BONUS: Betrayal Trauma & Actionable Steps to Move Through the Pain

01/18/24 • 46 min

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In this episode, we explore the intricate process of recovering from betrayal trauma, going beyond the conventional notions of betrayal. I explore real-life examples that illustrate the diverse facets of betrayal, ranging from lies and gaslighting to emotional manipulation and financial betrayals in various relationship dynamics after emotional and narcissistic abuse. My goal is to shed light on the nuanced experiences of individuals who have faced these challenges and create a space for empathy and understanding. As always, I will get into the realm of subconscious healing, offering practical strategies to challenge ingrained thought patterns. Listeners will discover techniques such as cognitive restructuring, mindfulness practices and emotional releases aimed at fostering healing from within. Listen in as I provide insights and tools for those on the journey to recovery. Additionally, don't miss out on my featured event, the 3 Day Thriver Event starting on January 24th at 7 pm EST, where we'll go even deeper into practical and subconscious healing strategies.
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In this empowering episode, we navigate the profound impact of the "I am not good enough" mindset, particularly among women recovering from the aftermath of emotional and narcissistic abuse. The episode digs into the layers of this belief, unraveling its roots and examining the emotional toll it takes on individuals who have endured narcissistic abuse.

The discussion highlights common phrases associated with the mindset, revealing the deep-seated self-doubt that often accompanies experiences of emotional abuse and narcissistic manipulation. By identifying these negative thoughts, the episode guides listeners with tips and tools on how to start shifting this.

Analogies, including the powerful mirror analogy, are employed to illustrate the distorted self-perception prevalent in those recovering from emotional and narcissistic abuse. The distorted mirror represents the negative beliefs individuals hold about themselves, emphasizing the need to actively challenge and adjust this distorted view through cognitive restructuring.

The episode underscores the emotional consequences of the "I am not good enough" mindset, acknowledging its roots in past relationships and societal expectations, particularly within the context of narcissistic abuse dynamics. Practical tips and strategies are provided to shift this thinking, encouraging listeners to challenge negative self-talk, cultivate self-compassion, and set realistic standards.

Throughout the discussion, the importance of seeking professional support in the context of healing from emotional and narcissistic abuse is highlighted. The episode concludes with a message of hope, reinforcing that everyone is inherently worthy of love and respect, and healing is not only possible but an ongoing journey toward self-discovery and empowerment.

Tune in to discover the transformative power of cognitive restructuring and the resilience that emerges when individuals break free from the shackles of the "I am not good enough" mindset in the context of narcissistic abuse, paving the way for a brighter and more self-affirming future.
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My Best Tips to Stop Rumination so You Can FEEL JOY

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In this transformative episode, we embark on a journey to break free from the cycle of rumination, exploring practical tips to shift thought patterns and make space for joy. As survivors of abuse, we understand the weight of persistent thoughts about the past and the challenges they pose to experiencing present happiness.

Delving into the neuroscience of rumination, we uncover the impact on emotional well-being and the difficulty of finding joy amidst repetitive negative thinking. Through analogies like the "Mind as a Garden" and the visualization of breaking thought chains, we provide insights into the process of shifting thought patterns.

Practical strategies, including mindfulness practices, grounding exercises, and thought replacement techniques, are shared to help survivors actively redirect their focus and interrupt negative thought cycles. We introduce the concept of a "Joy Jar" and explore the connection between gratitude and joy, offering tangible ways to cultivate positivity in daily life.

As we navigate these transformative insights, I invite you to join my upcoming 3-day live event on Zoom. This event promises an efficient and joyful approach to stopping thoughts about the ex and the pain of abuse. Discover how to reclaim your present happiness, break free from rumination, and infuse your life with moments of joy. Don't miss this opportunity to be part of a supportive community actively working towards healing and empowerment. Tune in, embrace the journey, and unlock the space for joy in your life.
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