Love: Defining the Three Essentials
09/12/22 • 17 min
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What you’ll gain:
- Practical tools for leading yourself and others well
- Real-time application to marriage, fatherhood, and work
- A small, committed group of men pursuing purpose and growth
- A clear path to live and lead with greater clarity, confidence, and impact
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When committed love, emotional intimacy, and passion collide, the result is a work of art called marriage.
"Love is more than a feeling and deeper than a crafty slogan or a line of a song."
Today we're talking about love. The word love is described in so many different ways. Some make sense. Some are just silly. Some talk about love. Some try to define love. Some of these you may have heard of well, and other others may be new to you. Love is blind. Love is in the air. All you need is love. Love is like war. Easy to begin and hard to end. Not sure about that one. Love means differences can be worked out. Love is reaching your dreams together. Our love is like dividing by zero. It can't be defined. That kind of feels more like a bad pickup line. Yeah, it does. While some of those could be true, it's really difficult to define love. What makes up love?
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How can love be defined? 2. What are the components of love? 3. What does love look like in a healthy marriage?
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing
Connect with us:
Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSend Questions and Comments to: [email protected]
Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall
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Altitude Training is Here!
James is launching something brand new—and you're invited.
Altitude Training is a 12-month coaching experience designed for men who are ready to grow—at home, at work, and in life. Whether you're looking to lead more effectively, show up with greater intention in your marriage, or become the dad your kids look up to, this journey is all about helping you rise to your next level of leadership without losing yourself in the process.
What you’ll gain:
- Practical tools for leading yourself and others well
- Real-time application to marriage, fatherhood, and work
- A small, committed group of men pursuing purpose and growth
- A clear path to live and lead with greater clarity, confidence, and impact
Space is limited!
Text the word GROW to 66866 to learn more and take the next step.
When committed love, emotional intimacy, and passion collide, the result is a work of art called marriage.
"Love is more than a feeling and deeper than a crafty slogan or a line of a song."
Today we're talking about love. The word love is described in so many different ways. Some make sense. Some are just silly. Some talk about love. Some try to define love. Some of these you may have heard of well, and other others may be new to you. Love is blind. Love is in the air. All you need is love. Love is like war. Easy to begin and hard to end. Not sure about that one. Love means differences can be worked out. Love is reaching your dreams together. Our love is like dividing by zero. It can't be defined. That kind of feels more like a bad pickup line. Yeah, it does. While some of those could be true, it's really difficult to define love. What makes up love?
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How can love be defined? 2. What are the components of love? 3. What does love look like in a healthy marriage?
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing
Connect with us:
Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSend Questions and Comments to: [email protected]
Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall
SUBSCRIBE ON:
Apple Podcasts
Spotify
Google Podcasts
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With Ben and Elisa Haake
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James is launching something brand new—and you're invited.
Altitude Training is a 12-month coaching experience designed for men who are ready to grow—at home, at work, and in life. Whether you're looking to lead more effectively, show up with greater intention in your marriage, or become the dad your kids look up to, this journey is all about helping you rise to your next level of leadership without losing yourself in the process.
What you’ll gain:
- Practical tools for leading yourself and others well
- Real-time application to marriage, fatherhood, and work
- A small, committed group of men pursuing purpose and growth
- A clear path to live and lead with greater clarity, confidence, and impact
Space is limited!
Text the word GROW to 66866 to learn more and take the next step.
"The Enneagram's effect on marriage." is not about: 1. The Enneagram is a perfect tool for predicting compatibility in marriage. 2. The Enneagram can help identify and correct relationship problems. 3. The Enneagram can help couples resolve conflicts and improve communication. Do you know your Enneagram type? It just might be the key to a happy marriage.
"I felt understood for the first time and found out that castling is okay because it's how I restore and how I even when we first got married, I had to look at her and say, I need you to hear that I love you dearly, but I need to be away
Ben and Elisa Haake are a married couple who have been together for 12 years. They have two children and live in Florida. Ben is a worship pastor at Christ Fellowship Church and Elisa is a vocal coach and worship leader. They are both super hosts with Airbnb.
This is Ben and Elisa Haake's story...
Ben and Elisa Haake have been married for twelve years and have two kids. They met when Ben asked Elisa out on a double date. Eight years into their marriage, they realized that they never fought. After taking the enneagram test, they learned the reason why. The enneagram has given them language to understand their marriage dynamic and has helped them to grow in self-awareness, spouse awareness, and couple awareness.
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How the enneagram can help you understand your relationship dynamic 2. How to use the enneagram to grow in self-awareness, spouse-awareness, and couple-awareness 3. How the enneagram can help you understand your shadow side.
Resources:
Justin IG: @benhaake
Andrea IG: @elisahaake
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram
Connect with us:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: [email protected]
Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall
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With Dave and Bethany Kush
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Altitude Training is a 12-month coaching experience designed for men who are ready to grow—at home, at work, and in life. Whether you're looking to lead more effectively, show up with greater intention in your marriage, or become the dad your kids look up to, this journey is all about helping you rise to your next level of leadership without losing yourself in the process.
What you’ll gain:
- Practical tools for leading yourself and others well
- Real-time application to marriage, fatherhood, and work
- A small, committed group of men pursuing purpose and growth
- A clear path to live and lead with greater clarity, confidence, and impact
Space is limited!
Text the word GROW to 66866 to learn more and take the next step.
In this episode, James and Lisa talk with Dave and Bethany Kush, who share their lifelong journey of learning and growth as a couple, in light of the Enneagram.
"Oh, my gosh, now everybody knows. They see me with all my flaws. I felt like I'm standing in front of a crowd wearing just my underpants."
Dave and Bethany Kush are a couple who have been married for 33 years. They have known each other since college and have been friends for a long time. Dave has worked in the corporate world for 15 years, and Bethany has been a stay-at-home mom for most of their marriage. They have both been involved in ministry for the past 15 years.
In this episode we cover:
1. How the enneagram can help you understand yourself and your spouse better
2. How the enneagram can help you navigate conflict in a healthy way
3. How the enneagram can help you understand your motivations and fears
Resources:
IGNITE One Day Marriage Enrichment Event
Dave IG: @davekush
Bethany IG: @bethkush
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram
Connect with us:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: [email protected]
Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall
SUBSCRIBE ON:
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Spotify
Google Podcasts
Amazon Music
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