Taking sex off the table & preparing for marriage
08/18/21 • 57 min
Men have started asking women, what do you bring to the table? And it seems, everyone is in an uproar about it.
In this episode, the ladies ask: do modern hetero women care what men think or expect of them or, are they entitled and demand men to accept them with their toxic flaws and all? They also discuss ways women can prepare to be a wife, commit to a long-term partnership, and do better if already married.
The bottom line is, heterosexual men, do not place degrees and earnings of a woman at the top of the "must-haves" list. Instead, their seeking companionship from women who can support them and be a help-mate. Do you have what it takes?
Time Stamps:
00:08:13-Are women offended by the question: what do you bring to the table?
00:11:44- Are high-earning men attracting shallow women?
00:17:00-Match them energies & meeting quality suitors
00:19:13-With time, they'll show you who they are
00:21:30-Learn to listen to men
00:24:20-Do women really want to know what men need/want?
00:27:00-It's the behind the scenes for me
00:35:54-How to prepare for marriage or long-term partnership
00:46:00-Y'all giving away too much of yourselves; slow the eff down
00:52:46-Spiritual shit
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Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
Men have started asking women, what do you bring to the table? And it seems, everyone is in an uproar about it.
In this episode, the ladies ask: do modern hetero women care what men think or expect of them or, are they entitled and demand men to accept them with their toxic flaws and all? They also discuss ways women can prepare to be a wife, commit to a long-term partnership, and do better if already married.
The bottom line is, heterosexual men, do not place degrees and earnings of a woman at the top of the "must-haves" list. Instead, their seeking companionship from women who can support them and be a help-mate. Do you have what it takes?
Time Stamps:
00:08:13-Are women offended by the question: what do you bring to the table?
00:11:44- Are high-earning men attracting shallow women?
00:17:00-Match them energies & meeting quality suitors
00:19:13-With time, they'll show you who they are
00:21:30-Learn to listen to men
00:24:20-Do women really want to know what men need/want?
00:27:00-It's the behind the scenes for me
00:35:54-How to prepare for marriage or long-term partnership
00:46:00-Y'all giving away too much of yourselves; slow the eff down
00:52:46-Spiritual shit
______________________________________________________________________________________________
Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
Previous Episode
Black girl daddy drama
Do you have a strenuous relationship with your father? Are there unanswered questions of the past that could potentially help you heal your daddy issues?
In this episode, the ladies discuss what it's like to have a broken or nonexistent bond with their dads. Also, what it's like to grow up with a father at home. Many factors come into play of what causes these connections to be dysfunctional or arduous. Sometimes our mothers are partially to blame. In other instances, a father simply lacks the emotional intelligence to love his children based on his own traumas.
Maybe you had a great relationship with your dad, and you admire him the way others wish they could; the ladies also share what that's like too. Whatever your relationship with your father looks like, BWH wants you to know that you're not alone. Unfortunately, black families in America have suffered extreme tragedies and trauma over many years. Does that excuse the bad behavior of mothers and fathers; hell no, but we have a ton of work to do and, we hope you'll join in on the movement to Stay Busy Healing.
Time Stamps:
00:05:54-Topic Begins
00:10:50- Wtf are we supposed to do?
00:14:05-Settle tf down heart; have a conversation with your old man
00:17:00-Shoutout to the grandma's of the world
00:18:05-Why can't parents just be honest?
00:21:29-You can't miss what you've never had
00:33:04-The father who shows up for his kids
00:38:00-The emotionally unavailable father
00:52:41-When unhealed manifests; healing your inner child
01:00:18-Stop with the family secrets
01:06:40-Spiritual Shit
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Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
Next Episode
Toxic parents and emotionally unavailable men BWH-Two Cents
In this episode of BWH-Two Cents,
The ladies read and respond to TWO letters from listener-family whose identity we'll keep anonymous. In the first letter, a niece has a strenuous relationship with her dad and asks the question, how do you know when to cut off your parent or a loved one? What do I do? Do I wait for change and keep going through this toxic cycle? Or do I do what's best for me?
The second letter is about a woman who recently dated an emotionally unavailable man for a year. She states: he flipped everything on me. I just thought I could be the woman he wanted to change for...
Tune in as we unpack and Stay Busy Healing
*The ladies of BWH are not licensed, mental health therapists or counselors.*
Time Stamps:
00:01:38-The toxic father
00:25:00-The narcissistic lover
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Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
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