28-Domestic Violence SURVIVOR: Hayley

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01/10/24 • 26 min

When love morphs into a source of fear, the strongest of us can be left grappling with shadows. This episode introduces you to Hayley, a resolute single mother whose pursuit of affection steers her into the murky world of James, a man whose secrets start to shiver the very foundations of trust. Hayley's gripping narrative unfurls, detailing her struggle for independence and the daunting realization of James's obscured past. The haunting echo of psychological abuse reverberates through her testimony, a stark reminder of the silent battles waged behind closed doors.
Through the lens of Hayley's ordeal, our conversation takes a turn into the abyss of manipulation and gaslighting, exposing the insidious tactics that can imprison a person in plain sight. Listen as the enduring scars of verbal and physical aggression are unraveled, the crippling grip of stringent control, and the valor required to break free. Hayley's story is a beacon for others, resonating with the strength needed to shatter the cycle of violence.

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If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
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1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.

Support the show

If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
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Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe

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27-Domestic Violence ADVOCATE: Kathy

Welcome back to Kathy from episodes 1 and 2. In ths episode she shares what she has learned as a DV survivor.
Check out Kathy's profile on the 1 in 3 website: https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/Kathy/

1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.

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If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
Contact 1 in 3:

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29-Domestic Violence MISSING: Virginia Pictou-Noyes

The night of April 23, 1993, in Bangor, Maine, witnessed a tragedy that would reverberate through the years: the vanishing of Virginia Pictou Noyes after a violent confrontation that would never see justice served. As host, I guide you through a tale that is as much a chilling mystery as it is an urgent commentary on the overlooked victims of domestic violence. We trace Virginia's footsteps back to a tumultuous upbringing, through the lens of her life with Larry and Roger Noyes Jr., two men with a history of violence that only compounded the tragedy of that night. The echoes of Virginia's story are haunting, a poignant reminder of the countless others who suffer in silence.
Join me as we honor Virginia's memory and shed light on a story that demands to be told, a story that might just change the way we think about domestic violence and the hidden battles fought behind closed doors.
The Strong Hearts Native Helpline is available to those experiencing domestic or dating violence and helps to address specific challenges to Native Americans. Please use thi link https://strongheartshelpline.org/ to access help now.
Sources:

https://www.doenetwork.org/cases/1430dfme.html

https://www.murdershetold.com/episodes/virginia-pictou-noyes

https://uncovered.com/cases/virginia-sue-pictou-noyes#timeline

https://thecounty.me/2018/04/24/news/family-of-missing-easton-woman-seeks-closure-after-25-years/

https://www.cbc.ca/news/indigenous/missing-mi-kmaw-woman-murdered-claims-nephew-1.4419155

https://www.facebook.com/groups/147682878645011

https://vawnet.org/sc/gender-based-violence-and-intersecting-challenges-impacting-native-american-alaskan-village-0

1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.

Support the show

If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
Contact 1 in 3:

Send your emails to [email protected]
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Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
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1 in 3 - 28-Domestic Violence SURVIVOR: Hayley

Transcript

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Hi Warriors , welcome to 1-in-3, . I'm your host , ingrid . This episode is the official start to season 2 of 1-in-3 .

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