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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver

Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver

Natalie Elliott Handy and JJ Elliott Hill

The Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver podcast offers a candid, unfiltered space to confess the good, the bad, and the ugly of being a caregiver through storytelling, guest interviews, and information sharing. JJ & Natalie are a dynamic duo of sisters supporting their mom living with Parkinson's and a husband who survived cancer. Along with their guests, they discuss their shared experiences in caregiving. Viewers and listeners alike will relate to our reluctance, be affirmed in their ability to be caregivers and gain the courage to confidently step out of the shadows to express their own needs. You are sure to laugh, cry, and everything in between but in the end, all will leave feeling better for the journey and part of the sisterhood of care. So grab your favorite guilty pleasure, and let's get to confessing!

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - A Love to Remember: A Young Woman's Journey Caring for Her Partner Through ALS
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06/18/24 • 46 min

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This week, Heidi McCann shares her story and her experience caring for her partner Curtis after he was diagnosed with ALS at 25. Heidi shares how she and Curtis met as teenagers in Vermont and maintained their relationship through college before Curtis began exhibiting symptoms of ALS. When he was diagnosed, Heidi left her job to care for Curtis full-time. She moved with him to his small hometown to be closer to his support system and cared for him over the next year as his condition deteriorated. Heidi and Curtis married 22 days before his passing to declare their commitment to one another.

After Curtis' death, Heidi found new love and purpose, going on to write a book about her caregiving journey of living with and preparing for the death of her partner from ALS. She married again and became a mother of four children. Heidi also now cares for her own mother, who has Parkinson's disease. Throughout the episode, Heidi emphasized the importance of self-care for caregivers and making future plans for support systems. She shares lessons learned from her extensive personal experience of caring for a terminally ill partner through the challenges of ALS.

About Heidi:

Born in Hartford, CT, Heidi Erdmann Vance McCann graduated from the Loomis Chaffee School, where she discovered the power of words. Observing humanity from a young age, her high school years shaped her voice and leadership skills. At Middlebury College, she refined her writing and athletic prowess. After working in development and coaching tennis, she cared for her boyfriend with ALS, ultimately founding a nonprofit in his honor after his passing at age 26.

Over time, Heidi remarried and earned a MALS degree with a concentration in creative writing from Dartmouth College. She returned to the development field at Loomis Chaffee, where she currently works and enjoys tutoring. Living in Simsbury, CT, with her husband, Paul, and their four children - Martha, Ava, Caroline, and James - along with their dogs, Bruin and Bauer, Heidi treasures family time. Setting aside an hour daily for physical activity, she often finds inspiration for future books during this time.

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - The Method Behind the Caregiving Madness

The Method Behind the Caregiving Madness

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06/11/24 • 59 min

In this episode, we talk with Helen, Elisabeth, and Jonathan Nash about the gradual progression of care needs that often arise with an aging parent. Imagine standing on the shore of a vast ocean, watching the tide slowly come in - that's how the Nash siblings experienced their mother's increasing health issues and mobility problems. Over time, these changes brought them to the crucial conversation about relocating her to a safer living environment. Their story illustrates how caregiving responsibilities can gently unfold rather than arrive all at once.

Have you ever wondered how siblings can share the load when it comes to caregiving? Each Nash sibling played to their strengths—one coordinated medical care, another provided health guidance and another focused on social needs. We show how dividing duties among family members based on their skills and availability can create an effective care team.

Communication and respect are the pillars of effective caregiving, wouldn't you agree? The Nash siblings emphasize the importance of maintaining consistent messages with their mother and each other to minimize confusion. They also discuss the delicate balance of respecting their mother's autonomy while ensuring her safety. Their approach, rooted in compassion and clarity, offers practical guidance that underscores the value of these qualities in family caregiving situations.

About the Nashes:

The Nashes are a trio of siblings who have embarked on an unexpected journey as family caregivers to their mother, now in her early 90s. With a blend of professional expertise, unwavering dedication, and a touch of humor, they bring their unique combination of strengths to the caregiving table, ensuring their mom’s needs are met while preserving her autonomy and quality of life.

Elisabeth, the oldest daughter, has a background in finance and human resources. She’s the group's master planner. Her analytical thinking helps the caregiving group make the best choices for their mom. She always involves their mom in decision-making and respects her preferences.

Jonathan, the middle child and only son, is retired from the computer software industry. He’s the tech-savvy one of the group, the one who coordinates with their mom’s healthcare providers and caregivers. From ordering groceries to providing transportation, he ensures their mom receives the best care. Jonathan’s the one who makes them laugh with corny puns and irreverent jokes, lightening the mood when things are challenging.

Helen is the baby of the sibling group. She brings her 30+ years of nursing experience to the group, using her expertise to assist with their mom’s medical needs.

Together, the three “kids” make a formidable caregiving team, each bringing unique strengths and skills to the table, whether they are providing hands-on care or offering support from a distance. United in their mission to provide everything their mom needs, they neve

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - Beyond Duty: Embracing the Chaos and Compassion of Caregiving
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05/28/24 • 47 min

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Elizabeth Miller has extensive experience as a family caregiver. She cared for her aging parents with chronic illnesses as they desired to age in place, which required much travel and coordination between siblings. She also cares for her older brother Tom, who has developmental and intellectual disabilities. Elizabeth shares moving her family members to different living situations as her parents' health declined. She continues caring for her brother, Tom, along with her siblings.

Elizabeth started the Happy Healthy Caregiver podcast and resources to share her knowledge and lessons learned from her caregiving journey. Through being open about her experiences, she has helped many other caregivers. Her podcast and newsletter provide practical self-care tips that empower caregivers. She emphasizes the importance of addressing all aspects of well-being, including physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, social, and professional fulfillment.

Elizabeth's caregiving experiences have transformed her career path. Where she previously worked in corporate settings, she now focuses full-time on supporting family caregivers through her business. She encourages letting go of expectations and having faith that things will work out, as she has survived difficult life challenges and transitions through caregiving.

About Elizabeth:

Elizabeth Miller is a family caregiver, caregiver advocate, speaker, author, podcast host, Certified Caregiving Consultant, and Certified Senior Advisor. Her personal experiences caring for aging parents with chronic and terminal illnesses and for a sibling with developmental disabilities inspired her to create Happy Healthy Caregiver, LLC, in 2015. She is an empty nester living in Marietta, GA with her husband and two dogs.

Connect with Elizabeth:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happyhealthycaregiver/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/happyhealthycaregiver
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabethbmiller/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/HHCaregiver
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/HHCaregiver/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyhealthycaregiver
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAcYkpMK6I3Y0ep-kyvrZaQ

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - Parkinson's Warrior: Turning Pain into Purpose Through Advocacy
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04/30/24 • 53 min

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George Ackerman shares his personal caregiving journey caring for his mother, Sharon, who battled Parkinson's disease for 15 years. As a New York native turned Florida resident, George came from a background of success as a lawyer and police officer. However, when his mother's Parkinson's progressed and she needed more support, George stepped up to become her primary caregiver.

He faced many challenges in caring for his mother, from managing her hallucinations and dementia to struggling to find trustworthy in-home caregivers. Throughout it all, George found purpose in advocating for others affected by Parkinson's through the foundation he started called Together for Sharon. Even after losing his mother, George continues fighting to support those diagnosed with Parkinson's, their caregivers, and others who have lost loved ones to the disease. He shares his story openly to raise awareness of the challenges of male caregivers and hopes to be a voice for those who feel unseen in their caregiving journeys.

About George:

Dr. George Ackerman (Sharon’s son) is from Brooklyn, N.Y. Now residing in Florida, he works in the fields of law, police, and education. George lost his mother, Sharon Riff Ackerman on 1/1/2020 due to Parkinson’s Disease.

George wanted to honor his mother and continue to help in the Parkinson’s awareness cause, but he did not know how to bring about change. We started TogetherForSharon® as a family to keep my mother, Sharon Riff Ackerman, ’s memory alive and share the message of Parkinson’s Awareness and hope for a cure.

Today https://www.togetherforsharon.com/ reaches thousands of individuals across the country for PD Awareness. George currently interviews individuals throughout the Parkinson’s community including various foundations, caregivers, and Parkinson’s warriors to help share their stories and causes.

Connect with George:

Websitehttps://www.togetherforsharon.com/

Email[email protected]

LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/george-ackerman-ph-d-esq-mba-00871a82/

TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@togetherforsharon1

Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/togetherforsharon112020

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - Bridging Gaps in Care: Ali Ahmadi's Caregiver Revolution
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04/23/24 • 48 min

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Ali Ahmadi's caregiving journey began unexpectedly when his mother-in-law was diagnosed with stage four lymphoma cancer over seven years ago. As a former Navy aviator and aerospace engineer, Ali prided himself on navigating difficult situations. However, nothing could have prepared him for the challenges of caring for his ill mother-in-law while balancing work and family responsibilities. Ali and his wife decided to bring her into their home without hesitation. Still, they soon found themselves overwhelmed trying to manage her complex medical needs and navigate the healthcare system alone.

At his wit's end, Ali was introduced to the TCARE protocol. Developed by researchers at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, TCARE helped Ali and his family better understand the emotional toll of caregiving through clinical assessments. To Ali's surprise, the recommended care plan focused on marriage counseling rather than just medical support. This unexpected recommendation opened Ali's eyes to how caregiving impacted every aspect of his life. Through TCARE, Ali also discovered local resources he didn't know existed, like free family counseling. Inspired by the difference TCARE made, Ali developed the program into the caregiver support platform it is today.

Now, Ali dedicates his career to helping other caregivers avoid burnout through TCARE's individualized support plans and focus on preventing emotional hardships. Driven by his caregiving experiences and commitment to family, Ali continues working tirelessly to validate caregivers' challenges and connect them with the resources needed to care for their loved ones without sacrificing their well-being.

About Ali:

Ali Ahmadi is a veteran of three venture-backed tech startups, having raised over $100 million in funding. A former U.S. Naval Aviator, he holds an M.S. and B.S. in Aerospace Engineering from Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University and an Executive MBA from Washington University in St. Louis. Ahmadi has vast experience in the Software-as-a-Service (SaaS) industry and has developed strategic partnerships with Fortune 100 companies, including Microsoft, RGA, PwC, SAP, Salesforce, McKinsey, and Aflac.

Currently, he serves as the CEO and Co-Founder of TCARE, a company that provides a CMS-approved platform aimed at reducing family caregiver burnout and delaying nursing home placement through predictive analytics. TCARE has formed significant partnerships with companies such as Aflac, BlueCross BlueShield, Microsoft, Unum, Anthem, Cigna, and UnitedHealthcare.

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - There's No Mistakes, Just Missteps - You Can Edit

There's No Mistakes, Just Missteps - You Can Edit

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04/25/23 • 55 min

When Licia Thompson began her caregiving journey, she thought she knew what to expect. But little did she know that through the unexpected twists of her father's health journey, she would discover the power of a shared experience and the importance of adapting to life's challenging situations. What will this newfound understanding bring?

Licia's journey as a caregiver began when her mother's health took a turn for the worse. She had always been her mother's partner and advocate, working together to navigate the complexities of healthcare and the myriad of treatments. Licia's mother was a strong, independent woman with the ability to orchestrate her own care, relying on Licia as her supportive copilot. Through this time, Licia gained valuable insights into the importance of resilience, determination, and knowing oneself. Her caregiving experience taught her valuable lessons about personal growth and the power of a strong support system.

In this episode, you will hear:

  • Effective strategies when navigating the caregiver role for divorced, terminally ill parents.
  • Uncover the secrets to balancing caregiving responsibilities in both your personal and professional life.
  • Realize the essential nature of self-care and finding support as a caregiver.
  • Learn the valuable lessons others have gained from their caregiving experiences for personal growth.
  • Uncover the available resources and benefits for caregivers, such as FMLA.

About Licia:

Licia Thompson has an extensive and noteworthy career in the insurance industry. After becoming a Claims Adjuster trainee at Safeco Insurance Company, she balanced her marriage and motherhood with a further career progression. Hired as an Assistant Claims Manager for Macy's, Inc., she later rose to become their Workers' Comp Director of Return to Work, Managed Care, and vendor relations while building their national Return to Work program and training personnel in human resources nationally on ADA compliance.

After leaving Macy's, Thompson worked for Amazon as a Senior Accommodation Disability Consultant with non-occupational corporate associates. This experience proved instrumental in inspiring her to launch her own business - Licia Thompson Coaching & Consulting LLC - as a certified Leadership Reinvention Strategist, helping both Workers' Comp and other leaders affected by divorce or caregiving redefine their values, vision, and thoughts so they can take action and thrive.

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - Courageous Motherhood: A Caregiver's Journey through Disability and Hope
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03/05/24 • 53 min

Jessica Patay shares her journey as a caregiver for her son, Ryan, who was diagnosed with Prader-Willi Syndrome at five weeks. Prader-Willi Syndrome is a rare genetic disorder that requires 24/7 supervision and care due to its associated symptoms, including low muscle tone, delayed milestones, and an insatiable food drive. Jessica talks about the difficulties she faced with her newborn, Ryan, who was unable to cry or suck and needed a feeding tube and occupational therapy. Managing Ryan's anxiety about eating is an ongoing challenge that requires constant monitoring of the kitchen.

Jessica discusses the impact of her son Ryan's condition on her family and the importance of maintaining a healthy balance. She prioritizes spending one-on-one time with her other children and taking trips without Ryan. Jessica also emphasizes the importance of having a supportive community and resources for caregivers. She has created an organization called "We Are Brave Together" to provide a platform for caregivers of disabled children to connect and find support.

Jessica plans to set up a care plan for her son Ryan before she and her husband become incapacitated or pass away. She also emphasizes the need to take breaks as a caregiver and empower their children to survive without them.

About Jessica:

Jessica Patay is the founder and executive director of We Are Brave Together (WABT), a 501(c)(3)nonprofit organization that supports caregiving moms with children of all types of disabilities and neuro-diverse diagnoses. In addition, she is a sought-after speaker, podcast guest, writer retreat coordinator, fundraiser, mother of three, social influencer, and a champion of self-care practices and their positive effect on motherhood. Jessica excels at creating and supporting communities of caregiving moms, and she is a visionary for the disability community worldwide.

Jessica’s mission is to combat the isolation and burnout that these moms and their families face by creating supportive, resourceful, and empowering communities and meaningful connections. Her vision is that every family in the disability community is strengthened, equipped, and inspired for their unique journey. This vision has fueled WABT’s growth in 6 years into an international community of over 2200 moms, representing all 50 states and 24 countries. Jessica has helped launch dozens of support groups throughout the U.S., New Zealand, and Australia. To extend her outreach, Jessica hosts a podcast, “Brave Together with Jessica Patay,” which offers a library of inspirational stories and resources for the disability community.

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Web https://www.wearebravetogether.org/

Facebook https://www.facebook.com/wearebravetogether/

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wearebravetogether/

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - The Gifts of Preparation: How End of Life Planning Can Ease the Burden of Caregiving
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02/27/24 • 53 min

Jennifer O'Brien, author of "The Hospice Doctor's Widow," joins the podcast to share her deeply personal story of caregiving for her terminally ill husband, Bob. A hospice physician himself, Bob's diagnosis of advanced renal cell carcinoma forced them to confront their own mortality and navigate the healthcare system together. Jennifer, equipped with her own experiences with loss and a career in healthcare administration, played a vital role in planning for Bob's end-of-life wishes and her future.

Their journey wasn't solely focused on medical procedures and appointments. Jennifer highlights the concept of "Precious Time" - a term Bob coined to describe the irreplaceable moments left with a terminally ill loved one. She emphasizes the profound significance of these moments, fostering emotional connection and expression in a way that transcends the challenges of the situation. Their proactive approach, characterized by open communication and practical planning, not only ensured Bob's wishes were met but also enriched the quality time they shared. Even after Bob's passing, Jennifer finds solace in the plans he made for her well-being, a testament to his love and foresight.

Driven by her experience and a desire to help others, Jennifer has poured her grief and learnings into "The Hospice Doctor's Widow." This powerful book sheds light on family caregiving and end-of-life planning, advocating for open communication and a balanced approach between hope and reality when facing terminal illness. This episode is a must-listen for anyone facing a similar situation, offering invaluable insights, practical tips, and the comforting reminder that even in the face of loss, love and connection can leave an enduring impact.

About Jennifer:

In her 35+ years in healthcare, Jennifer O’Brien has served as a practice management consultant to physicians, CEO for two large medical practices, and held administrative roles in three academic medical centers. She earned her Bachelor’s degree from Boston University and a Master’s in Organization Development from Loyola University – Chicago. Jennifer has authored 50+ articles in professional publications and peer-reviewed journals.
Her art journal, kept during her late husband's 22-month illness, was published as The Hospice Doctor's Widow: A Journal in February 2020. It has won several awards, including a Nautilus silver award in the Death & Dying/Grief & Loss category, a Next Gen Indie Book gold for Relationships, an IPPY bronze for Gift, and an International Impact gold for the book's interior design. Jennifer now shares her story, wisdom, and experience to help others understand the role of family caregivers and the importance of end-of-life preparations.

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Website: https://www.hospicedrswidow.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hospice

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - Unexpected! Finding True Love in Caregiving

Unexpected! Finding True Love in Caregiving

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02/13/24 • 52 min

Charisma Sydnor's path crossed with Cole's at a rehab center following his teenage spinal cord injury; their professional rapport blossomed into romance and they wed in 2020. Taking over from his mother, Charisma adapted to the comprehensive caregiver role, focusing on fostering independence for Cole while ensuring their connection thrives beyond her caregiving responsibilities. They openly celebrate their life together on social networks, challenging preconceptions about disability and relationships. Their shared narrative delves into the seamless transition from dating to matrimony, weaving in the complexities and dedication involved in caregiving. Charisma speaks to establishing a healthy balance of duties and intimacy, highlighting continuous dialogue, self-care, and an optimistic perspective as cornerstones of their unique partnership. She emphasizes that a disability is not a hindrance, but rather a unique aspect of a vibrant and fulfilling life.

About Charisma:

Charisma Sydnor, 29, has lived most of her life as a native of Richmond, Virginia. Before becoming an entrepreneur, she pursued her master’s in Occupational Therapy at Shenandoah University.

The success of her and her husband’s business led her down a new and exciting path where she was able to use her platform for a broader purpose.

Together they started their vlog to bring people into their lives, their relationship, to answer some questions about how they navigate the world with some of the behind-the-scenes stuff people typically don't see, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair.

Outside of their channel, Charisma uses her Instagram to share what it is like being a caregiver to her husband, as well as tips and tricks to maintain a healthy mind, body, and soul while caring for someone.

Connect with Charisma

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happilycharisma/?hl=en

Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charisma-sydnor-96632411b/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA5Zfb-OOm7eDHHa8iu9izQ

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver - The Ugly Part of Caregiving with Cassie Abel

The Ugly Part of Caregiving with Cassie Abel

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05/09/23 • 57 min

Healthcare professional Cassie Abel brings over twenty years of experience to our discussion on caregiving's emotional challenges and the guilt that sometimes accompanies them. Cassie's caregiving journey with her mother, Carol, diagnosed with ALS in 2020, has shaped her outlook on caregiving. Carol inspired Cassie's love for healthcare, and when her health began to decline, Cassie stepped in to provide care, gaining firsthand experience with the challenges that many caregivers face. Cassie's insights make her a valuable resource for all.

Cassie vividly remembers her mother, a “bulletproof” woman who devoted her life to the nursing home industry. Cassie followed in her mother's footsteps and became a nursing home administrator. However, life suddenly turned when her mother was diagnosed with ALS. The emotional challenges and guilt began to weigh heavily on Cassie's heart as she balanced her career, family, and caregiving responsibilities. As her mother's health declined, Cassie experienced the heart-wrenching reality of watching the woman who had once been her pillar of strength gradually fade away. Cassie found solace in her blog, where she shared her mother's story, drawing strength from her mother's unwavering determination to live life to the fullest.

In this episode, you will learn to:

  1. Navigate the emotional landscape and manage guilt associated with caregiving.
  2. Recognize the crucial factors to consider when choosing dependable caregivers for your family members.
  3. Master the art of juggling work, personal life, and caregiving tasks in harmony.
  4. Understand the importance of self-care and mental health to ensure personal well-being during the caregiving journey.
  5. Acquire knowledge and wisdom from past caregiving experiences to enhance your own approach.

About Cassie:
Cassie Abel resides in Vincennes, Indiana, with her husband, Scott, and their two children, Emma and Archer. With over 20 years of experience in healthcare leadership, Cassie primarily worked in the nursing home setting, starting as an Admissions Coordinator, moving to Executive Director, and then taking on a new challenge in the hospital setting. Cassie now serves as the Director of Patient Experience at the local hospital. In her role, Cassie works with providers and caregivers to achieve excellence in service delivery and leads the Patient Liaison department in addressing patient and family concerns. Cassie is an active member of her local Rotary, whose motto is “Service Above Self” – a passion she carries over into her personal and professional life. Cassie holds a bachelor’s degree in Public Relations and a license as a Healthcare Facility Administrator. Currently, Cassie is working towards her MBA and writing her first book based on her experience as a caregiver.

Connect with Cassie:

Twitter: @CassieAbel2

Instagram: @CASSIENABEL2

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Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver currently has 173 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Cancer, Mental Health, Humor, Podcasts, Caregiver, Caregiving, Relationships and Selfcare.

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The episode title 'A Love to Remember: A Young Woman's Journey Caring for Her Partner Through ALS' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver is 39 minutes.

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Episodes of Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver are typically released every 4 days, 23 hours.

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The first episode of Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver was released on Dec 27, 2022.

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