Start Your Engines Ep.7: Is Your Wife Being Held Back by the 'Duty Sex' Message?

04/30/20 • 38 min

We have found the the message that "women NEED to have sex regularly or else their husbands will stray" Is very harmful to their enjoyment of sex. But we also found that they often don't get that message from their husbands. Their are a lot of great husbands out their whose wives are still struggling because they have heard this message at church or in books or from media .So let's talk about how you can replace that message with something better and help your wife find sex sexy again. Also, Connor comes on to talk with Keith about porn and with Rebecca about consent. They talk about the harmful messages that arise around these issues and how we can combat them.
Is Sex an Entitlement?
Top 10 Effects of Porn on the Brain
Porn and Sex Trafficking
4 Stages of Porn Recovery
Marital Rape Podcast

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We need to talk about what actually constitutes rape and consent in marriage, and where obligation sex fits into the conversation
Podcast Extras on the Blog
Marital Rape
1 Corinthians 7:3-5: What do the verses really mean?
Do Not Deprive: What if it’s actually women who are being deprived?
Why We Need a New Definition of Sex
Have we made sex into an entitlement?
Why submission doesn’t mean letting yourself be hurt (a look at the book Created to be His Helpmeet)
Sexual trauma & The Body Keeps the Score

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Episode 58: Quarantine with Your Spouse

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Today we talk about about how to handle being cooped up in the house spending all day every day with your spouse. It's not just something to get through, but something you can even grow to love!

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