
EP035 The Fantasy of Getting Back Together – Will It Ever Go Away?
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01/07/19 • 23 min
One of my dear listeners from New Zealand sent me a message a couple of days ago and asked me some very important and specific questions: Does the yearning and the fantasy of getting back together ever go away? Does the pain subside eventually? And is it wise to consider getting in touch with him after a couple of years when I have made progress in my recovery? Aleah will also share her number one tool for how to deal with the feeling of yearning and longing. Before you do get in touch with someone from your past, make sure to try this first!
Are you loving this show? You'd make my day if you were to consider supporting my show. For as little as 3 dollars / month you'll allow me to continue this show with more support. Click on the link below to get on my supporter team now:
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Thank you for walking the path of love and healing. You deserve epic love and a happy life, always.
All my love,
Aleah
Important Links:
- Want immediate support for the love challenges you're going through? Schedule your personal time with me now:
calendly.com/aleahava/sessions - Are you looking for powerful guided meditations or a personalised channeled meditation? Find yours here:
https://aleahava.com/meditation-membership/ - Prefer to start with my free daily alignment meditation?
Download it here:
https://theroyalpath.com/freemeditation/ - Want to join my next high-impact, high-proximity female group healing portal? Find more information here:
https://aleahava.com/venus-unleashed/ - Looking for personal support? Apply now for my limited 1:1 Mentorship spaces:
https://aleahava.com/mentorship/ - Find more other info at: https://aleahava.com
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One of my dear listeners from New Zealand sent me a message a couple of days ago and asked me some very important and specific questions: Does the yearning and the fantasy of getting back together ever go away? Does the pain subside eventually? And is it wise to consider getting in touch with him after a couple of years when I have made progress in my recovery? Aleah will also share her number one tool for how to deal with the feeling of yearning and longing. Before you do get in touch with someone from your past, make sure to try this first!
Are you loving this show? You'd make my day if you were to consider supporting my show. For as little as 3 dollars / month you'll allow me to continue this show with more support. Click on the link below to get on my supporter team now:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2183151/supporters/new
Another way you can support me is to subscribe and leave me a love note (a review), I'll appreciate that so much!
Thank you for walking the path of love and healing. You deserve epic love and a happy life, always.
All my love,
Aleah
Important Links:
- Want immediate support for the love challenges you're going through? Schedule your personal time with me now:
calendly.com/aleahava/sessions - Are you looking for powerful guided meditations or a personalised channeled meditation? Find yours here:
https://aleahava.com/meditation-membership/ - Prefer to start with my free daily alignment meditation?
Download it here:
https://theroyalpath.com/freemeditation/ - Want to join my next high-impact, high-proximity female group healing portal? Find more information here:
https://aleahava.com/venus-unleashed/ - Looking for personal support? Apply now for my limited 1:1 Mentorship spaces:
https://aleahava.com/mentorship/ - Find more other info at: https://aleahava.com
- Want to send me some love? Subscribe to my show:
Addicted To Love Podcast on Itunes
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EP034 Unrequited Love: When We Still Want The One Who Cannot And Will Not Love Us Back
Do you find yourself longing for a person who cannot and will not love you back? Is unrequited love something you are familiar with? Maybe you have well-set intentions to never engage with anyone again who is not willing and able to invest the time and effort you deserve. And yet somehow, you find yourself exactly in that kind of situation. No, you are not a failure. This is a natural part of recovery. Today I will be sharing my own experience about feeling the longing for someone I know is not my match but oh boy is my head not yet aligned with my heart. I share with you how I leveraged this experience to actually take another major step getting further ahead in my own recovery.
Are you loving this show? You'd make my day if you were to consider supporting my show. For as little as 3 dollars / month you'll allow me to continue this show with more support. Click on the link below to get on my supporter team now:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2183151/supporters/new
Another way you can support me is to subscribe and leave me a love note (a review), I'll appreciate that so much!
Thank you for walking the path of love and healing. You deserve epic love and a happy life, always.
All my love,
Aleah
Important Links:
- Want immediate support for the love challenges you're going through? Schedule your personal time with me now:
calendly.com/aleahava/sessions - Are you looking for powerful guided meditations or a personalised channeled meditation? Find yours here:
https://aleahava.com/meditation-membership/ - Prefer to start with my free daily alignment meditation?
Download it here:
https://theroyalpath.com/freemeditation/ - Want to join my next high-impact, high-proximity female group healing portal? Find more information here:
https://aleahava.com/venus-unleashed/ - Looking for personal support? Apply now for my limited 1:1 Mentorship spaces:
https://aleahava.com/mentorship/ - Find more other info at: https://aleahava.com
- Want to send me some love? Subscribe to my show:
Addicted To Love Podcast on Itunes
Next Episode

EP036 Guided Meditation For Loneliness, Anxiety and Overwhelm
If you experience moments of loneliness and anxiety or if you feel generally overwhelmed with difficult feelings, listen to this meditation. I created it for one of my clients and she reported back that it really helped her to dive deeper into her feelings and eventually find balance again. So I decided to make it available for you all. Do it once you are at home, with privacy, with headphones on, laying down so you can fully focus on it and relax into it. Let it affect you and repeat it as many times as you would like. Let me know how it went for you.
Are you loving this show? You'd make my day if you were to consider supporting my show. For as little as 3 dollars / month you'll allow me to continue this show with more support. Click on the link below to get on my supporter team now:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2183151/supporters/new
Another way you can support me is to subscribe and leave me a love note (a review), I'll appreciate that so much!
Thank you for walking the path of love and healing. You deserve epic love and a happy life, always.
All my love,
Aleah
Important Links:
- Want immediate support for the love challenges you're going through? Schedule your personal time with me now:
calendly.com/aleahava/sessions - Are you looking for powerful guided meditations or a personalised channeled meditation? Find yours here:
https://aleahava.com/meditation-membership/ - Prefer to start with my free daily alignment meditation?
Download it here:
https://theroyalpath.com/freemeditation/ - Want to join my next high-impact, high-proximity female group healing portal? Find more information here:
https://aleahava.com/venus-unleashed/ - Looking for personal support? Apply now for my limited 1:1 Mentorship spaces:
https://aleahava.com/mentorship/ - Find more other info at: https://aleahava.com
- Want to send me some love? Subscribe to my show:
Addicted To Love Podcast on Itunes
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