Jenifer’s first conversation is with the victim of her ex-husband's most egregious acts. The teenage student that was sexually abused by Spencer Herron who was her teacher at the time. She is now a 21-year-old college student. She speaks about that experience publicly for the first time ever with Jenifer, his ex-wife. It’s a powerful exchange between the two women who never expected to meet one another. The victim’s account draws a roadmap of how a predator operates when a trusted adult targets a young person. Jenifer is devastated at the depravity of Spencer’s behavior. Both women find healing in sharing with each other and the community.
If you would like to reach out to the Betrayal Team, email us at [email protected].
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Explicit content warning
05/05/22 • 35 min
3 Listeners
Betrayal: Weekly - S1: E3 - Breaking Her Silence
Transcript Summary
In this episode titled "Breaking Her Silence," the podcast explores the journey of a sexual assault survivor who overcame fear and stigma to seek justice. The victim courageously filed a case against school administrators, shedding light on the pervasive issue of retaliation and ostracization faced by survivors. The episode features a poignant conversation between the victim and Spence's ex-wife, as they share their experiences and healing process. The victim reveals how she was groomed and manipulated using her faith, leaving her feeling confused, violated, and ashamed. The speaker's own unsettling discovery of a picture with the person being discussed sparks a realization of manipulation and deception. After sharing their story with their parents out of concern for their well-being, the speaker finds immense support from the police, leading to the arrest of the perpetrator. This revelation shocks many, as the person seemed unlikely to be capable of such actions. The victim's experience becomes an opportunity to advocate for other silent survivors, fighting against victim-blaming and shaming. As the healing process continues, the speaker emphasizes the significance of sharing their story to help others. Moving forward, they express gratitude for being able to have this transformative conversation and spotlight the upcoming episodes, which will feature interviews with other women who had relationships with the person involved. Through this powerful episode, listeners are encouraged to listen, learn, and support survivors on their path to healing and justice.
Transcript
This podcast discusses sexual assault. Please take care while listening.
Speaker 1I think we have to make sure people are supported when they come forward. Lots of times people want to come forward, but they're scared this person has groomed them. You know, I'm the teacher. I do this, I got this award. You know, I've been here for so long. These people know me, so it's very hard for people to come forw
S1: E3 - Breaking Her Silence Top Questions Answered
How does fear and potential ostracization affect sexual assault survivors from coming forward?
Fear and potential ostracization can greatly hinder sexual assault survivors from coming forward with their experiences.
What actions can a victim take when filing a case against school administrators?
When filing a case against school administrators, a victim can pursue legal action to seek justice and hold the responsible parties accountable.
How do survivors of sexual assault reflect on their high school experiences with the individuals involved?
Survivors of sexual assault may reflect on their high school experiences with individuals involved, describing initial trust and later realizing the manipulation and violation of boundaries.
How do manipulative tactics impact a survivor's perception of their relationship?
Manipulative tactics can cloud a survivor's perception of their relationship, making it difficult for them to recognize the inappropriate nature of the situation.
What justifications might a teacher offer for their inappropriate actions towards a student?
A teacher might justify their inappropriate actions towards a student by claiming divine intervention or professing love for the survivor.
How does secrecy and fear play a role in manipulating a survivor of sexual assault?
Secrecy and fear can be powerful tools used to manipulate a survivor of sexual assault, leading them to keep the relationship a secret and further control them.
How can speaking up about sexual assault help not only the survivor but other victims as well?
Speaking up about sexual assault can not only provide healing and support for the survivor, but it can also empower and inspire other victims who may be suffering in silence.
What challenges and backlash can survivors face when reporting sexual assault to their school?
Survivors of sexual assault reporting to their school may face challenges such as victim-blaming, disbelief, and unjust treatment.
What is the impact of victim-shaming on survivors of sexual assault?
Victim-shaming can have a devastating impact on survivors of sexual assault, adding further trauma and making it more difficult for them to come forward or seek support.
How can survivors of sexual assault contribute to making a better world by speaking up?
Survivors of sexual assault can contribute to making a better world by speaking up, sharing their experiences, raising awareness, and supporting other survivors in their healing process.
Show more Questions
Show more Questions
Generate a badge
Get a badge for your website that links back to this episode
<a href="https://goodpods.com/podcasts/betrayal-weekly-203365/s1-e3-breaking-her-silence-20740069"> <img src="https://storage.googleapis.com/goodpods-images-bucket/badges/generic-badge-1.svg" alt="listen to s1: e3 - breaking her silence on goodpods" style="width: 225px" /> </a>
Copy