20 | Experiencing Peace While Building Big Scary Things

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In this episode, I explore a powerful and often overlooked aspect of achieving success and finding peace while working hard. Drawing on my own experiences and insights, I highlight the complex dynamics that women, particularly women of color, face in their professional journeys. I challenge the conventional wisdom that peace is primarily linked to self-esteem or confidence and propose a different perspective: peace equals presence.
To maintain that presence and peace, I stress the importance of two fundamental elements. By embracing these lifestyle choices, you can detoxify your environment, counteract toxic power dynamics, and remain anchored in your true self. In a world where we often get lost in other people's perceptions, this episode serves as a reminder that finding peace is about coming back to yourself and staying connected to your core identity.
Join me on this journey to discover a path to peace and presence that transcends conventional notions of success and leadership.
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“With each new level of leadership that we ascend to, or that we expand into rather, new things are required of us. New perspectives, new ways of being, new habits are required of us to actually access peace”.
“Peace, in my belief, peace equals presence”.
“This shift around peace and presence and what we're actually looking to do, it really is about relinquishing this grip that we have on a false sense of control... and this desire and need to control particularly what other people think about us”.
“We can't control whether or not people respect us. We can do things that are filled with integrity to our own values and to our own mission. We can do our best to collaborate and to reach across whatever it is we need to reach across to work with folks. But that's all we can do. The focus has to be on ‘what strategies do I need to employ? If we're talking about tactics and things like that, to get the work done? What things do I need to do to get what I need out of this relationship? How can I more and more skillfully begin to understand the ecosystem here, the political system here... whatever these things are that are at play... to just get what I need to happen done? Not how can I get this person to feel a way about me, we gotta let that go. We gotta let that go.”
“ The people who see you, help you see yourself clearly”.
“ It's hard to be present when you're so busy running around in other people's minds”.
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