46-Domestic Violence WARRIOR: From Victim to Advocate

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11/13/24 • 8 min

Can a moment of vulnerability transform a life? Join me as I recount my journey from a domestic violence victim to an empowered warrior, sharing my story before an audience of victims, survivors and advocates. This episode captures the raw emotion and courage required to step out of the shadows of an abusive relationship, highlighting not only the staggering statistics of domestic violence but the strength found in breaking free and healing. My encounter with Karen, the incredible co-founder of After Awareness, further fueled my passion for advocacy and collective action, igniting a mission to shatter misconceptions and inspire resilience.
Empowerment and resilience are not just words but choices we must make every day. As a part of the 1 in 3 Podcast community, I invite you to rise with us—your stories are powerful allies in this fight against domestic violence. Together, we support each other through setbacks, drawing strength from shared experiences. Stay engaged with our community, share your journey, and let’s celebrate our resilience and determination as warriors. Your story matters, and together, we can forge a path of hope and healing.

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1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.

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If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
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Can a legal system designed to protect actually put lives at risk? Join me as I unravel the tragic story of Caitlynne, a young woman whose life was cut short by her husband, Alex Daniel Guajardo, despite his known history of domestic violence. Through the lens of bail reform, I examine how the presumption of innocence, while crucial, can sometimes clash with public safety, particularly when violent offenders are released on personal recognizance bonds. Caitlynne's heart-wrenching story serves as a chilling reminder of these systemic flaws, and her mother Melanie Infinger's advocacy for Caitlynne's Law calls for critical tightening of bail conditions for those with violent pasts.
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https://www.fox26houston.com/news/pasadena-man-sentenced-two-life-sentences-plus-10-years-fatally-stabbing-pregnant-wife
https://www.harriscountyda.com/pasadena_man_sentenced_to_two_life_sentences_plus_10_years_for_fatally_stabbing_pregnant_wife
https://x.com/KHOU/status/1848844026687934526
http://www.caitlynneslaw.org/
https://www.khou.com/article/news/crime/caitlynne-guajardo-killer-sentenced/285-2b944b42-cd71-47b4-84c0-bb5633d7d2c5
https://www.click2houston.com/news/local/2024/10/22/pasadena-man-who-killed-his-pregnant-wife-sentenced-to-2-life-terms/
https://www.khou.com/article/news/crime/caitlynnes-law-texas-bill-harris-county-bond/285-8b18871d-78b7-446e-a534-c761dc2b33b4
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1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.

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If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
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47-Domestic Violence WARRIOR: Amanda; Part 1

What happens when the scars left by abuse are invisible? Join me to hear the complexities of emotional and psychological abuse with Amanda, a special education teacher who bravely shares her personal story of enduring narcissistic abuse and domestic violence. She details the often-misunderstood nature of living with someone who exhibits traits of narcissistic personality disorder, shedding light on the emotional torment and manipulation that can occur behind closed doors. Amanda's experience underscores the urgent need for wider recognition and understanding of non-physical abuse, especially within legal systems, offering a beacon of hope and awareness for those navigating similar struggles.
In a world where perception often masks reality, we delve into the shadowy realm of covert narcissistic abuse. Discover how these individuals craft charming public personas while engaging in manipulative tactics such as smear campaigns and deploying the unnerving narcissist smirk. Amanda's insights reveal the internal conflicts faced by narcissists, and how their unresolved childhood issues can manifest as misogynistic behaviors. By recognizing these damaging patterns, listeners can arm themselves against the exhausting cycle of emotional abuse and take steps toward safeguarding their mental health. This episode invites you to join a supportive community aimed at understanding, healing, and breaking free from the confines of emotional manipulation.
Amanda's profile link: https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/amanda-webb/

1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.

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If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
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1 in 3 - 46-Domestic Violence WARRIOR: From Victim to Advocate

Transcript

Speaker 100:00:23.600

Hi Warriors , welcome to 1 in 3 . I'm your host , ingrid . Today's episode is going to be a bit different . I recently attended an event in New Smyrna Beach , florida , for a non-profit called After Awareness . After Awareness is an amazing organization designed to help combat legal abuse , which is not always domestic abuse , but certainly can be . Here is my experience .