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Unswtnd + Unfltrd

Unswtnd+Unfltrd

A space for women to feel like they are not alone in the hardships or struggles that they are facing. Some conversations may be lighthearted, some may touch upon taboo topics, but the overall mission for this podcast is to make every woman realize that she is not alone in whatever struggle she may be going through. We are all in this together, I promise.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Unswtnd + Unfltrd episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Unswtnd + Unfltrd for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Unswtnd + Unfltrd episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Unswtnd + Unfltrd - Sorry Not Sorry with Jackie Courtney
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07/31/19 • 85 min

In Episode 19, we talk to Jackie Courtney, the mastermind behind the incredible website NearlyNewlywed.com. Prior to creating Nearly Newlywed, Jackie worked as a publicist for international fashion designers including Marni, Thakoon, Matthew Williamson and Emilio Pucci and top stylists/editors at Vogue, Elle, Harper's Bazaar, InStyle and more. Jackie walks us through where the idea of her business came about, why it's so important we unlearn the habit of apologizing (yeah, sorry not sorry is actually a thing), the reason taking up space is something we need to be proud of and how we need to quit the habit of saying we are bad at things.

If you're in need of an (almost) new designer wedding dress at an affordable price or have one taking up way too much space in your in-law's basement (guilty) take a look at NearlyNewlywed.com, a place to sell or shop preowned or new wedding dresses.

Enjoy and remember to follow us on Instagram: @unsweetenedandunfiltered
Follow Jackie on Instagram: @jac_courtney
Shop/Sell at: Nearly Newlywed
Read some of Jackie's work: Stop Saying You Are Bad At Things or Why We Need To Stop Apologizing For Taking Up Space


          

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Unswtnd + Unfltrd - Spiritual Awakening: Who Am I and Why Am I Here?
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08/17/21 • 72 min

What exactly is a spiritual awakening and why is it so painful?

Have you ever found yourself wanting to take a break and crawl into a hole all by yourself but not knowing the reason why? Could it be that almost everything feels forced lately? Forced interactions, forced relationships and even forced conversations?

I tend to believe that our mental breakdowns are truly spiritual breakthroughs. Someone once told me that if you're not speaking it, you're storing it and that can get pretty heavy.

In today's episode, I sit down with Hanan Abdel-Khalek, the founder of Young Nevertiti, and somehow even though we live thousands of miles apart, we are always on the same wavelength.

In our discussion we both exhibited the same painful experiences, the same desire for solitude and the unfortunate feeling like we are being consumed by things that are distancing us away from our Creator. We came to the conclusion that we were each going through a spiritual awakening.

Hanan discusses what triggered her to embark on this journey and how social media at times can be used as an escape route from real life and how it's a tool that allows us to peer into the lives of our family, friends and even strangers. We converse about the internal struggles we have faced and how one can never be truly ready for the lessons written for us, but these hardships are required in order for us to grow into a new version of ourselves.

It may be a terrifying feeling for you to finally give yourself permission to be yourself, but in this conversation you'll see that you are not alone on this journey and as painful as spiritual awakenings can be, they are such a gift to experience in this world.

Enjoy and follow the pod on Instagram:
@unsweetenedandunfiltered

Follow Hanan Abdel-Khalek on Instagram:
@hananithink

Check out Young Nevertiti:
www.youngnevertiti.com


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In Episode 39, Lina Bettayeb joins us as she dives into the family trip that had completely changed her life. 

At the age of 16, Lina and her family embark on a journey to Umrah. Her memory jumps from a joyous van full of her loved ones on their way to complete their pilgrimage to waking up in the hospital connected to several life-saving machines. 

Although, she still can't piece together the memories of what happened that day, Lina tells us that her dad was the one to fill her in: A reckless driver crashed into their vehicle leaving Lina and her mother both paralyzed. 

Lina spent one year in the hospital and was told by multiple health professionals that she would never be able to walk again. 

But she didn't let that stop her from trying. She spent her time in the hospital with her nose nuzzled in books, conducting her own research and working on a rehabilitation plan that was best suited for her. 

Through this experience that had shook the core of her livelihood, Lina explains how she trained her brain to see the silver lining within this hardship and how she truly connected to her faith for the first time and strengthened her relationship with God. 

Lina's message to the world is to truly believe in the power of our mind. She explains to us how our positive thinking and overall attitude towards life's situations has a real impact on the way our body heals. 

As you listen to Lina share her story and her message, we hope that you can take away a new definition of gratitude.

Enjoy and remember to follow us on Instagram: @unsweetenedandunfiltered
Follow Lina on Instagram: @linathedreamer


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Is it possible that we can be doing something to block or delay our blessings in this world?
In today's episode, I am grateful for the chance to re-introduce you to one of my absolute favorite spiritual counselors and that is Sister Hosai Mojaddidi! She is a public speaker, teacher, writer, mentor and mental health advocate, too!
Do you ever find yourself questioning if your hardships are a result of the sins you may be committing? If these hardships are a punishment that we have to face because of what we have done? In this conversation we explore the possibility of a link between our sins, trials and blessings.

In this discussion, Hosai beautifully delves into these questions as well as our relationship with Allah. She explains how it's a rahma to be tested and to be cleansed of our sins through these very same tribulations.

I once read that sometimes Allah swt wants a certain level of Jannah for someone, and when their good deeds alone can't get them there, He gives them hardship.

And sometimes hardships also come in the form of a closed door, but if you look a little bit more closely you would realize that it's truly an open door. A redirection that was protection written for you by Allah because who knows what harmful situation was lying behind that closed door.

We also cover the concept of having a close relationship with Allah, not only publicly but privately, and how it's important that we do not take advantage of Allah's forgiveness and mercy, but rather how can we be more sincere and intentional in everything that we do daily.

May Allah reward Sister Hosai for giving us a better understanding of our faith and for leading such fruitful conversations. May you all have a blessed Ramadan inshallah.

Enjoy and follow the pod on Instagram:
@unsweetenedandunfiltered
Follow Sister Hosai Mojaddidi on Instagram:
@hosaimojo

Check out Sister Hosai's Website:
www.hosaimojaddidi.com

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In Episode 25, we are joined by Khitam Masoud, a cancer survivor and nonprofit organization founder. In 1998, when she was just 16 yrs old, Khitam decided to take her parents to court and fight for her emancipation in order to avoid an arranged marriage. With no relationship with her family she has had to overcome obstacles on her own, which proved to be silver linings once the dust had settled.

Khitam walks us through the struggles she had faced as she learned to navigate life on her own at such a young age. She balanced multiple jobs as she tried to stay afloat, scrambled to find the time and funds to get an education, and dealt with a cancer diagnosis on her own. Khitam talks about her hardships and how she has found the motivation to get up everyday and work on bettering herself.

But it was through her struggles that "Blessons for Women" was born. Khitam's non-profit organization provides free mentorship, educational workshops and wellness clinics for all women, in addition to scholarships to disadvantaged, low-income women who are 25 years or older and who have had their higher education interrupted due to challenging life lessons such as: mental health conditions, physical or emotional abuse, sex trafficking or who are first generation female immigrants.

Her life goal is turning wounds into wisdom and lessons into blessings.
Enjoy and remember to follow us on Instagram: @unsweetenedandunfiltered
Follow Blessons on Instagram: @herblessons
Check out Blessons for Women

Shop FabFitFun: Use coupon code UNSWEETENED for $10 off your first box at www.fabfitfun.com

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Unswtnd + Unfltrd - Kissing 2019 Goodbye and Finally Taking Our Own Advice
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12/25/19 • 69 min

In Episode 40, we’re kissing 2019 goodbye. Ma3a salama!
We sit down to answer all of your questions. Some are intense and raw, like “What stands between you and becoming a happier person?”
Others are a bit more silly, like “What’s the stupidest thing you’ve been dared to do?” You guys are not going to believe Dounya’s answer!

We discuss stress, dealing with conflicts, mistakes we’ve made in the past and all things in between. We laugh, we (almost) cry and we let it all out.
In this episode, you’ll also come to find out just how hypocritical we are. Yup, we don’t practice what we preach. We’re calling ourselves out and putting it all on blast. This also ties into our announcement at the end of the episode.

You’ll just have to listen to find out.
From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for making 2019 a year for the books. We could not have made it to this point of our podcasting journey if it wasn’t for you and your support. You have made the handwork, sleepless nights, stress-induced acne and dark under-eye circles worth it all!

But on a serious note, thank you for making our small circle much bigger than we could have ever imagined it to become! This sisterhood is here to stay!
We have so many incredible things planned for 2020, so make sure you stay tuned for Season Two!
Enjoy and remember to follow us on Instagram: @unsweetenedandunfiltered

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Unswtnd + Unfltrd - Finding the Silver Lining with Lisa Vogl
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03/26/19 • 36 min

In Episode 2, we are joined by Lisa Vogl, who is an award winning international fashion photographer and founder of Verona Collection modest fashion brand. Vogl's Verona Collection is aimed at Muslim women and others who prefer to dress modestly. The collection launched last year online at Macy's, but now will be offered in the Dearborn store. We also discuss how to heal and find the silver lining through our hardships.
Enjoy, and remember to follow us on Instagram @unsweetenedandunfiltered
Shop Verona :www.verona-collection.com

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Sometimes Allah (swt) wants a certain level of Jannah for someone and when their good deeds alone can't get them there, He gives them hardship.
These are such powerful words that I was fortunate enough to come across in a moment of need. In today's episode, I sit down with Halima Jama to discuss how we can better focus our lens on the blessings threaded within our hardships, how we can include Allah in every aspect of our lives and how to trust the next chapter we are embarking on because Allah is the author.

Some silver linings can be much more difficult to find than others, but there is always goodness and khair in everything that we endure. Subhanallah, how Allah grants us the strength to face the most difficult of hardships in this dunya.
In this life, you will have moments where your face hurts from smiling too much, moments where your eyes can't shed anymore tears, tireless nights where you find yourself surrounded by darkness, moments that are memorable and others that you try your hardest to erase.
You will meet people who will love you deeply and others who will hurt you and may leave a scar behind, but through all of this, you will find that silver lining.

Know that through all of these moments, Allah is right there with you. So, ask for His guidance, pray for better days, soften your heart and open your eyes to the beauty in this dunya and the rewards of Allah's mercy.

As always, be gentle with one another. Most of us are going through something that we are choosing to only keep between us and our Creator. I only pray that Allah showers you with ease and patience.

I intentionally chose to keep this conversation as the last discussion of Ramadan. Halima Jama is someone who you will find yourself indebted to Allah for allowing you to cross paths with her. Her words always touch me and leave an imprint on my heart for more reasons than one.
She is a well known wedding photographer in Toronto, Canada and a Muslim woman everyone should know. She showers us with her beautiful duas that are accompanied with her contagious smile.

And in this episode we dive into the notion of cultivating a strong bond with Allah and focusing our lens, no pun intended, on the many ways Allah has chosen to provide us with rizk, mercy and blessings we could have never imagined for ourselves.

Enjoy and follow the pod on Instagram:
@unsweetenedandunfiltered
Follow Halima Jama on Instagram:
@halimajama
Follow Tawheed Community Centre here:
@tawheedcommunitycentre
Book Halima for your next Photoshoot here:
www.halimajama.com

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May we be the generation that gifts our grandparents with a free Palestine.
Over 200 Palestinians, including 61 children, have been killed in Gaza since violence erupted just over a week ago during the end of Ramadan and at least 1,500 Palestinians have been wounded.
By the time I release this episode, please take into account that these numbers may change drastically.

I can't help but to reiterate that the ethnic cleansing of Palestinians has never stopped. It has been on a continuum for decades now and for the first time the world is coming together as a unifying force to call out the oppressors and to put an end to the genocide of Palestinians at the hands of Israel.

The media has attempted to vilify the Palestinians by painting a picture as if it’s Israel against Hamas, or Israel vs Gaza and the best one yet, Jews vs Muslims and the foundation of all of these news stories is that Israel is just trying to defend itself.This couldn't be further from the truth and so, we the people have become the truth tellers, using social media to amplify what is truly taking place in our beloved homeland of Palestine.

It’s our slingshots and our rocks against their military weapons. Yet, they say that we are the troublemakers and they, the Zionists, are the peacemakers.
And as a reminder these weapons are funded and backed by the US. Just recently, Biden has approved a 735 million dollar weapons sale to Israel. The same USA that sends 3.8 billion dollars annually to fund the ethnic cleansing of Palestinians.

Ever since we were old enough to read and write, we have known about the plight of our people. It’s having to continuously reaffirm our identity, it’s witnessing someone tell you to your face, why can’t you guys just get along? It’s the deafening silence that has become the advantageous weapon of the Zionists.

In today’s episode I had the privilege of sitting down with Nooran Alhamdan, someone whom I have always viewed as a powerful voice in the Palestinian movement. She explains to us the significance of Sheikh Jarrah, why Gaza is the scapegoat of Israel, how Zionism came about and how to refute their claims made against those who are for the liberation and freedom of Palestinians. I highly encourage that you support the work of Nooran and to share this discussion with family and friends who are seeking additional resources to better understand the plight of the Palestinian people.

Enjoy and follow the pod on Instagram:
@unsweetenedandunfiltered
Follow Nooran Alhamdan on Twitter:
@nooranhamdan
Check out the Podcast Episode Nooran mentioned:
CHAPOTRAPHOUSE: Focus on Palestine feat.
Mohammad Alsaafin

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Listen, I’m not fully blaming evil eye here but how coincidental is it that anytime I post a selfie, the very next day I’m breaking out...so was it evil eye energy or was cleansing my face three times in a row not enough? We may never know…

We have all most likely lost count of how many times we have heard these words being uttered - 'SAY MASHALLAH'. And so we quickly say it because it feels as though there is this five second rule that exists after complimenting someone and having to follow it up with saying “mashallah”  to avoid something bad from happening. 

I think we can all agree that this episode is long overdue but good things come to those who wait and for us it came in human form and her name is Jehan Mansy, today’s special guest!

Jehan is a spiritualist, a writer, healer and founder of the Ruqaya Box  and Ascension deck. 

In today’s episode she is extending her expertise in regards to the unseen world. Call it divine timing but I was fortunate enough to have crossed paths with Jehan’s work and without hesitation I reached out to her and let her know that this is a topic that is in dire need of attention and possible  myth busting.

But before we dive head first, Jehan takes us on a journey of how and when she first discovered her healing abilities and how she came to terms with her purpose even though all of our lives we were told this was haram and to avoid talking about the unseen world. 

You may have at one point or another wondered if the hardships you’re facing are a test from Allah or if it’s from evil eye? So how does one tell the difference between the two and how can we protect ourselves if it is due to hassad or nazar being placed upon us?

And what exactly is sleep paralysis and how do we navigate this dunya when we are sharing it with the unseen world. There is no denying that bad spirits exist which also means that curses are a real thing - and if you’re like me you may be wondering how to avoid this at all costs.

Like Jehan says:  you don’t know who is rooting for your downfall or who is hiring someone to send you magic  and so in the episode notes I have included Jehan’s online site that is filled with protection prayers and resources if you are in need of immediate relief and release from the harm you may be facing.

Did I mention that we close this episode with Jehan letting me know if I do have a curse on me...

Enjoy and follow the pod on Instagram:
@unsweetenedandunfiltered

Follow Jehan Mansy on Instagram:
@jehan.mansy

Protection Prayers and Resources:
www.jmansy.com

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How many episodes does Unswtnd + Unfltrd have?

Unswtnd + Unfltrd currently has 132 episodes available.

What topics does Unswtnd + Unfltrd cover?

The podcast is about Islam, Self Care, Society & Culture, Faith, Anxiety, Divorce, Women, Mental Health, Depression, Religion & Spirituality, Podcasts, Marriage, Muslim, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Mental Illness and Politics.

What is the most popular episode on Unswtnd + Unfltrd?

The episode title 'Singles Edition: Destigmatizing Being Single and Navigating Mixed Signals w/ Hafsa Hassan' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Unswtnd + Unfltrd?

The average episode length on Unswtnd + Unfltrd is 66 minutes.

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Episodes of Unswtnd + Unfltrd are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Unswtnd + Unfltrd?

The first episode of Unswtnd + Unfltrd was released on Mar 6, 2019.

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