Episode 43: Hospital Discharge: Home or Inpatient Rehab when Mom is so weak.

09/01/22 • 14 min

Being in the hospital for several days would result in most of us wanting to go home. We would be ready to sleep in our own beds and eat food that we enjoy. And this is also often the case with many elderly patients who are being discharged from the hospital, they are ready to go home!
I know this all too well, because after one of my mother's hospitalizations, she was insisting on skipping an inpatient rehab stay and going back home. But there are several factors which had to be taken into account when making that decision.
Today's question will address that scenario.
A caller left a message on the call-in line, explaining that mom is very upset, she does not want to go to inpatient rehab.
Question: Mom is discharging from the hospital. She is very weak. Transfer to a Rehab Unit for therapy is recommended but mom is insisting on going home. How do I determine what is the best decision?
Listen in, let's discuss some options.
Consuela Marshall,
Occupational Therapist,
Caregiver Coach
Certified Aging in Place Specialist
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Disclaimer: The podcast and blog are intended to provide basic information so that you can become a more informed caregiver. The information presented is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not meant to serve as medical advice or replace consultation with any health care providers you regularly engage with. Transmission or receipt of any of this information is not intended to, and does not, create a therapist-patient relationship. This information is not provided in the course of a therapist-patient relationship and is not intended to constitute medical advice or to substitute for obtaining medical advice from a physician or therapist licensed in the state where your family may reside. We encourage everyone to consult with your physician or therapist to see if they are appropriate and safe for you.

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Episode 42: What To Do When Dad Won't Let Daughter Help in Bathroom?

When you are caring for an aging parent of the opposite sex, things can get a little awkward -- when it comes to modesty with toileting and other aspects of care.
This is the case with Jenna, with a question of how to address concerns that her dad may have fall risks in the bathroom, difficulty with toileting.
Question: Jenna indicates dad goes into bathroom, locks the door and does not allow her to come in to assist him. Jenna with concerns that dad is struggling and may have had falls while performing toileting. Jenna wants to know ways of addressing her concern.
Jenna wants her dad to be as independent as possible but she also does not want him to fall.
Consuela Marshall,
Occupational Therapist,
Caregiver Coach
Certified Aging in Place Specialist
If you have a question, visit our website, leave your caregiving question.
If you are a caregiver and need help devising a customized caregiving plan that will help make your caregiving role easier, Finding A Foothold can help, schedule a free consult.
Reach out for help and support.
Visit FindingAFoothold.com to see how.
Like us on Facebook. https://www.facebook.com/FindingAFoothold/

Follow us on Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/findingafoothold/
Follow us on LinkedIn. https://www.linkedin.com/in/consuela-marshall-otr-l-caps-3a136a1b9/
Disclaimer: The podcast and blog are intended to provide basic information so that you can become a more informed caregiver. The information presented is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not meant to serve as medical advice or replace consultation with any health care providers you regularly engage with. Transmission or receipt of any of this information is not intended to, and does not, create a therapist-patient relationship. This information is not provided in the course of a therapist-patient relationship and is not intended to constitute medical advice or to substitute for obtaining medical advice from a physician or therapist licensed in the state where your family may reside. We encourage everyone to consult with your physician or therapist to see if they are appropriate and safe for you.

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Episode 44: It Is Difficult To Work From Home When Mom Keeps Calling My Name

Daughter works from home. She is grateful for that because she is the primary caregiver for her mom who lives with her. Since home from the hospital after a hip fracture, mom with weakness and needs help with all task. Daughter very concerned that she may jeopardize her ability to remain a remote worker due to mom constantly calling her.
Today's question will address that scenario.
A caller left a message on the call-in line, explaining that mom is very upset, she does not want to go to inpatient rehab.
Question: Daughter asking for recommendations of options that may help her.
Listen in, as I discuss some options.
Consuela Marshall,
Occupational Therapist,
Caregiver Coach
Certified Aging in Place Specialist
Certified Fall Prevention Specialist
If you have a question, visit our website, leave your caregiving question. Get tips to help make your days easier and safer.
If you are a caregiver and need help devising a customized caregiving plan that will help make your caregiving role easier, Finding A Foothold can help, schedule a free consult.
Reach out for help and support.
Visit FindingAFoothold.com to see how.
Like us on Facebook. https://www.facebook.com/FindingAFoothold/

Follow us on Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/findingafoothold/
Follow us on LinkedIn. https://www.linkedin.com/in/consuela-marshall-otr-l-caps-3a136a1b9/
Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@findingafoothold?_t=8VzSFPvAsxi&_r=1
Disclaimer: The podcast and blog are intended to provide basic information so that you can become a more informed caregiver. The information presented is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not meant to serve as medical advice or replace consultation with any health care providers you regularly engage with. Transmission or receipt of any of this information is not intended to, and does not, create a therapist-patient relationship. This information is not provided in the course of a therapist-patient relationship and is not intended to constitute medical advice or to substitute for obtaining medical advice from a physician or therapist licensed in the state where your family may reside. We encourage everyone to consult with your physician or therapist to see if they are appropriate and safe for you.

Caregivers Finding A Foothold - Episode 43: Hospital Discharge: Home or Inpatient Rehab when Mom is so weak.

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Content presented on the following podcast is for information purposes, only the views and opinion expressed from host and caregivers are solely given based on the experiences of the individuals involved because each person is so unique. Always consult your physician. Physical or occupational therapist or medical and fitness advice.

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Are you struggling to help your aging parents or disabled spouse to do everyday personal care tasks? Are