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Unfollowing Mum

Unfollowing Mum

Harriet Shearsmith

Unfollowing Mum : Break Unhealthy habits and be the parent you wish you'd had is available for preorder NOW!

A therapist recommended podcast for cycle breakers by someone who has lived the experience. Host Harriet Shearsmith knows first hand how challenging it can be to navigate estrangement, toxic family and dysfunctional dynamics in a digital age where setting boundaries and protecting your peace is harder than ever.

In 2023 we’re unfollowing mum. We’re breaking the cycle, unsubscribing from the drama by healing generational trauma and putting ourselves and our mental health first.

Each week I will answer your anonymous questions, discuss experiences and tackle the issues surrounding estrangement, generational trauma and navigating toxic families. Sometimes I’ll speak to experts, people with lived experience and other cycle breakers to share their point of view.

You’re not alone, there is a community of people navigating parenthood without solid role models, learning to love themselves after emotional abuse whilst breaking the cycle for the future generations 💜


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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Unfollowing Mum episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Unfollowing Mum for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Unfollowing Mum episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

On this week's episode, host Harriet Shearsmith chats to Rachel Varkey, host of It's Fine! Pod, about her experiences of generational trauma and toxic family dynamics as a child of immigrants. They talk about the 'that's just white woman stuff' myth that surrounds cycle breaking and challenging our generational trauma.


You can find Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/itsfinethepod?igsh=N3Fjdmp5ZXRtNXE1


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On this episode host Harriet Shearsmith speaks with Sahaj Kohli, therapist, author of But what will people say? and founder of @browngirltherapy. Sahaj shares her wisdom about setting boundaries and navigating dysfunctional family dynamics as a bi-cultural child of immigrants and breaking generational trauma cycles within collectivist, multicultural families.

You can find Sahaj's book here:

https://amzn.to/3Vawj0N

And follow @browngirltherapy on instagram


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On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks about the experience of being triggered - both memories that conversations with people will bring up, and what it is like to recognise your abusive parent's behaviours in someone else.


You can find Harriet's book Unfollowing Mum: Break unhealthy patterns and be the parent you wish you'd had here: https://amzn.to/3Xdu12Y



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On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith speaks to Rebecca Dominguez about her lived experiences with childhood trauma from an abusive mother, the pressures of "family" within the Hispanic community and spiritual abuse.

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On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks about her experience of growing up with a single mum after her parent's bitter divorce and the weaponisation of single parenthood by toxic parents.

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On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks to Marie Selleck, a licensed therapist and mother wound coach, about the power of thoughts, the mother wound, challenging our inner critic and breaking the cycle with our own kids.

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Unfollowing Mum - Ep27 Financial impact of estrangement
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07/26/23 • 28 min

On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks about the financial implications of estrangement - a taboo topic within an already taboo topic! Student support, estrangement bursaries, childcare impact and more.

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On this episode host Harriet Shearsmith talks with Dr Emma Svanberg, clinical psychologist and author of Parenting for Humans, about generational trauma, cycle breaking parenting and reparenting yourself.


You can find more from Emma at:


Instagram: https://instagram.com/mumologist

Buy her brilliant book "Parenting for Humans" https://amzn.to/3FaLKyP


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On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks to Jemma Wilson about her lived experience with an alcoholic mother and growing up raising her younger siblings as a teenager. You can find Jemma at https://instagram.com/roseandhoneyphotographer

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Unfollowing Mum - EP57 Religious abuse & estrangement
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06/12/24 • 42 min

On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks to author Lyn Smith Gregory about religious trauma, abuse and the resulting estrangement from stepping out of the church.

You can find more about Lyn here: https://lynsmithgregory.com/about/


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FAQ

How many episodes does Unfollowing Mum have?

Unfollowing Mum currently has 84 episodes available.

What topics does Unfollowing Mum cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Therapy, Podcasts, Childhood Trauma and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Unfollowing Mum?

The episode title 'EP48 Complicated feelings that come up around Mother's Day' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Unfollowing Mum?

The average episode length on Unfollowing Mum is 44 minutes.

How often are episodes of Unfollowing Mum released?

Episodes of Unfollowing Mum are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Unfollowing Mum?

The first episode of Unfollowing Mum was released on Jan 19, 2023.

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