
How to bring our politics into a session: Coaching on Gaza (w/ Dara Silverman)
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02/27/24 • 41 min
“I think if people don't change by shame or blame or forcing them into things, I think they change because they have a vision of the world they want.”
In this episode, I get to talk with Dara Silverman, a white queer Jewish consultant, somatic coach, and trainer with over 20 years with organizations and movements for social, racial, economic, and gender justice. Dara was the founding director of Showing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ), an organization bringing together white folks working for racial and economic justice. She shares insights into supporting clients around the ongoing genocide in Gaza. We discuss how politicized coaches can hold the principle of “not having an agenda for clients” while still bringing in their political views. Dara also shares how white coaches and facilitators committed to systemic change can integrate anti-racism into our work for change.
Check out the episode page for the transcript and the full list of the resources mentioned in this episode: https://widerroots.com/3
Key moments
- 02:28 - Dara's background
- 08:22 - Coaching clients around Gaza
- 12:13 - Holding "not having an agenda" while being politicized
- 21:03 - Relaxed, Dignified, and Accountable: Supporting white folks to show up for racial justice
- 26:30 - The role of coaching in movement spaces
- 33:28 - Dara's coaching growth area
- 35:21 - Dara's sources of nourishment
Resources & Links
- Showing Up for Racial Justice (organization)
- Strozzi Institute (coach training training program)
- generative somatics (somatics training)
- Leadership That Works, Coaching for Transformation (coaching program, now only in India)
- Black Leadership for Organizing and Dignity (organization)
- The Embodiment Institute (organization)
- Coaching for Healing Justice and Liberation (coach training program)
- Nervous by Jen Soriano (book)
- Fargo (TV series)
- Handsome (podcast)
Connect with Dara Silverman
- Website: DaraSilverman.com for upcoming courses and resources.
- Opening to Freedom: Embodied Facilitation for White Folks - the year-long program that Dara discussed in the episode. Register by March 25, 2024.
- Weekly online somatic practice group
- Instagram: Follow @darasilver
- LinkedIn: Dara Silverman
Follow the podcast
- WiderRoots.com - Join the newsletter for more resources on personal + systemic transformation
- @WiderRootsPod - Follow the podcast on Instagram to get a peek behind the scenes
- Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts to help others find this show
- Connect with Jeremy on his coaching website
If you have suggestions for topics/guests, please email p...
“I think if people don't change by shame or blame or forcing them into things, I think they change because they have a vision of the world they want.”
In this episode, I get to talk with Dara Silverman, a white queer Jewish consultant, somatic coach, and trainer with over 20 years with organizations and movements for social, racial, economic, and gender justice. Dara was the founding director of Showing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ), an organization bringing together white folks working for racial and economic justice. She shares insights into supporting clients around the ongoing genocide in Gaza. We discuss how politicized coaches can hold the principle of “not having an agenda for clients” while still bringing in their political views. Dara also shares how white coaches and facilitators committed to systemic change can integrate anti-racism into our work for change.
Check out the episode page for the transcript and the full list of the resources mentioned in this episode: https://widerroots.com/3
Key moments
- 02:28 - Dara's background
- 08:22 - Coaching clients around Gaza
- 12:13 - Holding "not having an agenda" while being politicized
- 21:03 - Relaxed, Dignified, and Accountable: Supporting white folks to show up for racial justice
- 26:30 - The role of coaching in movement spaces
- 33:28 - Dara's coaching growth area
- 35:21 - Dara's sources of nourishment
Resources & Links
- Showing Up for Racial Justice (organization)
- Strozzi Institute (coach training training program)
- generative somatics (somatics training)
- Leadership That Works, Coaching for Transformation (coaching program, now only in India)
- Black Leadership for Organizing and Dignity (organization)
- The Embodiment Institute (organization)
- Coaching for Healing Justice and Liberation (coach training program)
- Nervous by Jen Soriano (book)
- Fargo (TV series)
- Handsome (podcast)
Connect with Dara Silverman
- Website: DaraSilverman.com for upcoming courses and resources.
- Opening to Freedom: Embodied Facilitation for White Folks - the year-long program that Dara discussed in the episode. Register by March 25, 2024.
- Weekly online somatic practice group
- Instagram: Follow @darasilver
- LinkedIn: Dara Silverman
Follow the podcast
- WiderRoots.com - Join the newsletter for more resources on personal + systemic transformation
- @WiderRootsPod - Follow the podcast on Instagram to get a peek behind the scenes
- Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts to help others find this show
- Connect with Jeremy on his coaching website
If you have suggestions for topics/guests, please email p...
Previous Episode

Making space for imperfection in activist spaces (w/ Mazin Jamal)
“So how can we create such rich belonging, that there's room to challenge each other without fearing that we're going to be kicked out of the group?”
In this episode, we’ll be exploring that question and many other questions about justice, equity, diversity, and inclusion (JEDI) with Mazin Jamal, co-founder of Holistic Underground. We dive into how we stay grounded as facilitators when we’re supporting groups to look at race, privilege, and equity.
Check out the episode page for the transcript and all the resources related to this episode: https://widerroots.com/2
Key takeaways
- Bringing Levity: Use humor and lightness when dealing with weighty topics to help keep things in perspective. This allows the group to stay regulated and think clearly. [00:10:09]
- Orienting Toward Love and Liberation: Come from a place of care and freedom rather than just fixing problems. This creates a generosity of spirit that is more sustainable.
- Keeping Groups Regulated: Help everyone stay grounded and resourced rather than reactive. This allows for cooperation and completion of the necessary conversations. [00:15:08]
- Grounding in Shared Vision and Values: Keep bringing it back to the “eyes on the prize” and the shared care. This connects to the deeper reasons people are engaged.
- Living the Change We Wish to See: Model the kind of community we want to build in how we organize and work together. [00:21:25]
- Making Space for Imperfection and Redemption: Have compassion for our own and others’ humanity. This reduces defensive othering when we all accept we are on a journey. [00:26:25]
- Developing ancestral spiritual cleansing practices: Use techniques grounded in one's ancestry to energetically care for oneself when dealing with heavy topics over time. [00:37:14]
- Helping People Find Their Niche: Support folks in locating the intersection of their experiences, skills, and passions so they can sustainably contribute over the long haul.
Resources & Links
- This Is An Uprising - Book about the momentum organizing model, where Jeremy first learned about Ghandi’s idea of “prefigurative” organizing (living the world we want to see now).
- Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture - Mazin mentions this list indirectly when he brings up perfectionism.
- New Blue Sun - Andre 3000's new flute album
- The Emerald Podcast
- The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran
Connect with Mazin
- Holistic Underground - JEDI consulting, fiscal sponsorship, and impact incubator for spiritual innovation
- EmbraceCommunity.co - Community events in the Bay Area that Mazin helps organize.
- @mazinjamal_ - Mazin on Instagram
Follow the podcast
- WiderRoots.com - Join the newsletter for more resources on personal + systemic transformation
- @WiderRootsPod - Follow the podcast on Instagram to get a peek behind the scenes
- Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts to help others find this show!
Connect with Jeremy on his coaching website.
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Bridging Healing and Activism (w/ Noëlle Janka)
“Healing doesn't look like getting back to the way things were before, the way things were before made you sick.”
Noëlle Janka is a politicized career and healing coach dedicated to supporting social change leaders. For the past decade, she has brought together her personal experience navigating chronic illness with her passion for social justice and transforming systems of oppression. Noëlle recently published her book, Rebel Healing: Transforming Ourselves and the Systems that Make Us Sick.
In this conversation, Noëlle shares concrete ways coaches can support social change leaders to reconnect with their bodies, intuition, and a sense of interconnectedness. We explore how coaching can help prevent burnout by focusing not just on doing more, but on what needs to stop. And Noëlle opens up about embracing her role as a healer within social movements and how she navigates the tension between one-on-one work and large-scale transformation.
Check out the episode page for the transcript and the full list of the resources mentioned in this episode: https://widerroots.com/4
Key moments
- 02:04 - The Root Cause: What inspired you to write Rebel Healing?
- 06:41 - Doing work for justice with a more regulated nervous system
- 13:45 - Preventing burnout: Coaching can be about doing less, not more
- 17:23 - Healing: 30% repair, 70% transformation
- 21:51 - Serving 1-on-1: Embracing the role of healer within social movements
- 28:28 - Coaching Technique: Reconnecting with body wisdom and intuition in coaching
- 34:25 - Noëlle's sources of inspiration
- 36:52 - Closing
Resources & Links
- Rebel Healing: Transforming Ourselves and the Systems that Make Us Sick (Book by Noëlle Janka)
- Liberated to the Bone: History's Body's Futures (Book by Susan Rappo)
- Deepa Iyer's Social Change Map
- Microactivism: How You Can Make a Difference in the World Without a Bullhorn (Book by Omkari Williams)
- Strozzi Institute (Somatic coach training program)
- @CoachJenniGrover - For folks with health challenges and a crafty side
- Chronic Babe 101: How to Live an Awesome Life with Chronic Illness (Book by Jenni Grover)
- Girl, Woman, Other (Book by Bernadine Evaristo)
- Wildchoir (Spiritual Social Change Choir Music)
- Black Voters Matter Fund
- Emergent Strategy Ideation Institute with adrienne maree brown
Connect with Noëlle
- Noëlle Janka’s Website
- @NoelleJanka on Instagram
- Noëlle Janka on LinkedIn
Follow the podcast
- WiderRoots.com - Join the newsletter for more resources on personal + systemic transformation
- @WiderRootsPod - Follow the podcast on Instagram to get a peek behind the scenes
- Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts to help others find this show
- Connect with Jeremy on his coaching website
I’d love to hear how this episode resonated with you or any suggestions for future topics/guests. You can email me at
Wider Roots - How to bring our politics into a session: Coaching on Gaza (w/ Dara Silverman)
Transcript
And so in this moment around Gaza and the US's complicity in Israel's attacks on Palestinians, the U. S. attacking other countries in the Middle East, right? Then I think there's the role for all of us as coaches, as political people of like, what's my complicity in this? Where are the places where I want to look away, where I get so caught up in my grief that I can't move beyond it?
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