
EP. 63 The Scary Reality Of Not Getting Help
10/31/19 • 30 min
The entire Halloween season is about pretend stuff that’s meant to make our imaginations run wild and scare us. However, I think that reality is much scarier than any commercialized holiday could ever be. Think about those pumpkins with “student loans” or a “check engine” light on them...things like that prove that everyday stuff is scarier than any spider or haunted house could ever be. When it’s a scary movie you can just turn it off and walk away, when it’s your mental health or piles of debt, you can’t.
In this episode, I’m sharing how to defeat the darkness that is consuming your life and what the scary reality of not getting help could look like.
IN THIS EPISODE, SAMI SHARES ABOUT:- When reality becomes scarier than fantasy
- Motivation to keep going when your life is overwhelming
- How to go from surviving to thriving in every aspect of your life
- Where to start with Positive Thinking, Goal Setting, Minimalism, Budgeting, and Time Management
- Enroll in the new course, Control Your Crazy
- Free Course: Magic + Money
- Vee Frugal Fox’s Time Blocking Worksheet
- Podcast EP. 62 The Path From Smashing Debt To Saving Cash with guest Ashley from Ash Saving Cash
- Podcast EP. 59 How To Finish The Year On A High Point: The Idea Behind The M.B.N. Challenge
- Follow me on Instagram
- Podcast Home Page
- Leave a Podcast Review
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HEY I'M SAMI WOMACKI'm the wife to my high school sweetheart, Daniel, + homeschooling momma to our 3 girls. I'm the Budgeting Coach + Motivational Speaker behind A Sunny Side Up Life.
My family used to be in $490k of debt + living paycheck-to-paycheck, but after we hit rock bottom everything changed for us!
Now that my family has become debt free + gained financial freedom, I want to help your family do the same! My passion is inspiring women to live abundant lives through budgeting, intentional living, and positive thinking.
I offer a jump start into budgeting with my free 8-day Declutter Your Budget Challenge + full budgeting experience with my course, Your Sunny Money Method.
The entire Halloween season is about pretend stuff that’s meant to make our imaginations run wild and scare us. However, I think that reality is much scarier than any commercialized holiday could ever be. Think about those pumpkins with “student loans” or a “check engine” light on them...things like that prove that everyday stuff is scarier than any spider or haunted house could ever be. When it’s a scary movie you can just turn it off and walk away, when it’s your mental health or piles of debt, you can’t.
In this episode, I’m sharing how to defeat the darkness that is consuming your life and what the scary reality of not getting help could look like.
IN THIS EPISODE, SAMI SHARES ABOUT:- When reality becomes scarier than fantasy
- Motivation to keep going when your life is overwhelming
- How to go from surviving to thriving in every aspect of your life
- Where to start with Positive Thinking, Goal Setting, Minimalism, Budgeting, and Time Management
- Enroll in the new course, Control Your Crazy
- Free Course: Magic + Money
- Vee Frugal Fox’s Time Blocking Worksheet
- Podcast EP. 62 The Path From Smashing Debt To Saving Cash with guest Ashley from Ash Saving Cash
- Podcast EP. 59 How To Finish The Year On A High Point: The Idea Behind The M.B.N. Challenge
- Follow me on Instagram
- Podcast Home Page
- Leave a Podcast Review
Reviews are everything on iTunes! Would you take a minute and click here to leave a review?
If you have a question or comment about this episode connect with me over on Facebook or Instagram.
HEY I'M SAMI WOMACKI'm the wife to my high school sweetheart, Daniel, + homeschooling momma to our 3 girls. I'm the Budgeting Coach + Motivational Speaker behind A Sunny Side Up Life.
My family used to be in $490k of debt + living paycheck-to-paycheck, but after we hit rock bottom everything changed for us!
Now that my family has become debt free + gained financial freedom, I want to help your family do the same! My passion is inspiring women to live abundant lives through budgeting, intentional living, and positive thinking.
I offer a jump start into budgeting with my free 8-day Declutter Your Budget Challenge + full budgeting experience with my course, Your Sunny Money Method.
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EP. 62 The Path From Smashing Debt To Saving Cash with guest Ashley from Ash Saving Cash
The path between living on maxed-out credit cards with financed eyelashes to having a no-spend-year is a bumpy one. The mindset work that is required to make this drastic change is definitely not for the faint of heart, but women like Ashley Ahmad are proof that it can be done.
Ashley from @ashsavingcash is sharing the ins and outs of her journey to becoming debt-free as a young nurse right out of college. She’s sharing what led to her rock-bottom money moment, how her mental health also went on a downward spiral as a result, and how she hustled her way back out of survival mode.
IN THIS EPISODE, SAMI + ASHLEY SHARE ABOUT:- All about Ashley’s upbringing, post-college years, and nursing career
- Her rock-bottom money moments and the scary mental effects
- What led her to do a no-spend-year and her takeaways
- How to do a no-spend challenge (needs vs. wants)
- The idea behind a reverse budget
- Where she’s at now in her journey and what the future holds
- The Spender's Guide to Debt-Free Living: How a Spending Fast Helped Me Get from Broke to Badass in Record Time by Anna Newell Jones
- The Total Money Makeover: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness by Dave Ramsey
- Audible Membership
- #debtfreecommunity on Instagram
- Enroll in the new course, Control Your Crazy
- Podcast EP. 59 How To Finish The Year On A High Point: The Idea Behind The M.B.N. Challenge
- Follow me on Instagram
- Podcast Home Page
- Leave a Podcast Review
*This post contains affiliate links. Visit my disclaimer page for more info.
MEET OUR GUESTAshley Ahmad is a 33-year-old registered nurse and the woman behind @ashsavingcash. She is married and furmom to two cats and a feisty rescue pup. She also loves to cook and finds it therapeutic, so follow her on Pinterest for meal tips!
Ashley has been a member of the #debtfreecommunity on Instagram for over two years documenting her financial journey. Back in 2017 she underwent a complete financial transformation and embarked on a no-spend year. Since then she and her husband have paid off $85k+ of debt, cash-flowed a Jeep Cherokee this year, and are now working on paying down their mortgage and investing.
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EP. 64 Babes Who Budget with guest Sarah Wilson from Budget Girl
In this episode, I'm talking to Budget Girl herself, Sarah Wilson about all things budgeting. She talks about her rock bottom moments, how it felt to share her entire journey with the world through YouTube, and about how she's transitioned from budgeting as a single woman to now budgeting in a relationship. Plus Sarah gives some heartfelt advice for all women regarding their financial knowledge, and she reminds us that money is truly what gives us options and freedom in life.
IN THIS EPISODE, SAMI + SARAH CHAT ABOUT:- Sarah’s upbringing, young adulthood, + current life
- How she overcame her shopping addiction childhood
- Her rock-bottom moment of being a college graduate with no job
- What it was like to be one of the first people to share online about paying off debt + what it’s like to share so publicly
- Budgeting as a single woman vs. in a relationship
- The positive spillover effects of budgeting
- The differences between paying off debt vs. savings
- Why money equal power, options, + freedom
- What we can expect from Sarah in the future
- RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- A Sunny Side Up Life Budgeting Resources:
- Sarah Mentions:
- Graham Stephan
- Meet Kevin
- The Financial Diet
- The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey
- #debtfreecommunity on Instagram
- Podcast EP. 59 How To Finish The Year On A High Point: The Idea Behind The M.B.N. Challenge
- Follow me on Instagram
- Podcast Home Page
- Leave a Podcast Review
*This post may contain affiliate links. Visit my disclaimer page for more info.
MEET OUR GUEST Sarah Wilson, aka Budget Girl, is a YouTuber, debt-destroyer, side-hustler, speaker and financial wellness advocate.She’s made videos on her YouTube Channel - Budget Girl for the past five years on how to live a frugal, fun and financially fearless life, showcasing ways to manage your money on any income, pay off debt, how to invest, build wealth, raise your income, and live your best life with the aid of a budget.
Sarah documented her successes and challenges while paying off $33,000 of student loans in just 3 years on a tiny reporter’s salary of $26,000/ year in real-time on YouTube, where she has over 57k subscribers and has over 6 million views. She also runs BudgetGirl.com, a site devoted to providing free advice and resources for anyone seeking to better their finances.
She side-hustled, negotiated for better pay and positions and worked ...
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