Staying Married: When Life Be Lifin'

07/07/24 • 46 min

Can chronic illness strengthen a marriage? How do you stay connected when life gets overwhelmingly busy? These are just some of the pivotal questions WE explore in this episode. WE begin by reflecting on our journey through 2024, celebrating the small victories in our personal and financial goals while acknowledging the areas that need more work. You'll hear about our commitment to regular date nights and the enriching Bible studies that have deepened our bond, alongside a candid discussion on our "Money Monday" meetings and the importance of budgeting and multiple income streams.
Our conversation then shifts to the deeply personal topic of chronic illness and its impact on marriage. We open up about the progression of lung issues from sporadic incidents to persistent health crises and the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies it. This heartfelt segment reveals our evolving perspectives on support and self-reflection, emphasizing the strength found in unity and unconditional love. WE aim to offer valuable insights for anyone navigating similar challenges, underscoring the importance of rejecting selfish thoughts and staying united in the face of adversity.
Finally, WE delve into the concept of "drift" in marriage and the importance of intentional communication. Drawing wisdom from Gary Thomas' "Sacred Marriage," WE discuss how shared activities and prioritizing our relationship have fostered deeper intimacy. WE also touch on the significance of mutual understanding, respect, and grace, especially during busy times. From strategic planning of personal and marital goals to celebrating the joy of growing together, this episode is a testament to faith, support, and the enduring power of love. WE invite you to subscribe, share, and engage with our community as WE continue this journey together. Until next time, peace.

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Eugene Gatewood
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LaTanya Gatewood
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- Instagram: @reddingl
Podcast Music by Micah Gatewood

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Grow Together or Drift Apart...PART 2

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Ever wondered how speaking to the King or Queen in your spouse can transform your communication? WE are inviting you to a candid discussion about the art of communication in marriage—a reflection sparked by our transformative experience at the "Weekend to Remember" marriage conference. We navigate the journey from casual conversation to the depths of transparency, sharing how vulnerability crafts a sanctuary for two souls to thrive. This episode is an open book about our own communication evolution and the pivotal moments that taught us the power of nurturing words within a family.
WE have worn many hats, but perhaps the most enlightening was our role as House Parents to young moms—a chapter in our lives that exemplified the ripple effect of respectful communication. Our stories from this time not only celebrate the strength in kind words but also challenge the entrenched patterns that can silently erode the foundations of our relationships. Join us as WE dissect the habits WE have inherited and the silent dangers they pose, offering insights on how to break free from the chains of our past. It's an exploration of the tools necessary to build a bridge back to one another when distance creeps in, and a reminder that dialogue is so much more than just exchanging words.
This episode doesn't shy away from the challenges of fostering an environment where transparency is not just welcomed but celebrated. WE peel back the layers of what it means to truly listen and be present, and how our attentiveness can become the bedrock for deeper connection. From navigating relationship triggers to supporting one another in complementarity, we share the intricate dance of communication that guards against creating an atmosphere of walking on eggshells. It’s about understanding the unsaid, the power of "I feel" statements, and how every word we speak reverberates into the legacy we leave behind. So, tune in and let us guide you towards enriching your own language of love and togetherness.

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She's The PRIZE...He's a GIFT!

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Girl dad's proclaim that their daughters are THE PRIZE, but as parents of a son, we declare that he is A GIFT.
A Prize

Implies winning or achieving something: A prize is often earned or sought after. It can suggest a competitive or transactional element.
Focus on external validation: The value of a prize is often determined by others' perceptions.
Can create pressure: Labeling someone as a "prize" might inadvertently put pressure on them to maintain a certain image or standard.

A Gift

Implies unconditional love and acceptance: A gift is freely given without expectation of return.
Focus on intrinsic value: The worth of a gift is often found in its uniqueness and the thoughtfulness behind it.
Promotes gratitude and appreciation: Recognizing someone as a gift fosters a sense of gratitude for their presence in one's life.

Are you preparing your daughters to know how to receive the gift of my son (or young men such as him)?

During this podcast, you will get the opportunity to meet Micah Gatewood, our first guest, as he shares his transformative experience from High Point University to Bradley University. Discover how Micah navigated freshman year, grew as a sports announcer, and prepared for the abundant opportunities that await him at Bradley’s prominent Sports Communication program. You’ll get a firsthand account of his ambitions, the challenges of maintaining personal values, and his enthusiasm for joining diverse clubs and internships.
Modern dating is a maze, and we’re here to guide you through it. Compare romantic gestures and communication styles from the 90s to today's trends, and understand the frustrations young men face with mixed signals in the dating scene. Through engaging anecdotes and discussions, we unravel how social media and music shape behaviors, the importance of authentic connections, and the role of mutual support and understanding in relationships. If you’ve ever wondered how to stay true to yourself while navigating modern dating's pressures, this conversation is a must-listen.
Building a strong relationship in college? We’ve got you covered. We tackle everything from aligning personal values with your partner to balancing career aspirations with personal growth. Explore the significance of love languages and the power of trust and patience in relationships. Plus, get practical advice on time management and effective communication to achieve a fulfilling relationship and personal success. With heartfelt reminders of faith and divine timing, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking meaningful connections.

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Eugene00:00:05.605

welcome

Eugene00:00:07.006

to episode 10 of the winning team podcast .

Eugene00:00:12.332

10 times I'm eugene I'm latonya and we are the winning team . It's exciting , man . You know , we I always say it's exciting because it really is when you're living and walking in purpose ,

Eugene00:00:26.670

that is very