
#5 - You are NOT alone with Chris Smith
09/26/20 • 54 min
Join Beau Bradley (They/Them/he/him) and special guest, Howard University PhD Student, and published expert on sexuality and non monogamy, Chris Smith (they/them/omni), as they discuss the intertwined nature of queerness and blackness, along with their personal journey with non monogamy. Chris explains the three main types of non monogamy, their experience as a queer child in a conservative black household and how everything they do is routed in love, caring, and respect. Other things covered in this episode include backwashing, cheating, and why it is imperative to be your own primary partner. Join along in this fascinating conversation where Chris's wisdom and knowledge can help us all learn to be more caring and accepting. In a world where at least 39% of the queer population in America identify as BIPOC, where better to learn then from the source! Don't forget to like, subscribe and leave a review! Can't wait to hear what you all have to say!
This episode contains minimal cursing, but I refuse to rate it as "explicit," because that does not apply to this episode.
Sources:
https://journals.openedition.org/ejas/11830
https://www.thecut.com/article/8-signs-a-monogamous-relationship-isnt-for-you.html
https://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/02/science/monogamys-boost-to-human-evolution.html
https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1057%2F9781137411846_8
https://blackcensus.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/When-The-Rainbow-Is-Not-Enough.pdf
https://lgbtfunders.org/resources/issues/people-of-color/
Beau my God is a unique space for trans and gender nonconforming individuals and their allies to rumble about the things going on in our community, all things queer, what it's like to exist in a world that generally doesn't understand us
You can check us out at www.beaumygod.com, and follow us on social media @BeauMyGodPod, if you listen on Spotify or Apple podcasts, leave us a review!
Join Beau Bradley (They/Them/he/him) and special guest, Howard University PhD Student, and published expert on sexuality and non monogamy, Chris Smith (they/them/omni), as they discuss the intertwined nature of queerness and blackness, along with their personal journey with non monogamy. Chris explains the three main types of non monogamy, their experience as a queer child in a conservative black household and how everything they do is routed in love, caring, and respect. Other things covered in this episode include backwashing, cheating, and why it is imperative to be your own primary partner. Join along in this fascinating conversation where Chris's wisdom and knowledge can help us all learn to be more caring and accepting. In a world where at least 39% of the queer population in America identify as BIPOC, where better to learn then from the source! Don't forget to like, subscribe and leave a review! Can't wait to hear what you all have to say!
This episode contains minimal cursing, but I refuse to rate it as "explicit," because that does not apply to this episode.
Sources:
https://journals.openedition.org/ejas/11830
https://www.thecut.com/article/8-signs-a-monogamous-relationship-isnt-for-you.html
https://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/02/science/monogamys-boost-to-human-evolution.html
https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1057%2F9781137411846_8
https://blackcensus.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/When-The-Rainbow-Is-Not-Enough.pdf
https://lgbtfunders.org/resources/issues/people-of-color/
Beau my God is a unique space for trans and gender nonconforming individuals and their allies to rumble about the things going on in our community, all things queer, what it's like to exist in a world that generally doesn't understand us
You can check us out at www.beaumygod.com, and follow us on social media @BeauMyGodPod, if you listen on Spotify or Apple podcasts, leave us a review!
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#4 - Breaststroke & Brain Fog with Amanda Sierzega
On this week's episode, guest @amanda_sierz and Beau catch up on how they met (20 years ago), and discuss a plethora of relatable topic including high school sports, creating an all-inclusive classroom, mental illness, and Amanda's FREE workout available every Thursday! The pair discuss what it is like for high school students today and compare it to their experiences back in the day, highlighting the teen brain and why it is such a difficult time. This is an episode that you don't want to miss!
Sources:
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness.shtmlhttps://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/the-teen-brain-7-things-to-know/index.shtml
Beau my God is a unique space for trans and gender nonconforming individuals and their allies to rumble about the things going on in our community, all things queer, what it's like to exist in a world that generally doesn't understand us
You can check us out at www.beaumygod.com, and follow us on social media @BeauMyGodPod, if you listen on Spotify or Apple podcasts, leave us a review!
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#6 - Windows and Mirrors with Beth Farr
On this week's episode, Beau sits down to chat with dear friend and kindergarten teacher, Beth Farr (she/her). Beth opens up about what inspired her to create an all-inclusive classroom, how important it is to incorporate diversity in early learning, and how we as adults have the responsibility to model social justice for the next generation. The pair discuss queer-inclusive children's books, how literature can create a safe space, and why the language we use matters. This episode is an incredibly educational take on how simplifying the message, can sometimes mean the most. Books referenced in this episode from https://socialjusticebooks.org include: Jack (not Jackie) By Erica Silverman; And Tango Makes Three By Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, Illustrated by: Henry Cole; Heather Has Two Mommies By Leslea Newman, Illustrated by Laura Cornell; and Red, A Crayon's Story By Michael Hall.
Sources:
- https://www.thetrevorproject.org/2019/02/22/research-brief-data-on-transgender-youth/
- https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2020/?section=Introduction
- https://www.wsj.com/articles/youth-suicide-rate-rises-56-in-decade-cdc-says-11571284861
- https://socialjusticebooks.org
Beau my God is a unique space for trans and gender nonconforming individuals and their allies to rumble about the things going on in our community, all things queer, what it's like to exist in a world that generally doesn't understand us
You can check us out at www.beaumygod.com, and follow us on social media @BeauMyGodPod, if you listen on Spotify or Apple podcasts, leave us a review!
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