
Fun Isn’t Joy: Where is My Happiness?
01/28/25 • 10 min
Most people confuse fun with joy. They chase distractions, escapes, and momentary pleasures, believing it leads to happiness—but does it? In this thought-provoking episode of Being Brilliant, we confront the hard truth: your idea of fun may well be the enemy of your joy.
Discover the difference between fleeting fun and lasting joy. Together, we’ll explore:
• Why fun is often a distraction from deeper truths.
• How joy emerges in moments of peace, silence, and presence.
• The role of suffering and passion in creating a meaningful life.
• Why happiness is found in progress, not escapes.
We dive deep into how society teaches us to avoid pain and seek pleasure, but true joy comes from facing life head-on. From moments of silence in nature to the passion born out of struggle, this episode will challenge you to rethink what happiness really means.
Ask yourself: Is your fun helping you progress, or is it just an escape? Join us as we unpack how to move from distraction to joy and build a life rooted in passion, progress, and peace.
Thank you for tuning into this episode of Being Brilliant. If this sparked something in you, subscribe, share, and leave a review to help others discover the show. Have questions or ideas? Reach out at [email protected] or visit www.beingbrilliant.co. Let’s keep the brilliance alive!
Most people confuse fun with joy. They chase distractions, escapes, and momentary pleasures, believing it leads to happiness—but does it? In this thought-provoking episode of Being Brilliant, we confront the hard truth: your idea of fun may well be the enemy of your joy.
Discover the difference between fleeting fun and lasting joy. Together, we’ll explore:
• Why fun is often a distraction from deeper truths.
• How joy emerges in moments of peace, silence, and presence.
• The role of suffering and passion in creating a meaningful life.
• Why happiness is found in progress, not escapes.
We dive deep into how society teaches us to avoid pain and seek pleasure, but true joy comes from facing life head-on. From moments of silence in nature to the passion born out of struggle, this episode will challenge you to rethink what happiness really means.
Ask yourself: Is your fun helping you progress, or is it just an escape? Join us as we unpack how to move from distraction to joy and build a life rooted in passion, progress, and peace.
Thank you for tuning into this episode of Being Brilliant. If this sparked something in you, subscribe, share, and leave a review to help others discover the show. Have questions or ideas? Reach out at [email protected] or visit www.beingbrilliant.co. Let’s keep the brilliance alive!
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Thank you for tuning into this episode of Being Brilliant. If this sparked something in you, subscribe, share, and leave a review to help others discover the show. Have questions or ideas? Reach out at [email protected] or visit www.beingbrilliant.co. Let’s keep the brilliance alive!
Being Brilliant - Fun Isn’t Joy: Where is My Happiness?
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Dr. Chetan Walia (00:00):
Welcome to Being Brilliant. The podcast designed to ignite your fire, challenge your limits, and inspire you to take action like never before. Hello, I'm Chean Walia, and each episode is your spark, a jolt of energy to move you from where you are to where you want to
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