Ep 5 You Cannot Seek a Wife Who Serves Her Husband
12/18/24 • 42 min
In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, we challenge the traditional notion of marriage roles and unpack Rule 5: You Cannot Seek a Wife Who Serves Her Husband. Host Colton Wutzke delves into why marriage should be rooted in mutual love, respect, and service, rejecting outdated stereotypes of dominance based submission.
Drawing on Ephesians 5:25, learn how true masculinity lies in serving your spouse selflessly—just as Christ served the Church. This episode also explores the societal shifts and historical contexts that have shaped our perceptions of marriage and why relationships thrive when both partners work together to build a strong, faith-based bond.
Through practical advice, learn actionable steps to foster mutual servitude, such as daily acts of kindness, open communication, and supporting each other’s goals. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or married, this episode challenges you to reflect on how you can serve those you love with intentionality and humility.
Tune in to discover how building a partnership based on faith and mutual growth leads to stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
Thank you for joining me on Chasing Masculinity. If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review—it really helps others find the podcast - and if something here resonated with you, please share it with someone who might benefit from these discussions. Let's build a community of men committed to personal growth, faith, and living with purpose.
Stay connected by following me on X and Instagram at @mrwutzke, where I share insights, reflections, and updates. Feel free to reach out—I’d love to hear your thoughts or answer any questions.
Thanks for tuning in, and until next time, keep chasing.
In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, we challenge the traditional notion of marriage roles and unpack Rule 5: You Cannot Seek a Wife Who Serves Her Husband. Host Colton Wutzke delves into why marriage should be rooted in mutual love, respect, and service, rejecting outdated stereotypes of dominance based submission.
Drawing on Ephesians 5:25, learn how true masculinity lies in serving your spouse selflessly—just as Christ served the Church. This episode also explores the societal shifts and historical contexts that have shaped our perceptions of marriage and why relationships thrive when both partners work together to build a strong, faith-based bond.
Through practical advice, learn actionable steps to foster mutual servitude, such as daily acts of kindness, open communication, and supporting each other’s goals. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or married, this episode challenges you to reflect on how you can serve those you love with intentionality and humility.
Tune in to discover how building a partnership based on faith and mutual growth leads to stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
Thank you for joining me on Chasing Masculinity. If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review—it really helps others find the podcast - and if something here resonated with you, please share it with someone who might benefit from these discussions. Let's build a community of men committed to personal growth, faith, and living with purpose.
Stay connected by following me on X and Instagram at @mrwutzke, where I share insights, reflections, and updates. Feel free to reach out—I’d love to hear your thoughts or answer any questions.
Thanks for tuning in, and until next time, keep chasing.
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Ep 4 You are Not an Alpha Male
In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, we take on a modern misconception of manhood: the alpha male mentality. Drawing from Rule 4, You Are Not an Alpha Male, we uncover why this power-driven ideology fails to define true masculinity and explore what it means to live as a man of faith, competence, and integrity.
Host Colton Wutzke reflects on how the alpha male mindset glorifies dominance, control, and surface-level strength, but ultimately leaves men feeling disconnected and unfulfilled. Using Biblical wisdom, including the story of Moses from Numbers 20, Colton challenges listeners to reject reliance on brute force and instead trust in God’s guidance. He discusses the importance of competence, responsibility, service, and integrity as pillars of authentic masculinity.
This episode also emphasizes the value of seeking mentorship and surrounding yourself with role models who embody masculinity through humility, service, and faithfulness. With practical reflections and actionable steps, this episode invites listeners to leave behind the toxic traits of the alpha male mentality and embrace a more fulfilling and God-centered path to manhood.
Tune in to discover how to redefine masculinity, build meaningful relationships, and grow in faith as you step into the man God calls you to be.
Thank you for joining me on Chasing Masculinity. If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review—it really helps others find the podcast - and if something here resonated with you, please share it with someone who might benefit from these discussions. Let's build a community of men committed to personal growth, faith, and living with purpose.
Stay connected by following me on X and Instagram at @mrwutzke, where I share insights, reflections, and updates. Feel free to reach out—I’d love to hear your thoughts or answer any questions.
Thanks for tuning in, and until next time, keep chasing.
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Ep 6 Loving Your Wife Does Not Mean Showing Stereotypical Signs of Love
In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke tackles a crucial yet often misunderstood principle of love in marriage: moving beyond the surface-level, stereotypical gestures of affection. Walking through Rule 6: Loving Wife Does Not Mean Showing Stereotypical Signs of Love from the 24 Rules of Masculinity, this conversation challenges the cultural norms that define love and emphasizes the deeper, biblical foundation of selfless, sacrificial love.
Expanding on Ephesians 5:25, learn how to love your wife just as Christ loved the Church as we reflect on relationships and consider how they can shift their focus from stereotypical displays of love to intentional actions that strengthen trust and connection. By embracing a deeper understanding of love rooted in mutual respect and sacrifice, men can lead their marriages with purpose and integrity.
Tune in and reflect on how you’re showing love in your marriage.
Thank you for joining me on Chasing Masculinity. If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review—it really helps others find the podcast - and if something here resonated with you, please share it with someone who might benefit from these discussions. Let's build a community of men committed to personal growth, faith, and living with purpose.
Stay connected by following me on X and Instagram at @mrwutzke, where I share insights, reflections, and updates. Feel free to reach out—I’d love to hear your thoughts or answer any questions.
Thanks for tuning in, and until next time, keep chasing.
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