Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood - w/ Aimee Byrd

12/13/21 • 67 min

Discover how challenging traditional gender roles can transform discipleship and the church's mission. Mike Erre and Tim Stafford sit down with author Aimee Byrd to discuss her book "Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood," exposing the limitations of complementarian teachings and exploring how both men and women can fully participate in the life of the church.

Key Takeaways: • Redefining Discipleship Beyond Gender Roles – Amy Byrd explains how the focus on so-called biblical manhood and womanhood distracts from true discipleship and spiritual growth. • The Impact of Theological Misinterpretations – Discussing how teachings like the eternal subordination of the Son have been used to justify female subordination and how this affects both men and women negatively. • Gynocentric Interruptions in Scripture – Exploring how women's voices and stories in the Bible reveal a richer narrative that challenges patriarchal interpretations. • Peeling Back the 'Yellow Wallpaper' – Using the metaphor from Charlotte Perkins Gilman's story to identify and remove the subtle cultural biases that limit women's roles in the church. • Restoring the Dignity and Personhood of Men and Women – A glimpse into Amy's upcoming work focusing on the Song of Songs and its implications for understanding sexuality and personhood in a biblical context.

Guest Highlights: Aimee Byrd – Author of "Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood" and the forthcoming "The Sexual Reformation." Amy shares her journey from embracing complementarian teachings to critically examining and challenging them, advocating for a more inclusive and scripturally faithful approach to discipleship.

Resources Mentioned: • "Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood" by Amy Byrd – [Link] • "The Sexual Reformation" by Amy Byrd – [Link] • "Gospel Women" by Richard Bauckham – [Link] • "The Yellow Wallpaper" by Charlotte Perkins Gilman – [Link] • Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (CBMW) – [Link]

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Previous Episode

Making Sense of Deconstruction - w/ Joshua Ryan Butler

Gain insights into the complexities of deconstruction in the Christian journey as Mike Erre and Tim Stafford engage in a candid conversation with author and pastor Josh Butler. Together, they unravel misconceptions, discuss the impact of personal experiences on faith, and explore how to navigate doubt and spiritual growth within the church.

Key Takeaways:

Defining Deconstruction – Understanding the various meanings of deconstruction and its role in personal faith journeys.
Intentions Behind the Article – Josh explains the purpose of his controversial article on deconstruction and clarifies common misunderstandings.
The Role of the Church – Exploring how church leaders and communities can support individuals experiencing doubt and questioning.
Navigating Societal Pressures – Discussing the influence of cultural ideologies, social networks, and the internet on deconstruction.
Hospitality and Empathy – Emphasizing the importance of listening, patience, and open dialogue in fostering healthy spiritual growth.

Guest Highlights:

Joshua Ryan Butler – Author of Skeletons in God's Closet and The Pursuing God, Josh shares his experiences as a pastor and writer engaging with individuals grappling with faith, doubt, and the process of deconstruction.

Resources Mentioned:

Skeletons in God's Closet by Joshua Ryan Butler – Amazon Link
The Pursuing God by Joshua Ryan Butler – Amazon Link
Voxology Podcast Episodes on Deconstruction – Link

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Next Episode

Reconstructing Faith: Six Paths Through Doubt, Disillusionment, and Deconstruction (Exile Series)

A raw and honest unpacking of what “deconstruction” really is—and isn’t—in today's church. Mike Erre and Tim Stafford take time to explore the complexities behind this often-used and often-misunderstood buzzword. Drawing from philosophy, theology, psychology, and their personal experiences, they break down the six distinct processes many people go through under the umbrella of deconstruction—ranging from doubt and disillusionment to discipleship and deconversion. This thoughtful and pastoral conversation serves as both a reflection and a guide for those navigating questions about their faith, the church, and the culture they grew up in.

This Exile Series episode aims to reorient our understanding of spiritual unraveling—not as a rebellion against God, but as a potentially vital movement toward deeper faithfulness to Jesus.

Key Takeaways: • Understanding Six D's of Deconstruction – Disillusionment, Discipleship, Deconversion, Redefinition, Doubt, and Disorientation—and why not all are harmful. • What’s Being Deconstructed? – The critical distinction between dismantling American evangelical subculture vs. historic Orthodox Christianity. • Pastoral Engagement – Why labeling someone’s faith shift as “sexy deconstruction” misses the heart of the issue and causes more harm than healing. • New Metaphors for Faith – From national parks to marriage, creative imagery helps reframe how we live into the reality of the Kingdom of God. • The Role of the Church – How communities can provide presence, permission, and patience as people redefine their relationship with faith.

Resources Mentioned: • Walter Brueggemann's Typology of the Psalms – Orientation, Disorientation, and Reorientation • Paul Ricoeur – Philosophical roots of deconstruction • Tim Gombis – Alternative metaphors for deconstruction (national parks, identity) • Sermon on the Mount & Lord’s Prayer – as spiritual “handholds” • Jude 1:22 – “Be merciful to those who doubt”

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