have you ever made a decision on a gut feeling and it wound up being the right decision? And would you like to learn how to more clearly recognize those impressions and use them for good in your life? Well our guest today is AdaPia d’Errico, the author of the new book Productive Intuition, and on the show we discuss all these things and more.
AdaPia d’Errico is a visionary leader with 20+ years of experience across countries, cultures, and both corporate and start-up environments. She’s co-founded businesses, launched brands, and redefined industries. She is a respected fintech entrepreneur, executive, and evangelist who brought real estate crowdfunding mainstream. Today, AdaPia is VP of Strategy and principal of real estate private equity firm Alpha Investing, an executive mentor, author, and powerful keynote speaker. Her Goalcast video about trusting yourself has been viewed 35 million times and shared 250,000 times. AdaPia gracefully guides you to the source of your authenticity so you can awaken to your highest purpose, meaning, and potential. AdaPia is passionate about empowerment on all levels - from spiritual to financial and she's on a mission to help everyone connect to their inner authority. Her book, Productive Intuition: Connecting to the Subtle was released in 2020. On the show today we discuss:

  • Who is AdaPia and what does she do (3:20)
  • AdaPia's defining moment (12:38)
  • How AdaPia woke up to her own intuition (17:40)
  • The false stories AdaPia had to unwind from (26:43)
  • Specific ways to develop your intuition (31:13)
  • The power of true authenticity (36:50)
  • How your intuition can guide your life and career (41:21)
  • The role of intuition in AdaPia's career success (45:47)
  • How to balance faith and career (47:35)
  • What does it mean to AdaPia to be a Contender (51:09)

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How to learn more about AdaPia and her business:

Additional Books, Individuals, or Items Discuss in the show:

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Contact Me:
As always, feel free to reach out to me by emailing me at [email protected] for suggestions of ways to improve the show, to let me know how the show is helping you, or to even suggest a future guest.

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**Quick Disclaimer**
Usually our show is pretty squeaky clean. However, in case you listen to this show with little ones around there is reference to a cannabis company in this episode as well a few swear words. Not enough to make it explicit by any means, but a couple so I wanted to make sure you were aware in case that situation does apply to you.
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What if you had the ability to suddenly turn all of your weaknesses into strengths? Well our guest today on the show stumbled upon a way to do just that when divine intervention came knocking one day for him. Our guest today is Travis Lachner, the CEO of The Beast Node, a multimedia marketing company, and the host of the brand new podcast show by the same name that just launched the week before this episode. He is also a partner at South Ventures as well the marketing and creative director there. On top of all of that he is also a brand and media consultant at Sparks & Spear, an elite marketing and management consulting firm. Previous to these ventures Travis started and successfully sold two separate companies, Token Spark and Bee-High. He was a college hockey athlete at Colorado State University and currently sports one of the most enviable mustaches a man could ask for. I’m so excited for you guys to hear this episode because Travis has so much energy and provided so many nuggets of actionable tactics and advice you could put into practice right away. I hope you enjoy the show as much as I did. On the show today we cover:

  • Who is Travis Lachner and what does he do (3:04)
  • Life lessons through hockey (8:04)
  • Lessons from starting and selling a business (15:18)
  • Travis' formula for success in business - clarity on your "why" (21:09)
  • How improv comedy taught Travis to lean into discomfort (25:40)
  • Content creation tips for social media (34:42)
  • Travis' habit of constant experimentation for optimization (40:41)
  • Systems for constant improvement (43:54)
  • The Beast Node Podcast (49:34)
  • What does it mean to him to be a Contender (53:16)

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How to learn more about Travis and what he does:

Additional Books, Individuals, or Items Discuss in the show:

Contact Me:
As always, feel free to reach out to me by emailing me at [email protected] for suggestions of ways to improve the show, to let me know how the show is helping you, or to even suggest a future guest.

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Have you ever lost a close loved one? Perhaps a parent, sibling, close grandparent, or friend. Was it painful? It likely was. And each of us has our own way of dealing with those inevitable pains of life. Some more healthy than others. But no matter how we deal with it, we have to deal with it. We can't just run and hide, we have to face the pain. On the show today I sit down with a woman who has not only had incredibly painful experiences in her own life loosing two children, but she shares how she had turned those experiences into a source of strength for her that she now uses to help and coach women going through the same things.
Andi and her amazing husband of almost 15 years are parents to 4 great kids and 2 angel babies. Andi has always loved people. With her bachelors degree, she was able to work as a Recreational Therapist until the kids came along. She says she got her business training by accidentally (and eventually intentionally) building a network marketing business. She fell in love with coaching her team members and furthered her training by becoming a Certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School. She is currently living in Austin, TX with her family and homeschooling her two 6th graders as they build a business together (@duoshelf). On the show today we discuss the following:

  • Who is Andi and what does she do (6:22)
  • Andi's experience in both Eastern and Western Germany (9:16)
  • Andi's story of losing a child (14:12)
  • Andi's advice on how to sit with and deal with pain (20:17)
  • Andi's perspective of what a relationship is (24:46)
  • What happens when we don't deal with pain (29:43)
  • How Andi deals personally with fear and failure (41:04)
  • What does it mean to her to be a Contender (46:34)

How to learn more about Andi:

Additional Books, Individuals, or Items Discuss in the show:

Contact the Host: [email protected]

Giveaway: We would really appreciate it if you were willing to leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcasts. If you do that, screen shot it and send that screen shot to me at [email protected] with your name and the subject line "Review". If you do that, I'll send you a free Amazon gift card as a thank you and give you a shout out at the end of the next episode.

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"
To thy own self be true." Have you ever pondered on what this oft quoted saying from Shakesphere’s Hamlet means? Better yet, how have you come to better know yourself? For me I’ve done at least half a dozen different personality quizzes, strength finder tests, and purpose discovery worksheets. Each one has been helpful, but, for me personally, it’s been the culmination of all of these together coupled with journaling and frequent reflection that’s allowed me to better come to see myself, and as I have done this work I’ve come to believe that this process of coming to see ourselves more clearly is a vital part of our own individual journey through life. Our guest today has gone through the work to know herself and that work that has completely changed the course of her life.
Our guest today is Liz Pessaran. Liz is a Licensed Therapist, Life Coach and Speaker who helps people around the world let go of what they “should” do and embrace what they feel “connected to”. Ultimately thriving in their purpose. She helps folks walk away from their unfilled jobs and lifestyles and step into their dreams and cultivate the life they always desired. With nearly a decade of counseling experience, Liz utilizes her unique skill set to guide women to tap into their deep soul so they can shatter the box of limited belief and embrace their inner magic. Liz has a Masters in Counseling Psychology and is trained as a Life Coach with the Beautiful You Life Coaching Academy. She currently resides in beautiful Tennessee with her husband and dog, and loves to travel often. On the show today we discuss the following:

  • Who is Liz and what does she do (4:10)
  • Everything is written in crayon (6:06)
  • Liz's backstory leading her to where she is today (9:47)
  • The mental barriers she had to overcome (18:43)
  • What is your "magic"? (24:17)
  • Liz's family's reaction to her journey (31:34)
  • The impact of her spouse on her journey (40:52)
  • Liz's advice to parents and spouses - Listen to listen (44:53)
  • What does it mean to Liz to be a Contender (54:50)

How to learn more about Liz:

Additional Books, Individuals, or Items Discuss in the show:

Contact the Host: [email protected]

Giveaway: If you’d like a copy of our free e-book "How to Find Your Path to Your Success”, click this link (www.contenderswanted.com/yourpath) or email me at [email protected] with the subject like “Success” and I’ll send you a free copy.

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Remember the scene from Alice in Wonderland where Alice meets the Cheshire Cat in the woods and asks him which direction she should go? Do you remember his response to her question? Well Cheshire Cat's response to Alice's question is deeply profound and can act as a guiding star in all of our lives if we allow it. Listen in today as Rob and our guest talk about casting a vision for your future and how taking the time to find that vision can have far reaching impacts.
Our guest today is Curt Mercadante. He helps individuals, businesses and teams deliver become more purposeful, productive, and prosperous. For 25 years, he has counseled small business, entrepreneurs, as well as some of the largest corporations and associations in the country. He’s built three profitable businesses, including a 7-figure PR and ad agency. Curt has trained, coached, and delivered keynotes and workshops to clients across the globe. He is a Gallup-Certified Strengths Trainer, a Certified Human Behavior Consultant, and author of the bestselling book, Five Pillars of the Freedom Lifestyle. On the show today we discuss the following:

  • Who is Curt and what does he do (4:55)
  • How Curt defines freedom and success (10:53)
  • Fight versus flow in our lives (17:44)
  • What is vision to Curt and how do you find it (23:34)
  • How Curt found his vision (32:02)
  • How Curt's path changed after finding his vision (38:47)
  • Defining your vision and reverse engineering for success (50:07)
  • Consistent work versus hard work (53:56)
  • What does it mean to Curt to be a Contender (1:00:09)

How to learn more about Curt:

Additional Books, Individuals, or Items Discuss in the show:

  • Ghandi
  • Jason Goston
  • Grant Cardone
  • Joe Pichi
  • The 4 Disciplines of Execution by by Chris McChesney, Jim Huling, and Sean Covey
  • The Compound Effect by Darrin Hardy
  • Chop Wood Carry Water by Joshua Medcalf
  • Episode 19 with Fraser Cameron

Contact the Host: [email protected]Giveaway: To get access for free to our Financial Freedom Blueprint and your own copies of your personalized bonuses, the Financial Freedom Path Education Cheat Sheet and the Financial Freedom Foundation Guide, enter your email at www.contenderswanted.com/freedom.

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Can you think of an example of someone or something in a perceived disadvantage that then turns it into their advantage? My mind things of Ben Affleck's character in the movie, the Accountant. Or the engineers from Apollo 11 using just what was in a box to fix the spaceship. Or Edmond Dantes from the Count of Monte Cristo. Beyond the pop culture references, some might even say that their higher education left them at a bit of a disadvantage when they entered the work force. You may have quickly realized once you entered the workforce that you were faced with a whole new set of skills to develop. Things like networking, communication, leadership, negotiations, sales, management, and on and on and on. But there’s still value in higher education. So how do we make sure we get the most out of it and then turn these missing skills from a disadvantage into our advantage once we’re out in the workforce? Well our guest today attended elite level higher education, and it didn’t take long for him once he started his professional career to feel like he had missed some critically important skills in that education process. This then in turn led him on a path to find, develop, and master these missing skills and then later teach them to others so they can supercharge their professional careers.
Our guest today is Mark Herschberg. From tracking criminals and terrorists on the dark web to creating marketplaces and new authentication systems, Mark has spent his career launching and developing new ventures at startups and Fortune 500s and in academia. He helped to start the Undergraduate Practice Opportunities Program, dubbed MIT’s “career success accelerator,” where he teaches annually. At MIT, he received a B.S. in physics, a B.S. in electrical engineering & computer science, and a M.Eng. in electrical engineering & computer science, focusing on cryptography. At Harvard Business School, Mark helped create a platform used to teach finance at prominent business schools. He also works with many non-profits, including Techie Youth and Plant A Million Corals. He was one of the top-ranked ballroom dancers in the country and now lives in New York City, where he is known for his social gatherings, including his annual Halloween party, as well as his diverse cufflink collection. On the show today we discuss the following:

  • Who is Mark and what does he do (5:07)
  • Mark's perspective on the value of higher education (9:04)
  • How did his formal education not prepare him for his career (13:20)
  • How Mark developed these missing skills in himself (16:11)
  • Specific things you can do now to develop these skills (18:51)
  • Was Mark's higher education worth it? (31:19)
  • Mark's perspective of our current higher education system (38:16)
  • What does it mean to Mark to be a Contender (46:58)

How to learn more about Mark:

Additional Books, Individuals, or Items Discuss in the show:

  • The Big Bank Theory TV Show
  • Richard Feynman

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Contenders Wanted - Episode 7 - Creating Your Own Future with Adam Carswell
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10/12/20 • 49 min

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Have you ever met someone and shortly thereafter the thought comes to mind "Yea...I'm pretty sure they're going somewhere"? Well one of those people for me is Adam Carswell. Adam is a Director at Concordia Realty Corporation, the Business Development Manager at Asym Capital, and Director of Media and Marketing for LibertyFund.io. He has syndicated, redeveloped, repositioned, and revitalized more than $500 million worth of real estate. Adam produces the Cash Flow Connections Real Estate podcast and produces and hosts both Dream Chasers and the Liberland Show podcasts.
On the show today we discuss:

  • Who Adam is and where his journey started (4:33)
  • How he started playing basketball in Belize and how he ultimately went from a player to the head coach (5:46)
  • Why he left his dream job as a basketball coach and his job at Sherwin Williams (10:40)
  • How Adam found his current opportunities and the walls he broke through (16:46)
  • What he does now (27:19)
  • How Adam became a master connector (36:36)
  • What are his goals moving forward and what it means to him to be a contender (40:50)

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Contenders Wanted currently has 42 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Financial Independence, Wealth, Investing, Money, Podcasts, Finance, Financial Freedom, Self-Improvement, Education and Business.

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The episode title 'Episode 26 - Learning how to receive help when you go from 0 to 6 kids in less than 4 years with Dallin & Alyssa McEwen' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Contenders Wanted is 54 minutes.

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