EP 48 | Embracing Authenticity: Navigating Alternative Lifestyles and Identity with Shannon Elliott
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11/14/24 • 51 min
Gather 'round the Kinky Kampfire as we explore the vibrant tapestry of alternative lifestyles with the fabulous, Shannon Elliott, by our side. Ever wondered how labels can both liberate and confine us? Shannon and I tackle this curious dynamic as we swap tales of personal discovery within the BDSM, kinky, and non-monogamous communities. We dive deep into the sense of belonging these spaces offer—where judgment is left at the door, and everyone is free to be their authentic self. It's a reflection on how stepping into these circles can be as exhilarating as finding love in a Hunger Games arena—no need to choose, just embrace it all!
We also chat about how societal norms are flipped on their head when we start discussing the intricacies of swinging, polyamory, and the often misunderstood world of kink. Reality TV shows like "90 Day Fiancé" and "Sister Wives" might scratch the surface, but they're just the tip of the iceberg. Shannon and I explore the vibrant spectrum of attraction styles, the meaningfulness of labels, and the delightful range of human connection that exists beyond conventional definitions. Together, we remind ourselves of the importance of curiosity and open conversations in navigating identities—whether bisexual, pansexual, or anything in between.
On a more personal note, Shannon shares her own journey from a feedback-giver to a published author of queer, kinky romances enriched by her experiences in non-profits and storytelling. Shannon and I mull over the joys and challenges of being a full-time writer and the hilarious notion of an improv group therapy session inspired by "The Body Keeps the Score." As we wrap up, we celebrate the richness of alternative lifestyles, the courage it takes to embrace one's true self, and the freedom that comes with it. Join us for some laughter, insight, and a few epiphanies around our metaphorical campfire.
Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the wild world of alternative lifestyles?
Send in your questions. No topic is too taboo, no curiosity too small! We’re all making mistakes, growing, and exploring together!Submit your questions anonymously at [email protected] or slide into our DMs at Twitter-KinkyKampfire, YT-AroundtheKinkyKampfire, IG-KampfireKinksters. Let’s keep the fire going!
Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/
Gather 'round the Kinky Kampfire as we explore the vibrant tapestry of alternative lifestyles with the fabulous, Shannon Elliott, by our side. Ever wondered how labels can both liberate and confine us? Shannon and I tackle this curious dynamic as we swap tales of personal discovery within the BDSM, kinky, and non-monogamous communities. We dive deep into the sense of belonging these spaces offer—where judgment is left at the door, and everyone is free to be their authentic self. It's a reflection on how stepping into these circles can be as exhilarating as finding love in a Hunger Games arena—no need to choose, just embrace it all!
We also chat about how societal norms are flipped on their head when we start discussing the intricacies of swinging, polyamory, and the often misunderstood world of kink. Reality TV shows like "90 Day Fiancé" and "Sister Wives" might scratch the surface, but they're just the tip of the iceberg. Shannon and I explore the vibrant spectrum of attraction styles, the meaningfulness of labels, and the delightful range of human connection that exists beyond conventional definitions. Together, we remind ourselves of the importance of curiosity and open conversations in navigating identities—whether bisexual, pansexual, or anything in between.
On a more personal note, Shannon shares her own journey from a feedback-giver to a published author of queer, kinky romances enriched by her experiences in non-profits and storytelling. Shannon and I mull over the joys and challenges of being a full-time writer and the hilarious notion of an improv group therapy session inspired by "The Body Keeps the Score." As we wrap up, we celebrate the richness of alternative lifestyles, the courage it takes to embrace one's true self, and the freedom that comes with it. Join us for some laughter, insight, and a few epiphanies around our metaphorical campfire.
Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the wild world of alternative lifestyles?
Send in your questions. No topic is too taboo, no curiosity too small! We’re all making mistakes, growing, and exploring together!Submit your questions anonymously at [email protected] or slide into our DMs at Twitter-KinkyKampfire, YT-AroundtheKinkyKampfire, IG-KampfireKinksters. Let’s keep the fire going!
Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/
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Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the wild world of alternative lifestyles?
Send in your questions. No topic is too taboo, no curiosity too small! We’re all making mistakes, growing, and exploring together!Submit your questions anonymously at [email protected] or slide into our DMs at Twitter-KinkyKampfire, YT-AroundtheKinkyKampfire, IG-KampfireKinksters. Let’s keep the fire going!
Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/
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Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the wild world of alternative lifestyles?
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Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/
Around the Kinky Kampfire Podcast - EP 48 | Embracing Authenticity: Navigating Alternative Lifestyles and Identity with Shannon Elliott
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