Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!
Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!
If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.
Send us your brunchtalk questions at [email protected] or leave your question in a review!
Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/
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S14E11: Performance Anxiety (In the Bedroom)
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
05/04/22 • 61 min
Sex can be so enjoyable yet so stressful at the same time....especially when you're dating someone new. We're chatting with Dean about recovering from erectile dysfunction and what that meant for his sex life. We discuss our societies views on sex and the expectations of men, why not being able to get it up rarely has to do with the partner, and how to get through sexual dysfunctions with your partners.
Want to learn more about how Dean navigated ED through therapy and other mental/psychological approaches? Feel free to reach out to him at [email protected]
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BONUS: Julie Interviews Yue
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
01/19/22 • 56 min
We're doing something fun! Julie's interviewing Yue to hear how's she's navigated her love life from the time she was dating to now being 3 years into a committed relationship. We talk about it all: turning 40, her love/hate relationship with dating coaching, dating as Asian American woman, dealing with the societal pressure to get married, co-habitating between 2 cities, and playing the long game by dating her partner after knowing him for 7 years before.
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BONUS: Your 2022 Dating Predictions
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
01/12/22 • 40 min
From hesidating to comvaxability, we're talking about what to look out for in 2022 as we date in the time of Omicron. We're digging into our top predictions as we discuss everything from filters on dating apps, the speed to DTR, and how pandemic life continues to impact couple milestones.
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Quickie w/ Julie: The #1 Skill In A Relationship (That's Not Communication)
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
06/27/24 • 8 min
We're told that communication is everything in relationships....but what if there's another skill that is arguably more important??? Julie takes you through her experience of what she learned through couples therapy and how it's applied to not only her romantic relationships but also relationships with friends, family and coworkers too.
Related Episodes:
The Truth About Relationships
How To Have A Healthy Relationship
What's Your Communication Style
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S17E1: The 80/20 Rule of Dating Apps
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
08/30/23 • 50 min
Ever wonder why it's so damn hard to meet people on dating apps yet 40% of couples meet that way? We're back with a solo episode uncovering the reason why dating apps aren't working for so many daters and how to change that. We're discussing the mystery of why there are so many great people on apps yet no one can find each other, how to ignore certain designs that are meant to f with you, and ways you can use apps differently to actually start meeting quality people IRL.
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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BONUS: Answering your Dating Questions! w/ Katie Sturino of Boob Sweat & Megababe
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
07/27/22 • 64 min
We're continuing the off season for just a few more weeks! Join us as we talk about Yue's layoff and the parallels of feeling disposable in both work and dating. We're also reairing the episode we did on Katie Sturino's podcast 'Boob Sweat' answering all your dating q's. We discuss dating app burnout, the art of meeting people IRL, and how to get back out there after a long-term relationship.
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Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
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#brunchtalk: Can you stay friends with an ex?
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
06/12/22 • 22 min
When the relationship ends and a platonic friendship is on the table....could it work or is it better to remove this person from your life? On this week's brunch talk we're talking about if you can stay friends with an ex, what boundaries need to be in place, and how to determine ultimately what is best for you. This is a tricky one but we dissect all the ins and outs so you can use this as a guide to assess your own situation.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]
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Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/
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S13E16: How To Have A Healthy Relationship w/ Connor Beaton & Vienna Pharaon
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
12/01/21 • 80 min
The secret to a healthy relationship is...drum roll please....conflict. Wait, what? We're diving into what it even means to have a healthy relationship with Connor Beaton & Vienna Pharaon. We discuss the foundations that create a lasting relationship, how you can turn conflict into connection, and ways to understand your partner at their deepest level.
Follow Vienna @mindfulmft and Connor @mantalks. Learn more about Vienna at http://www.newyorkcouplescounseling.com/ and Connor at https://mantalks.com/
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Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/
Our Sponsors:
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* Washington Red Raspberries: For recipes, healthy tips, and retail locations go to https://redrazz.org
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#brunchtalk: Should You Wait Or Let Them Go?
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
09/22/24 • 18 min
What happens when someone wants to date you (or even be in a relationship!) yet there's something going in their personal lives that's preventing you from being together? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing how to navigate this tricky situation, when it's more of an external factor keeping your relationship from progressing. We discuss the pros/cons of waiting for someone to get their sh*t together, how to reframe the situation to focus on your prioritizing your own needs, and ways to let someone go (even if it's incredibly difficult!) to find the person that's ready and able.
Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.
WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/
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S14E9: True Stories of Dating App Scams
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
04/20/22 • 85 min
From being swindled for money to catching a catfisher, we're chatting with real people in our community to see the prevalence of romance scams like we witnessed with the Tinder Swindler. Spoiler Alert: they are pretty damn common, even years before they've got mainstream press. We're talking to 6 daters: Leesa, Scott, Katie, Chris, Priyanka and Randy along with scam expert Adam Levin. We discuss why even the best of us can fall victim, signs to look out for to avoid a scammer, and how to protect yourself online while still embarking on your quest for love (safely) using dating apps.
Learn more about Adam Levin's work at https://adamlevin.com/ and check out his podcast 'What the Hack' and his book Swiped: How to protect yourself in a world full of scammers
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Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/
Our Sponsors:
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* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns.
* SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Everyday Collection and more at SKIMS.com
* Washington Red Raspberries: For recipes, healthy tips, and retail locations go to https://redrazz.org
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The episode title 'S14E11: Performance Anxiety (In the Bedroom)' is the most popular.
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The average episode length on Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships is 47 minutes.
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