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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

No woman wants to face the horror of her husband’s betrayal. Or have to recover from the emotional, physical & financial trauma and never-ending consequences.
But these courageous women DID. And we’ll walk with you, so YOU can too.
If you’re experiencing pain, chaos, and isolation due to your husband’s lying, anger, gaslighting, manipulation, infidelity, and/or emotional abuse...
If he’s undermined you and condemned you as an angry, codependent, controlling gold-digger...
If you think your husband might be an addict or narcissist. Or even if he’s “just” a jerk...
If your husband (or ex) is miserable to be around, this podcast is for YOU.
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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - Live In Reality (How To Heal)

Live In Reality (How To Heal)

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05/24/22 • 18 min

Is healing from betrayal and abuse even possible? Yes! Andrea Hipps is back on the BTR podcast sharing how living in reality is key.

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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - Shame Didn’t Make Him Do It

Shame Didn’t Make Him Do It

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04/26/22 • 24 min

He may blame his porn use and other abusive behaviors on "shame", but Kate and Anne break it down on the BTR podcast. Shame didn't make him do it.

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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - What Is A Sex Addict Called? What You Need To Know

What Is A Sex Addict Called? What You Need To Know

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11/01/22 • 18 min

Two wives share the label they gave their husbands. Listen now.

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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - Why Giving Your Husband A List Of Boundaries Won’t Work (With Examples)
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07/14/20 • 23 min

Many therapists encourage women to write a list of boundaries. Here's why that never works, with real life examples.
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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - When Your Husband Is Clergy

When Your Husband Is Clergy

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03/09/21 • 22 min

Is your abuser also your spiritual or religious leader? Learn what you can do to keep yourself safe.
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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - Is My Husband Toxic? – When You Discover His Double Life
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01/28/25 • 55 min

There’s another word for toxic – abusive. If you’re asking, “Is my husband toxic?” What you’re really asking is he emotionally or psychologically abusive. Here’s three things you need to know.

What Does “Toxic” Mean?

A toxic person uses manipulation, control, lies, and chaos to get what they want. Often, toxic men use emotional or psychological abuse tactics, which can be harder to detect than physical abuse, but is just as damaging.

See if he’s using any one of these 19 different types of emotional abuse. Take our free emotional abuse quiz.

Here are some red flags of toxic emotional or psychological abuse to watch out for in your marriage:

1. Manipulation

Does your husband often twist situations to make you feel like you’re the problem, even when he’s clearly at fault?

2. Control

Does he lie to control your perception of him, rather than meet you on equal grounds by telling the truth?

3. Objectification

Does he objectify women or exploit women?

Questions to Determine If Your Husband Is Toxic

If you’re unsure whether your husband’s behavior is toxic (abusive), ask yourself these questions:

  1. Does he belittle my emotions, making me feel like I’m “too sensitive” or imagining things?
  2. Does he undermine me by saying my friends or family don’t know what they’re talking about when they’re doing something to empower me?
  3. When I express concerns, does he block conversation by storming off or shutting me down? Or start attacking me with the exact same “concerns” he’s never brought up before?
  4. Does he dismiss or “forget” promises?
  5. Has he ever lied to me about things he’s planning or what’s going to happen that he has no intention of ever actually planning or doing.
  6. Does he frequently criticize, judge, or blame me instead of taking responsibility for his actions?
  7. Do his words or actions make me feel small, unsafe, or like I’m constantly walking on eggshells?

If you answered “yes” to any of these, take our free test for emotional abuse that will help you know for sure.

What Your Husband’s Toxic Behavior Does to You

Living with emotional or psychological abuse can lead to chronic stress, anxiety, depression, and feelings of worthlessness.

It can make you question your reality, leading to something called “gaslighting,” where you’re manipulated into doubting your own experiences or memories. Over time, these effects will erode your mental health and self-esteem.

Yep, Your Husband Is Toxic. What Can I Do?

  1. Acknowledge the Problem

The first step is recognizing that your husband’s behavior is abusive or toxic. It’s not “just how he is,” nor is it “your fault.” To learn more about this type of abuse, listen to The FREE Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast.

  1. Seek The Right Support

Talk to trusted friends or family members about what you’re experiencing. You might also consider attending Group Sessions, like Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Sessions. These sessions provide a safe environment to share your experience with women who understand.

  1. Learn Strategies To Protect Yourself

If your husband is toxic, going to couples therapy or talking to a priest might make things worse for you. Toxic men often use tricks to blame you for the problems. They might even say your relationship or marriage is toxic, trying to make it seem like it’s partly your fault.

His mean behavior isn’t your fault, even if it hurts you. Before talking to a counselor or Pastor, learn what he’ll do next by enrolling in The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Living Free Workshop. That way you’ll be one step ahead.

Transcript: Is My Husband Toxic? – When You Discover His Double Life

Anne: Jessica is on today’s episode. She holds a bachelor’s degree in media studies and has an in-depth understanding of how the media impacts our lives and shapes our attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors. Jessica is a feminist and activist.

She is also on the board of Culture Reframed, a nonprofit organization founded by Dr. Gail Dines, whose mission is to build resilience and resistance to hypersexualized media.

Welcome, Jessica.

Jessica: Thank you. I’m glad to be here.

Anne: Jessica, a lot of women come on my podcast and share their story. And when I told my friends and family, they were like, “Calm down. It’s not that...

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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - When Abusers Use “Spiritual Bypass” To Fool You

When Abusers Use “Spiritual Bypass” To Fool You

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12/24/19 • 25 min

Is he really in recovery? When abusers use spiritual bypass to circumvent true change.
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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - Why Pornography Use Is Adultery – Anne’s Mom Weighs In
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08/20/24 • 9 min

Wondering if pornography use is adultery? It IS and it's also emotional and psychological abuse. Learn more about Betrayal Trauma Recovery.
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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - 12-Step: What You Should Know

12-Step: What You Should Know

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07/31/19 • 21 min

12 Step programs may be beneficial to victims of abuse and betrayal AFTER safety has been established.
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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG - Spiritual Bypass Harms Victims

Spiritual Bypass Harms Victims

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12/17/19 • 23 min

Victims of betrayal and abuse can choose 'healing' instead of 'coping'.
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How many episodes does Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG have?

Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG currently has 527 episodes available.

What topics does Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Podcasts and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG?

The episode title 'What Is A Sex Addict Called? What You Need To Know' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG?

The average episode length on Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG is 25 minutes.

How often are episodes of Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG released?

Episodes of Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG?

The first episode of Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG was released on Jun 28, 2016.

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