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One of Dale Carnegie’s principles for overcoming worry is to live in “day-tight compartments.” This term was first coined by Sir William Osier when he encountered this life-changing quote from Thomas Carlisle, “It is not our goal to see what lies dimly in the distance but to do what clearly lies at hand.”Rather than look to the past or more than 24 hours ahead of the present.

Sir Osier focused on the tasks at hand. Often times, our thoughts are dominated by regrets and mistakes of the past, or anxiety about upcoming events. We are unable to perform what needs must be done at the moment because we are trapped in the past or future. Dale Carnegie said, “If you want to avoid worry, do what Sir William Osler did: Live in “day-tight compartments.” Don’t stew about the futures. Just live each day until bedtime.

For example, if you were in a minor car accident on the way to work which made you late and frustrated, it would be challenging to start your day as you normally would. Chances are you would relive each step of the accident and contemplate a variety of scenarios which would have rendered a better result. Perhaps you have to give a presentation to a large group of clients or employees on a topic about which you are not very familiar the day after tomorrow. If you haven’t carved out time and actually prepared for it, chances are it will be difficult to accomplish anything not related to the presentation. You must, however, let go and train your brain to focus on the tasks at hand.

By living in “day-tight compartments” we can hone all of our energy, motivation and skills into promptly accomplishing tasks while utilizing our abilities optimally.

This episode is about the opening preface pf the book, because one can not get optimum benefit from the book without knowing what the author said in the preface.

The book 'How to stop worrying & start living' by Dale Carnegie, suggest many ways to conquer worry and lead a wonderful life. The book mentions fundamental facts to know about worry and magic formula for solving worry-some situations. The book suggests basic techniques in analyzing worry, step by step, in order to cope up with them. A very interesting feature of the book is 'How to eliminate 50% of your business worries'. The book offers 7 ways to cultivate a mental attitude that will bring you peace and happiness. Also, the golden rule for conquering worry, keeping your energy & spirits high. The book consists of some True Stories which will help the readers in conquering worry to lead you to success in life.