Time To Talk TFMR
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Whether facing a decision of TFMR or having undergone a TFMR, this podcast is here to support you through your journey. We have guests every episode who either work with women and families around TFMR or who have directly experienced TFMR themselves. This podcast talks about the complexities of TFMR and all the areas of life it effects. We want this to be a place of safety, compassion and hope.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Time To Talk TFMR episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Time To Talk TFMR for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Time To Talk TFMR episode by adding your comments to the episode page.
TFMR: T21 Down Syndrome with Emma Parsons
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09/03/23 • 44 min
Welcome to today's episode: TFMR for a T21 (Down Syndrome) diagnosis with Emma Parsons.
Emma had her TFMR in 2009. After having her 20 week anatomy scan, she was informed there was a high chance her son, Isaac, had T21. This was later confirmed by further genetic testing. Emma talks to us about her decision making process, how she felt quite lonely, the effect on her mental health and how her grief has evolved over time.
She is very open and honest, and we know that many mums out there who have been dealt this particular TFMR card will resonate with much of what Emma has to say about her experience.
We hope you enjoy listening. Get in touch and let us know what you think.
Social media: Instagram and Facebook @TimeToTalkTFMR and Twitter @TalkTFMR
Email is [email protected]
This episode is supported by Antenatal Results and Choices. For more information on how they support women and couples click here or call them on 0207 713 7486.
TFMR Fathers (UK)
Time To Talk TFMR
05/14/23 • 67 min
Welcome to today's episode: TFMR Fathers.
I'm so grateful that four dads were willing to come and speak with us. I also had an awesome guest co-host this episode, consultant neonatologist Nick Embleton.
Our four dads are:
Alex, Ethan, Sam and John
All are base here in the UK and all went through termination due to foetal anomaly. They were all amazingly open and honest about their experiences, how they were impacted, what support they received and what they felt was needed, not just for them, but for their partners as well.
I hope you enjoy listening. Get in touch and let us know what you think.
Social media: Instagram and Facebook @TimeToTalkTFMR and Twitter @TalkTFMR
Email is [email protected]
This episode is supported by Antenatal Results and Choices. For more information on how they support women and couples click here or call them on 0207 713 7486.
TTC after TFMR with Julianne Boutaleb
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04/23/23 • 56 min
Hello, and welcome to today's episode.
I’m joined by Julianne Boutaleb of Parenthood in Mind. Julianne is a Chartered perinatal psychologist, with over 20 years in the NHS and private practise.
We’re discussing trying to conceive after TFMR – but also stopping TTC after TFMR.
This is a really good follow on episode from our Sex and Intimacy after TFMR that was released a few weeks ago.
Julianne mentions a few places to get extra support from, including:
Tommy Pregnancy Hub
Maternal OCD Org.
and of course you can find more information at Parenthood in Mind.
I hope you enjoy listening. Get in touch and let us know what you think.
Social media: Instagram and Facebook @TimeToTalkTFMR and Twitter @TalkTFMR
Email is [email protected]
This episode is supported by Antenatal Results and Choices. For more information on how they support women and couples click here or call them on 0207 713 7486.
TFMR: Genetic Counselling with Dagmar Tapon and Jane Fisher
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11/22/22 • 56 min
Hello! In today's episode, we're talking with Dagmar Tapon, a genetic counsellor and Jane Fisher, Director of Antenatal Results and Choices, about genetic counselling.
We talk about the technical stuff, like the difference between genes and chromosomes, the limits to testing, options for future pregnancies, the emotional and mental load that both testing and coping can bring...and much more.
Dagmar mentions the HFEA as a resource for statics about IVF in the UK:
Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority gives impartial, accurate information about IVF, clinics and other fertility treatments from the UK government fertility regulator:
https://www.hfea.gov.uk/
Get in touch and let us know what you think.
Social media: Instagram and Facebook @TimeToTalkTFMR and Twitter @TalkTFMR
Email is [email protected]
This episode is supported by Antenatal Results and Choices. For more information on how they support women and couples click here or call them on 0207 713 7486.
TFMR: Disability & Abortion
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10/30/22 • 56 min
Hello, and welcome to today's episode.
Our guest is Mara Clarke. Mara is an abortion activist, mum and disabled woman. She founded Abortion Support Network which supports those who need to travel for an abortion from across Europe.
We discuss Channel 4's documentary titled Disability and Abortion: The Hardest Choice, aired at the end of the summer.
Does ending a pregnancy due to detected fetal abnormality amount to disability discrimination? No, of course not. Once again, this is a case of trying to simplify a complex and nuanced situation.
Mara and I then get into deeper conversations about abortion, what it means to be pro-choice, how TFMR intersects with all of this, etc, etc.
It's a rich and fast moving conversation, hold on to your seats folks!
And I will say, listen to your instincts about whether to listen to this episode or not. I am very aware of what the word abortion can bring up for TFMR parents, and we use it a lot in this episode.
You can find Mara on Instagram @mara.k.clarke and Abortion Support Network @abortionsupportnetwork
If you do listen, get in touch and let us know what you think. Social media: Instagram and Facebook @TimeToTalkTFMR and Twitter @TalkTFMR
Email is [email protected]
This episode is supported by Antenatal Results and Choices. For more information on how they support women and couples click here or call them on 0207 713 7486.
We've added a Patron account to the podcast. We'd be so grateful if you'd consider supporting the podcast with a monthly donation. Pledges start at only $1 per month. Head to our Podbean page and click on the 'Become a Patron' button at the top right to learn more.
TFMR: Friendship
Time To Talk TFMR
10/09/22 • 54 min
Hello! And welcome to Season 6!
Today's episode is all about how our friends can support us through TFMR and beyond.
We're really grateful to Jess and Atiya for coming on and discussing their experience so openly.
This is a really moving episode about how friendship can be such a powerful support for those facing this terrible loss.
Get in touch and let us know what you think. Social media: Instagram and Facebook @TimeToTalkTFMR and Twitter @TalkTFMR
Email is [email protected]
This episode is supported by Antenatal Results and Choices. For more information on how they support women and couples click here or call them on 0207 713 7486.
We've added a Patron account to the podcast. We'd be so grateful if you'd consider supporting the podcast with a monthly donation. Pledges start at only $1 per month. Head to our Podbean page and click on the 'Become a Patron' button at the top right to learn more.
TFMR Language, Different TFMR Procedures and Healing Grief Rituals
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01/10/21 • 38 min
Hayley Manning & Catherine Mousley present Time To Talk TFMR with their guest Sabrina Fletcher, host of Our TFMR Stories on YouTube, a pregnancy loss doula and TFMR parent.
Hello again! Thank you for choosing to listen to us, we’re so glad you’re here. In this episode we cover quite a lot of ground! From TFMR experiences in Mexico & the USA, where women's reproductive rights and the abortion debate is so much more polarised, to healing grief rituals.
Today, we speak with Sabrina about her TFMR experience in Mexico (she is an American currently living there) and how many women in the USA and Mexico often don’t have the support they need when going through TFMR. We talk about the language of TFMR and how the medical terms often don't give justice to our lived experiences of birthing our loved babies and Sabrina talks about how after her TFMR she sought out the expertise of a doula to help her with her grieving process. This eventually led her to becoming a doula herself and she now supports others who have gone through a pregnancy loss. She uses rituals and creativity to help her with her own grief and explains how this can be used by others to heal. Follow her on Instagram @theTFMRdoula website: www.thetfmrdoula.com
You can follow us on Instagram @TimeToTalkTFMR and email us at [email protected]
We would love to hear from you.
TFMR and Creative Self-Care
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01/04/21 • 49 min
Hayley Manning & Catherine Mousley present Time To Talk TFMR with their guest Suzie Jay Goldsmith, a photographer, mentor and author of The Rallying Cry and two time TFMR parent.
Thank you for choosing this episode! It’s one full of inspiration and hope and we so enjoyed speaking with Suzie.
We talk about creative self-care after a TFMR. What does your creativity look like for you? Are you a journaler? A baker? A flower arranger? Do you even consider yourself a creative person? Suzie talks about her own experiences with TFMR and how creativity helped her rebuild herself and process her grief. She feels EVERYONE can be creative. She is a joy to listen to, full of warmth and wisdom. Follow her on Instagram @suziejaygoldsmith website: mylittlemuse.co.uk and you can find her book, The Rallying Cry on Amazon UK.
You can follow us on Instagram @TimeToTalkTFMR and email us at [email protected]
We would love to hear from you!
TFMR and The Role of a Bereavement Midwife
Time To Talk TFMR
01/04/21 • 51 min
Hayley Manning & Catherine Mousley present Time To Talk TFMR with their guest Sally Kelly, a midwife, specialising in bereavement care, within the NHS.
Hello! And welcome, we are so glad you are joining us for this episode of Time To Talk TFMR, termination for medical reasons.
In this episode we are speaking to Sally Kelly, an experienced midwife, specialising in bereavement care of women and families that suffer the loss of their babies. She is particularly passionate about women being given appropriate and compassionate care when it comes to TFMR. She’ll also tell us about the kind of care women can expect from having a bereavement midwife at their side, both pre and post a TFMR.
You can follow us on Instagram @TimeToTalkTFMR and email us at [email protected]
We would love to hear from you!
TFMR Surgical Termination with Dr Rachel Foggin
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01/07/24 • 44 min
Hello, and Happy New Year!
In today's episode I am speaking with Dr Rachel Foggin from BPAS (British Pregnancy Advisory Service) about surgical termination.
Many of you wrote in with your questions about surgical termination and we tried to get as many of these answered as we could. This is a very open, honest and frank conversation about what surgical termination in the U.K., and we are very grateful to Rachel for sharing her expertise with us.
I hope you enjoy listening. Get in touch and let us know what you think.
Social media: Instagram and Facebook @TimeToTalkTFMR and Twitter @TalkTFMR
Email is [email protected]
This episode is supported by Antenatal Results and Choices. For more information on how they support women and couples click here or call them on 0207 713 7486.
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FAQ
How many episodes does Time To Talk TFMR have?
Time To Talk TFMR currently has 62 episodes available.
What topics does Time To Talk TFMR cover?
The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Miscarriage and Podcasts.
What is the most popular episode on Time To Talk TFMR?
The episode title 'TFMR Fathers (North America)' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Time To Talk TFMR?
The average episode length on Time To Talk TFMR is 52 minutes.
How often are episodes of Time To Talk TFMR released?
Episodes of Time To Talk TFMR are typically released every 18 days, 5 hours.
When was the first episode of Time To Talk TFMR?
The first episode of Time To Talk TFMR was released on Jan 4, 2021.
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