Jacinta Parsons: On reclaiming your forever self, the wisdom of older women and lessons from living with chronic illness
03/09/25 • 44 min
Season 2: Episode Six
Jacinta Parsons: On reclaiming your forever self, the wisdom of older women and lessons from living with chronic illness
Reaching mid-life and reckoning with the ageing process can also be a time of invisibility and isolation, particularly for women.
Living with a chronic illness can also be a lonely place. It can feel like the world is moving on around you while you’re stuck in freeze frame.
But what if these experiences were actually the birthplace for bringing forth the greatest version of ourselves? One that is truly at peace and comfortable alone.
This week’s guest has lived and researched both these topics and has many lessons to impart about the importance of finding our ‘forever self.’
In a moving and intimate conversation, Jacinta and Jill get vulnerable as they dive into some of life’s biggest topics.
Jacinta Parsons is a broadcaster, public speaker, ABC Melbourne radio host and author of three books that delve into the complexities, frailties and wisdom of the human condition:
Unseen: The Secret World of Chronic Illness; A Question of Age; and the soon to be released,
A Wisdom of Age.
You can follow Jacinta on Instagram: @jacintaparsons or visit her website here.
To stay in touch with Well Enough Alone, you can follow us on Instagram @wellenoughalonepod or @jillstark__ or support the show and get subscriber-only, early and ad-free episodes on Patreon.
Well Enough Alone is a Spare Room production. Our producers are Kieran Simpson and Trent Bartlett.
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Season 2: Episode Six
Jacinta Parsons: On reclaiming your forever self, the wisdom of older women and lessons from living with chronic illness
Reaching mid-life and reckoning with the ageing process can also be a time of invisibility and isolation, particularly for women.
Living with a chronic illness can also be a lonely place. It can feel like the world is moving on around you while you’re stuck in freeze frame.
But what if these experiences were actually the birthplace for bringing forth the greatest version of ourselves? One that is truly at peace and comfortable alone.
This week’s guest has lived and researched both these topics and has many lessons to impart about the importance of finding our ‘forever self.’
In a moving and intimate conversation, Jacinta and Jill get vulnerable as they dive into some of life’s biggest topics.
Jacinta Parsons is a broadcaster, public speaker, ABC Melbourne radio host and author of three books that delve into the complexities, frailties and wisdom of the human condition:
Unseen: The Secret World of Chronic Illness; A Question of Age; and the soon to be released,
A Wisdom of Age.
You can follow Jacinta on Instagram: @jacintaparsons or visit her website here.
To stay in touch with Well Enough Alone, you can follow us on Instagram @wellenoughalonepod or @jillstark__ or support the show and get subscriber-only, early and ad-free episodes on Patreon.
Well Enough Alone is a Spare Room production. Our producers are Kieran Simpson and Trent Bartlett.
Get early access to new episodes by subscribing on Patreon.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cyndi Darnell: Sex and the single life – intimacy, sexuality and non-traditional relationships
This week’s episode is a really juicy one so buckle up!
Can we have a fulfilling, safe and healthy sex life when we’re unpartnered? Is sex an essential part of the human experience or are there other ways to find intimacy?
Our guest this week is Cyndi Darnell, a certified clinical sexologist, psychotherapist and couple's counsellor based in New York.
She works with singles, traditional couples and people in open, polyamorous, kinky and consensual non monogamous relationships.
She walks us through what sex can look like if we’re not partnered, how our sexual appetites change through different seasons of our life, and the less conventional, but no less fulfilling, relationship structures available to us.
In an extremely candid episode, Jill shares experiences from own sex life, as Cyndi helps navigate a path through a topic that is often shrouded in shame and secrecy.
And Cyndi speaks about her rich and full child-free, single life and how she’s rejected social expectations and embraced ‘relationship anarchy’.
You can follow Cyndi on Instagram: @cyndi_darnell or visit her website here.
To stay in touch with Well Enough Alone, you can follow us on Instagram @wellenoughalonepod or @jillstark__ or support the show and get subscriber-only, early and ad-free episodes on Patreon.
Well Enough Alone is a Spare Room production. Our producers are Kieran Simpson and Trent Bartlett.
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Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Rosie Batty: On hope, finding yourself amid trauma and grief, and building a life with meaning
This week’s episode is one we’re really honoured to bring to you.
Our guest is someone with boundless courage and compassion, who has shared some of her most vulnerable moments with the world so that others might feel less alone.
Rosie Batty is, as she says, the member of a club no mother wants to join. She lost her 11-year-old son, Luke, in 2014 when he was killed by his father that thrust her into the national spotlight as passionate campaigner on the issue of family violence.
In this raw and moving conversation, Rosie speaks with profound clarity about how she found hope in the darkest of places, and what she has learned about identity, solitude, the power of human connection, and cultivating a strong sense of self.
Rosie has spent the past ten years tirelessly advocating for social, cultural and legal change, on family violence inspiring millions not just in Australia but around the world.
In 2014, she won the Pride of Australia Award and in 2015 was named Australian of the Year.
Rosie is not on social media but you can read more about her memoirs, A Mother’s Story, and Hope here.
If you or someone you know is experiencing family violence, call or visit 1800RESPECT (in Australia) or contact your local support organisation.
To stay in touch with Well Enough Alone, you can follow us on Instagram @wellenoughalonepod or @jillstark__ or support the show and get subscriber-only, early and ad-free episodes on Patreon.
Well Enough Alone is a Spare Room production. Our producers are Kieran Simpson and Trent Bartlett.
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