Episode 86: You are NOT methadone for your husband's porn use!

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02/04/21 • 58 min

This week Sheila and Rebecca are digging deep into just how bad some of the advice out there is for Christians dealing with porn use in their marriage. We need to talk about this better, everyone!
Thank you to Michael John Cusick for stopping by to help give us an even better look at what healing and recovery can look like for the many people struggling with pornography.
Links to things mentioned:

Our Porn series in April (read the first; the rest are linked from there)
Our Porn Habits Podcast: How most porn use predates the marriage (my response to Focus on the Family telling women that men watch porn because their wives don't have sex enough)
Michael John Cusick Website, Podcast, and book: Surfing for God, about discovering the divine desire beneath the sexual struggle
Restoring the Soul
Restoring the Soul podcast

Andrew Bauman, author of The Sexually Healthy Man

The Great Sex Rescue

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Andrew Bauman, author of The Sexually Healthy Man

The Great Sex Rescue

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Start Your Engines Ep. 15: What if Lust ISN'T Every Man's Battle?

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And we're back with a new 'Start Your Engines' episode! The whole team is practically here today, as Sheila, Keith, Joanna, AND Rebecca all join in to discuss this all too common teaching that 'ALL men will struggle with lust!'
Links to things mentioned:

The Great Sex Rescue
Twitter thread we read
Blog posts:

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Episode 87: Duty Sex isn't Sexy

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This week were talking all about duty sex and consent! Thank you to our guests that joined us, it's so encouraging to hear other voices out there with a heart to share this hopeful message of what healthy sex looks like in marriage.
Links to things mentioned:

Andrew Bauman: his book The Sexually Healthy Man
Benjamin Young's Twitter Thread
Benjamin Young's ministry Guard the Gift
The Great Sex Rescue
Our Previous Podcast on Marital Rape and Consent
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
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