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Weddings for Real

Weddings for Real

Megan Gillikin

Real wedding vendors share their tips and tricks for surviving and thriving in this one of a kind industry. Hosted by The Planner’s Vault’s Megan Gillikin, you'll hear guests share their secrets on marketing, the client experience, networking, community, sales, and more - and you might even hear some crazy wedding stories along the way!
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Katherine Miles Jones joins Megan to talk about her career start in New York City, how she started in the wedding photography business, an amazing and breathtaking engagement shoot at the Rockefeller Center (see image below), the biggest regret of her wedding, the community of vendors and developing friendships with her competition, how she makes clients feel comfortable, her love of photography, how she recharges her batteries, and some crazy wedding stories, including photo shoots with Abraham Lincoln the alpaca (see image below) and Nacho the Donkey.   

Plus Katherine tells Megan what her favorite food is and the one movie that she has seen in theaters over the past three years.  

Portrait of Katherine by Sarah Der Photography

Alpaca and Rockefeller engagement images by Katherine Miles Jones. For more of Katherine's amazing images, check out her portfolio on her website. 

This episode was not sponsored by Wandering Bear Coffee.

No alpacas were in Katherine's car during the recording.

For another wedding podcast you might like, check out the Wedding Photo Hangover Podcast by Steven Van Elk and Dustin McKibben.  

Music for this episode by https://www.bensound.com.

The host of the show is Megan Gillikin, owner and lead consultant at A Southern Soiree Wedding and Event Planning.  She's also available for wedding and hospitality business consulting and can be reached at [email protected].

Weddings for Real is edited and produced by Jason Gillikin for Earfluence.

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Phil McInnis from 21 Films Videography in Raleigh came on the show to talk about how he has built up his business from just Phil and his wife Jess to a team of 6 filmmakers and editors, what differentiates the 21 Films style of videography from other wedding videographers, what motivates Phil, how to work with other vendors, and of course we get into some crazy stories about people drinking a little too much and being on camera.

21 Films Team

Blair + Danny, The Merrimon-Wynne House from Twenty-One Films on Vimeo.

 

 

Jess + Mike, The Umstead from Twenty-One Films on Vimeo.

 

OFFICIAL ANNOUNCEMENT FROM MEGAN.  We have launched The Planner’s Vault, a membership site for wedding planners who are hungry to grow, ready to hustle, and actively seeking community and education. In the vault, there will be guest experts on many topics relevant to growing and cultivating a successful event planning business with new content added consistently, plus all of my templates that I have built out over the years like How to Get on Preferred Vendor Lists, The Client Experience, and more. My mission with the vault is to elevate the industry (along with some amazing experts and fellow entrepreneurs) and I want it to be affordable so it's possible to stay invested in the community and yourself for the long haul. For more information, head on over to ThePlannersVault.com

Music for this episode by https://www.bensound.com.

The host of the show is Megan Gillikin, owner and lead consultant at A Southern Soiree Wedding and Event Planning.  She's also available for wedding and hospitality business consulting and can be reached at [email protected].

Weddings for Real is edited and produced by Jason Gillikin for Earfluence.

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Cydney English, owner of The English Garden, has been in the flower business for literally her entire life and runs a florist shop in Raleigh where about 60% of her business is weddings.  She does over 120 weddings per year, and she employs 10-20 people at a time depending on the season. Actually, Cydney and her husband Warren are both third-generation florists.

On this episode, Cydney talks about her life growing up with her dad and grandma as florists, what it was like in the early days of starting her business, trends in the wedding industry, making your wedding personal to you, and what she thinks about competition.

OFFICIAL ANNOUNCEMENT FROM MEGAN.  We have launched The Planner’s Vault, a membership site for wedding planners who are hungry to grow, ready to hustle, and actively seeking community and education. In the vault, there will be guest experts on many topics relevant to growing and cultivating a successful event planning business with new content added consistently, plus all of my templates that I have built out over the years like How to Get on Preferred Vendor Lists, The Client Experience, and more. My mission with the vault is to elevate the industry (along with some amazing experts and fellow entrepreneurs) and I want it to be affordable so it's possible to stay invested in the community and yourself for the long haul. For more information, head on over to ThePlannersVault.com

Music for this episode by https://www.bensound.com.

The host of the show is Megan Gillikin, owner and lead consultant at A Southern Soiree Wedding and Event Planning.  She's also available for wedding and hospitality business consulting and can be reached at [email protected].

Weddings for Real is edited and produced by Jason Gillikin for Earfluence.

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Join The Planner's Vault Challenge!

Hey WFR listeners, Megan here with an extra special bonus episode and an opportunity you don’t want to miss!

Next week, I’ll be running a FREE 3 day engagement season challenge to help you get ready for the upcoming engagement season challenge and consider this your official invitation to join me you can find out more and signup at ThePlannersVaultChallenge.com.

Here’s five reason this challenge is extra special:

1- I’ll teach you how to get ultra-clear on your audience, messaging, and next steps to attract and book more clients you love.

2- I’ll teach you how to lean into relationship building to open doors in your business and reach your dream client without expensive marketing, complicated tactics, or salesy pitches.

3- I'll give away a TON of fabulous prizes, including gift cards and free coaching sessions!!

4- I’ll offer daily power hour live co-working sessions to get the work done and I’ll be there to answer your questions and cheer you on as you compete the tasks.

5- This exclusive challenge is really hands-on, so I only run it once a year. That’s also why I keep space limited— which allows me to connect with you directly for Q&As and personalized guidance. And did I mention, it’s free to join? You seriously have nothing to lose!

So, I have to ask.... Do you want to get more out of your wedding planning business? Do you crave confidence and clarity heading in to 2023? Are you ready to be challenged?

It starts November 14th!

Now if you still have a few more questions, Here’s some additional helpful info!

Question 1- is the challenge just for planners?

This challenge is designed for wedding planners but other wedding pros are welcome to join. You may need to adjust some of the templates and scripts to fit your business but you’ll still find value in the work!

Question 2-

Is this for new planners or experienced planners?

This challenge will be incredibly beneficial for you if you’re in year 1 or year 10. There are editable templates and scripts as well as tips for standing out in a saturated market and connecting with venues intentionally. It’s packed w goodness and over $200 in high value templates pulled from within my membership The Planner's Vault.

Question #3-

What’s the time commitment of the challenge?

3 day challenge with 3 business momentum building tasks each day. Hour of coworking and 30 minutes of lives a day!

See you inside!

The Planner's Vault Challenge

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James Walters of Walters and Walters Photography has been in the wedding industry for 16 years, and he has some crazy stories to tell.  So he did!  

In 2013 he came out with the book, Accessory to Marriage: A Chronicle of Outrageousness from My Life as a Wedding Photographer.

In today's episode, James talks about some of his favorite stories from the book and his code language when it comes to weddings, like who "Fluffy" and "Triple D" are.

 

 

Above images from Eden Holt Photography.  

Walters and Walters can be found at:

http://waltersandwalters.com/

https://www.instagram.com/real_jameswalters/

https://www.facebook.com/waltersandwalters/

Music for this episode by https://www.bensound.com.

The host of the show is Megan Gillikin, owner and lead consultant at A Southern Soiree Wedding and Event Planning.  She's also available for wedding and hospitality business consulting and can be reached at [email protected].

Weddings for Real is edited and produced by Jason Gillikin for Earfluence.

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Mikkel Paige is a wedding photographer and travel blogger, and she came on the show to give her Top 5 Destination Wedding Tips!

They are:

  1. Destination Weddings can be Stressful! If you’re getting married and you need to be in control, a destination wedding may not be for you, because there is so much you CANNOT control.
  2. Look Closely at your Contracts. A photographer might be included, but is that photographer right for you? And what if it’s not? Can you get a discount off of your package?
  3. Review the Laws of your Destination. Are you allowed to get married there?  Are there different rules based on the country’s laws on religion or gay marriage?
  4. Don’t Forget Sunscreen! If you’re golfing or lounging or drinking or whatever before the wedding, use sunscreen. You don’t want the sunglasses or bikini straps showing in your pictures!
  5. Consider the Weather. If you’re getting married on the east coast, a sunset ceremony is probably not going to happen for you.  And if it’s windy that day, you can’t force pictures by the beach.

 

Mikkel can be found pretty much everywhere online, including:

https://www.mikkelpaige.com/

https://www.facebook.com/mikkelpaige

https://www.instagram.com/mikkelpaige/

http://departmentofwandering.com/ (Blog Mikkel contributes to)

http://sometimeshome.com/ (Mikkel’s personal travel blog, which is fantastic!)

Check out the timeline of the blog and her wedding career:

 

 

 

Today’s episode is brought to you by Honeyfund.  CEO Sara Margulis was on Episode 10 of Weddings for Real, and our listeners can get the Elite Package at Honeyfun for $19.99 by following this link -

 

Music for this episode by https://www.bensound.com.

The host of the show is Megan Gillikin, owner and lead consultant at A Southern Soiree Wedding and Event Planning.  She's also available for wedding and hospitality business consulting and can be reached at [email protected].

Weddings for Real is edited and produced by Jason Gillikin for Earfluence.

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The Planner's Vault Doors are Open!


So what is The Planner's Vault Challenge, which runs from January 16th to 18th?

  • Is it for wedding vendors who aren't planners? YES
  • Is it for vendors who want to generate new partnerships? YES
  • Is it for wedding pros who want more leads? YES
  • Is it for vendors who are feeling burned out by clients they don't want? YES
  • Is it for wedding pros who find networking or reaching out to other vendors intimidating? YES

If you're any of the above, come join me!
Free Training Thursday, January 18th at 3:00pm ET
The Planner's Vault Challenge, January 16th to 18th - Use the Code "WFR20"

This episode is brought to you by The Planner's Vault, my online membership site for wedding planners who are hungry to grow, ready to hustle, and actively seeking community and education. In the vault, there are guest experts on many topics relevant to growing and cultivating a successful event planning business with new content added consistently, plus all of my templates that I have built out over the years, like How to Get on Preferred Vendor Lists, The Client Experience, and more. The mission with the vault is to elevate the industry (along with some amazing experts and fellow entrepreneurs) and I want it to be affordable so it's possible to stay invested in the community and yourself for the long haul.

The doors are currently closed for The Vault, but join the wait list now so you can be the first to know when the doors re-open.

Weddings for Real on Social Media:

Instagram: @weddingsforreal

Facebook: @weddingsforreal

twitter: @weddingsforreal

Hosted by Megan Gillikin, Weddings for Real is presented by The Planner's Vault, and is produced by Earfluence.

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Emma and Molly Gillikin have taken over the podcast to wish all the moms (especially Megan) Happy Mother's Day!

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Jaine Kershner, owner of Brklyn View Photography, has been featured in Martha Stewart Weddings, The Knot, Style Me Pretty, and many more, and she was even named by BRIDES Magazine as one of NYC's best wedding photographers. Today she comes on the show to give her 5 tips to get your wedding photography published! Jaine also has a podcast, Tea with Jaine, so go give that a listen! Brklyn View Photography owner Jaine Kershner (image by Mekina Saylor) Jaine Kershner has a podcast, Tea with Jaine (image by Bethany Michaela) Jaine's websites: http://www.brklynview.com/ http://www.brklynviewblog.com/ https://www.teawithjaine.com/ Brklyn View Photography on Social Media: Instagram: @brklynview Facebook: @brklynview twitter: @brklynview Weddings for Real on Social Media: Instagram: @weddingsforreal Facebook: @weddingsforreal twitter: @weddingsforreal

If you're a wedding vendor, go get Honeybook! At A Southern Soiree, we’ve been using Honeybook since February 2015. I think we were one of their very first clients, and it has truly been a life changer. They make proposals and contracts super easy to use on both our side and the client side. I think before Honeybook I would send proposals and contracts by email, and the client would have to mail the contract to us or fax it by efax. Proposals were in no way streamlined either, so this has made our lives so much better. As a consultant, whenever I sign up a vendor client, one of the very first recommendations I make is Honeybook. No need to complicate things – it works, it’s great...just get it. And if you follow this link, you get 50% off your first year of Honeybook, which is nice, but not nearly as nice as all the time you’re going to save. And if you have any questions about my experience, feel free to send me an email to [email protected].

Music for this episode by https://www.bensound.com.

The host of the show is Megan Gillikin, owner and lead consultant at A Southern Soiree Wedding and Event Planning. She's also available for wedding and hospitality business consulting and can be reached at [email protected].

Weddings for Real is edited and produced by Jason Gillikin for Earfluence.

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Comedian Freddy Valoy came on the show to talk about how to give a great and memorable wedding speech.

Together, he and Megan came up with the following tips:

1. Don't Drink (Too Much).  2. Remember, Everyone is Rooting for You.  3. Don't Bring Up Your Phone 4. Keep it Short. Under 4 minutes. 5. Tease, but Don't Embarrass 6. Own The Moment, even if you mess up. 7. Be Honest, and Come from the Heart.  8. You're giving a speech about the couple, not just one person. 9. Practice! 10. If you're not sure about the material, ask someone. 11. No slideshows. 12. Don't bring up exes.   With these tips, especially bringing it from the heart, you'll be sure to give a great wedding speech!   Freddy is a fellow podcaster.  Go listen to the FredTalk Podcast at: http://fredtalkpodcast.libsyn.com/ https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/fredtalk/id1358150827?ls=1 http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=177210&refid=stpr

Fred gets very personal in some of these, especially the Break Up Episode, which should have a Part 2 coming out soon (maybe - Fred says that "the FredTalk podcast is like the ocean, it comes in waves").

Check out Freddy live at: Bombers Bev Co in Wilmington, July 27th Trali Irish Pub in Raleigh, July 28th The Comedy Zone in Charlotte, July 31st Freddy Valoy on Social Media: Instagram: @freddylvaloy   Weddings for Real on Social Media: Instagram: @weddingsforreal Facebook: @weddingsforreal twitter: @weddingsforreal   This episode was brought to you Triangle Real Estate Agent Katie Humphries from Fonville Morisey. Katie was a Wake County teacher for over 10 years before moving into real estate, so she knows school districts, private schools, and charter schools.  As a mom of 3, picking a house in a district with good school reviews was very important to me, and if you have kids (or you're thinking of having kids), I know that's important to you too.  So go contact Katie - she can help you out on your journey to being a homebuyer. She prides herself on personal attention and is always available on short notice to answer a question or even check out a house.  So if you're interested in buying or selling, you can reach Katie at 919-215-8404 or [email protected].      If you would like to advertise on this podcast, for the month of July, donate to the American Heart Association in Megan's dad's name, and we will do an ad read for you at no additional cost.

Music for this episode by https://www.bensound.com.

The host of the show is Megan Gillikin, owner and lead consultant at A Southern Soiree Wedding and Event Planning.  She's also available for wedding and hospitality business consulting and can be reached at [email protected].

 

Weddings for Real is edited and produced by Jason Gillikin for Earfluence.
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How many episodes does Weddings for Real have?

Weddings for Real currently has 329 episodes available.

What topics does Weddings for Real cover?

The podcast is about Marketing, Selfimprovement, Entrepreneurship, Therapy, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education and Business.

What is the most popular episode on Weddings for Real?

The episode title '154: How to shift your business to meet Amazon-addicted couples, with Michelle Loretta' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Weddings for Real?

The average episode length on Weddings for Real is 39 minutes.

How often are episodes of Weddings for Real released?

Episodes of Weddings for Real are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Weddings for Real?

The first episode of Weddings for Real was released on Apr 4, 2018.

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