
A Chatty Episode | Summer House, The Bachelor (And Why It’s Not Our Cup of Tea), The # of Unread Emails We Have (Pls Don't Hate Us), and Britney Spears' Conservatorship
09/29/21 • 41 min
Welcome to today’s episode! Today, we're talking about:
(0:00) Bravo shows, including Summer House (and the royal wedding of Kyle and Amanda), Vanderpump Rules (did it jump the shark?), and Winter House (and whether Paige and Craig are really dating)
(6:20) Explaining why we don’t watch The Bachelor, but why we can appreciate the contestants' hustle (and chatting about Salley Carson, who was supposed to be getting married, but might end up on the show instead?)
(13:39) Britney Spears: Discussing the conservatorship, her upcoming court hearing, and the NY Times Documentary 'Controlling Britney Spears.'
(21:29) Rolling Stone released their updated list of the Top 500 Songs of all time. We are NOT music commentators, but we do have a few quick thoughts.
(24:17) We Thought You Asked: Answering questions about Tinder and online dating, our go-to McDonald’s orders, which Real Housewives franchise we’d want to be a part of, and how many unread emails are in our inboxes (pls don’t hate us for this).
Where to Find Us!
www.instagram.com/wethoughtyouasked
Find the link on our Instagram to submit to us anonymously, or simply DM us!
Thanks for listening! Please subscribe and leave us a 5-star review, so we can find more listeners than just the 2 of us. 😆
Just a quick disclaimer, that while T’s a therapist, and we’ll be discussing mental health topics on the show, this podcast is NOT therapy or a substitute for therapy. This pod is just for fun, and if you are needing some extra support, we really encourage you to a contact a licensed therapist near you.
Torie & Kelly
Welcome to today’s episode! Today, we're talking about:
(0:00) Bravo shows, including Summer House (and the royal wedding of Kyle and Amanda), Vanderpump Rules (did it jump the shark?), and Winter House (and whether Paige and Craig are really dating)
(6:20) Explaining why we don’t watch The Bachelor, but why we can appreciate the contestants' hustle (and chatting about Salley Carson, who was supposed to be getting married, but might end up on the show instead?)
(13:39) Britney Spears: Discussing the conservatorship, her upcoming court hearing, and the NY Times Documentary 'Controlling Britney Spears.'
(21:29) Rolling Stone released their updated list of the Top 500 Songs of all time. We are NOT music commentators, but we do have a few quick thoughts.
(24:17) We Thought You Asked: Answering questions about Tinder and online dating, our go-to McDonald’s orders, which Real Housewives franchise we’d want to be a part of, and how many unread emails are in our inboxes (pls don’t hate us for this).
Where to Find Us!
www.instagram.com/wethoughtyouasked
Find the link on our Instagram to submit to us anonymously, or simply DM us!
Thanks for listening! Please subscribe and leave us a 5-star review, so we can find more listeners than just the 2 of us. 😆
Just a quick disclaimer, that while T’s a therapist, and we’ll be discussing mental health topics on the show, this podcast is NOT therapy or a substitute for therapy. This pod is just for fun, and if you are needing some extra support, we really encourage you to a contact a licensed therapist near you.
Torie & Kelly
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Vulnerability vs. Oversharing | The Case of Gabby Petito (A Mental Health & Domestic Violence Discussion with a Therapist)
Welcome to today’s episode! Today, we’re talking about:
(0:00) Catching Up: Chatting about sleeping separately from your partner, Kelly’s vacation in Sidemen (Bali) and why it made her feel like a 90-year-old woman, and how the pandemic changed our relationships with socialization
(7:18) Being Vulnerable vs. Oversharing: where do you draw the line? How do you know when you’re talking too much, versus being open and raw? What does this mean in friendships, romantic relationships, etc.? How does being vulnerable deepen relationships? How does oversharing make people feel uncomfortable? How do you know the difference between the two?
(15:24) Gabby Petito & Brian Laundrie: the downsides and the upsides of social media when it comes to crimes, what’s wrong with the media’s coverage of this case, how mental health plays into this case (anxiety, gaslighting, OCD, and more), abusive relationships and what may have happened in this situation, and what we can learn from this case when looking at it through a mental health lens with a therapist.
*Trigger Warning: in today’s episode, we discuss the Gabby Petito’s disappearance and murder, abusive relationships, and other mental health struggles.
Mentioned in this episode/Resources:
The Domestic Violence Hotline: 1.800.799.7233
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255
https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org
The National Alliance on Mental Illness
https://nami.org/Home
Where to Find Us!
www.instagram.com/wethoughtyouasked
Find the link on our Instagram to submit to us anonymously, or simply DM us!
Thanks for listening! Please subscribe and leave us a 5-star review, so we can find more listeners than just the 2 of us. 😆
Just a quick disclaimer, that while T’s a therapist, and we’ll be discussing mental health topics on the show, this podcast is NOT therapy or a substitute for therapy. This pod is just for fun, and if you are needing some extra support, we really encourage you to a contact a licensed therapist near you.
Torie & Kelly
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Facebook Went Down (The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly), How to Speak Up for Yourself, and a Pop Culture/TV/Fashion Roundup
Welcome to our 5th episode! We have a lot of interesting conversations today, so buckle up for this ride:
(0:00) Kelly went to a water park, Mercury is in retrograde and it's screwing with us this time around (so please don't mind Torie's echo-ey audio today)
(3:12) Facebook went down and the world stopped for a day. Social media addiction, how and why to do a social media cleanse, why Facebook is so important and necessary around the world, the Facebook whistleblower, and how/when will crucial change happen?
(16:48) Kylie Swim, and questioning why she would launch the company when the product wasn't up to par. Why did she risk tarnishing her reputation just to launch a subpar swimwear line at the tailend of summer?
(23:42) #FreeBritney: she’s almost free! Why she's still under the conservatorship, and who is Lou Taylor?
(28:35) How to speak up for yourself, why setting boundaries can feel overwhelming and awkward, and why you need to do it anyways.
(33:44) What we've been watching on Hulu: Only Murders in the Building, Nine Perfect Strangers, and our favorite Martin Short movie
(37:02) Bravo Roundup: Vanderpump Rules, Real Housewives of Beverly Hills & Erika Girardi
(41:40) Gen Z Fashion Update: Juicy Couture, Ed Hardy and Addison Rae, Uggs, Low Rise Jeans, our Grandpa's New Balance, Kelly's love for Hailey Bieber, and more
Where to Find Us!
www.instagram.com/wethoughtyouasked
Find the link on our Instagram to submit to us anonymously, or simply DM us!
Thanks for listening! Please subscribe and leave us a 5-star review, so we can find more listeners than just the 2 of us. 😆
Just a quick disclaimer, that while T’s a therapist, and we’ll be discussing mental health topics on the show, this podcast is NOT therapy or a substitute for therapy. This pod is just for fun, and if you are needing some extra support, we really encourage you to a contact a licensed therapist near you.
Torie & Kelly
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