She's The PRIZE...He's a GIFT!

08/15/24 • 62 min

WE3 The Winning Team

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Girl dad's proclaim that their daughters are THE PRIZE, but as parents of a son, we declare that he is A GIFT.
A Prize

Implies winning or achieving something: A prize is often earned or sought after. It can suggest a competitive or transactional element.
Focus on external validation: The value of a prize is often determined by others' perceptions.
Can create pressure: Labeling someone as a "prize" might inadvertently put pressure on them to maintain a certain image or standard.

A Gift

Implies unconditional love and acceptance: A gift is freely given without expectation of return.
Focus on intrinsic value: The worth of a gift is often found in its uniqueness and the thoughtfulness behind it.
Promotes gratitude and appreciation: Recognizing someone as a gift fosters a sense of gratitude for their presence in one's life.

Are you preparing your daughters to know how to receive the gift of my son (or young men such as him)?

During this podcast, you will get the opportunity to meet Micah Gatewood, our first guest, as he shares his transformative experience from High Point University to Bradley University. Discover how Micah navigated freshman year, grew as a sports announcer, and prepared for the abundant opportunities that await him at Bradley’s prominent Sports Communication program. You’ll get a firsthand account of his ambitions, the challenges of maintaining personal values, and his enthusiasm for joining diverse clubs and internships.
Modern dating is a maze, and we’re here to guide you through it. Compare romantic gestures and communication styles from the 90s to today's trends, and understand the frustrations young men face with mixed signals in the dating scene. Through engaging anecdotes and discussions, we unravel how social media and music shape behaviors, the importance of authentic connections, and the role of mutual support and understanding in relationships. If you’ve ever wondered how to stay true to yourself while navigating modern dating's pressures, this conversation is a must-listen.
Building a strong relationship in college? We’ve got you covered. We tackle everything from aligning personal values with your partner to balancing career aspirations with personal growth. Explore the significance of love languages and the power of trust and patience in relationships. Plus, get practical advice on time management and effective communication to achieve a fulfilling relationship and personal success. With heartfelt reminders of faith and divine timing, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking meaningful connections.

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Eugene Gatewood
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- YouTube: @Original_Mentor
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-TikTok: @elgatewood
LaTanya Gatewood
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- Instagram: @reddingl
Podcast Music by Micah Gatewood

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Girl dad's proclaim that their daughters are THE PRIZE, but as parents of a son, we declare that he is A GIFT.
A Prize

Implies winning or achieving something: A prize is often earned or sought after. It can suggest a competitive or transactional element.
Focus on external validation: The value of a prize is often determined by others' perceptions.
Can create pressure: Labeling someone as a "prize" might inadvertently put pressure on them to maintain a certain image or standard.

A Gift

Implies unconditional love and acceptance: A gift is freely given without expectation of return.
Focus on intrinsic value: The worth of a gift is often found in its uniqueness and the thoughtfulness behind it.
Promotes gratitude and appreciation: Recognizing someone as a gift fosters a sense of gratitude for their presence in one's life.

Are you preparing your daughters to know how to receive the gift of my son (or young men such as him)?

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Staying Married: When Life Be Lifin'

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Can chronic illness strengthen a marriage? How do you stay connected when life gets overwhelmingly busy? These are just some of the pivotal questions WE explore in this episode. WE begin by reflecting on our journey through 2024, celebrating the small victories in our personal and financial goals while acknowledging the areas that need more work. You'll hear about our commitment to regular date nights and the enriching Bible studies that have deepened our bond, alongside a candid discussion on our "Money Monday" meetings and the importance of budgeting and multiple income streams.
Our conversation then shifts to the deeply personal topic of chronic illness and its impact on marriage. We open up about the progression of lung issues from sporadic incidents to persistent health crises and the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies it. This heartfelt segment reveals our evolving perspectives on support and self-reflection, emphasizing the strength found in unity and unconditional love. WE aim to offer valuable insights for anyone navigating similar challenges, underscoring the importance of rejecting selfish thoughts and staying united in the face of adversity.
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You Want a Marriage or a Wedding? The Why Behind the Ring!

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Welcome to Season 2 of the WE3 The Winning Team Podcast. WE want to extend a heartfelt thank you to all of you who listened, liked and downloaded any episode from Season One of your Podcast! THANK YOU! Your support means the world to us. Please continue to like, comment, and share with your family and friends.

WE kick off the season by acknowledging the societal shifts around marriage and exploring the motivations behind wanting to get married today.

Is it societal pressure? A deep desire for partnership? Fear of being alone? WE dive into the "why" and challenge listeners to examine their own reasons.

With a focus on Christian values, WE discuss how this union fosters Christ-like qualities, encouraging vulnerability and growth. WE invite you to reflect on your own reasons for marriage and join us in this conversation, examining the cultural shift towards later marriages, cohabitation, and the rising influence of economically independent "alpha women."

Balancing love and individuality in marriage might seem like a daunting task, but it's the foundation of a thriving relationship.
The dynamics of modern marriage are in a state of flux, and WE delve into the balance between independence and interdependence. While exploring personal stories and societal narratives, such as the "strong Black woman" trope, WE highlight the importance of mutual support and shared responsibilities in creating a harmonious partnership.

WE challenge the traditional 50-50 financial split, advocating for a 100-100 approach to foster unity.

Join us as WE deliberate about the importance of self-reflection before marriage, the significance of intimacy and communication, and the role of mutual support in strengthening the bonds that make marriage a beautiful journey.

According to our research...people get married for the following reasons in 2025:
1) Companionship & Intimacy: Finding a lifelong partner for emotional support, companionship, and intimacy.

Pros: Reduces loneliness, provides emotional support, fosters intimacy and connection.
Cons: Can lead to codependency, stifle personal growth, and create pressure to conform.

2) Starting a Family: Building a family and raising children together.

Pros: Provides a loving environment for children, strengthens family bonds, creates a sense of purpose.
Cons: Can put a strain on the relationship, limit individual freedom, and increase financial responsibilities.

3) Social Status & Tradition: Fulfilling societal expectations and adhering to traditional norms.

Pros: Can provide a sense of belonging and social acceptance.
Cons: Can lead to marrying for the wrong reasons (e.g., pressure from family), neglecting personal desires.

4) Financial Stability: Sharing financial responsibilities, pooling resources, and increasing financial security.

Pros: Can lead to improved financial stability, shared financial goals, and increased financial security.
Cons: Can lead to financial disagreements, power imbalances, and loss of financial independence.

5) Legal and Social Benefits: Gaining legal rights and benefits, such as inheritance rights, healthcare benefits, and tax advantages.