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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives

These Are The Gays Of Our Lives

Sarah Nelson, Drew Ishii

Drew and Sarah are college friends who share a love of pop culture from 80s music, old Hollywood movies, iconic closeted characters, and campy TV shows. Countless LGBTQ+ stories remain hidden in history, but deserve to be in the spotlight. Drew and Sarah explore the memorable and the not-so-well-known LGBTQ+ people that influenced both their lives and society. Peppered in every story are their hot takes and sass. Listen in, learn, and laugh along as they humorously and affectionately tell the life stories of the many gays of our lives.

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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best These Are The Gays Of Our Lives episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to These Are The Gays Of Our Lives for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite These Are The Gays Of Our Lives episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 17 Musician Series: Bessie Smith And Josephine Baker
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03/14/25 • 86 min

In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the lives of LGBTQ musicians, starting with Bessie Smith and Josephine Baker. This conversation delves into the life of Bessie Smith, a pioneering blues singer known for her complex personality, turbulent relationships, and significant impact on music and culture. The discussion highlights her rise to fame, struggles with family and marriage, exploration of sexuality, confrontations with racism, and the powerful messages in her lyrics. Bessie's legacy is marked by her boldness and defiance, as well as her tragic end, which left a lasting impression on the music world. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Josephine Baker, exploring her journey from a poor upbringing in St. Louis to becoming a celebrated performer in Paris. The discussion highlights her struggles with race and identity, her impact on civil rights, and her lasting influence on culture and society. Baker's bold performances and her role as a spy during World War II are also examined, showcasing her multifaceted contributions to art and activism.

Sources

Bessie Smith: The woman who sang the blues

https://youtu.be/o-TqtAIc21M?si=9IPG74mWk3m26y6I

Blues legacies and Black feminism : Gertrude "Ma" Rainey, Bessie Smith, and Billie Holiday

by Anglea Davis (1998)

The Scandalous and Triumphant Life of Josephine Baker.

https://youtu.be/s1lf_Vd4xqw?si=BB5hP5IIQ1B8BQG8

Josephine Baker: The Story of an Awakening

https://youtu.be/3nHUh_yjLaA?si=-f7J-jFgwc8a30jK

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 19: Musician Series: Billy Preston And Dusty Springfield
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04/11/25 • 81 min

In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives', hosts Sarah and Drew delve into the world of musicians, focusing on lesser-known figures like Sister Rosetta Tharp and the cultural impact of rock and roll icons. They discuss the evolution of media representation, particularly in relation to LGBTQ themes, and reflect on classic comedy's role in shaping societal norms. The conversation also highlights community resistance against censorship and the importance of preserving diverse narratives, culminating in a spotlight on the life and legacy of Dusty Springfield. This conversation delves into the life and career of Dusty Springfield, exploring her early life, struggles with identity, transformation into a music icon, activism, personal challenges, and her eventual comeback. The discussion highlights her unique voice, her impact on music, and the complexities of her personal life, including her relationships and battles with addiction and health issues. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Billy Preston, a musical genius known for his incredible talent as an organ player and singer. The discussion covers his early beginnings, rise to fame, collaborations with iconic artists, struggles with trauma and substance abuse, and his eventual downfall. The hosts reflect on the impact of his music and the challenges he faced throughout his life, culminating in his posthumous recognition in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.

Sources:

Dusty Springfield

Just Dusty: https://youtu.be/FwqzaHEh2_4?si=QJVIbcZfO2TLJ4ob

Unsung: Billy Preston

https://youtu.be/9PLKhfu4PfU?si=zsZDAfb4Z_4BOlgk

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 5: Vintage Hollywood: Cary Grant

5: Vintage Hollywood: Cary Grant

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10/13/24 • 67 min

Drew and Sarah BOTH tell the story of legendary actor Cary Grant. Grant was married 5 times (to women) but had a long time relationship with a fellow actor. His extreme good looks and unique sense of humor made him a leading man in Hollywood for decades. He always seemed to struggle with love until he had his daughter late in life.
Sources:
The Hollywood Collection: Cary Grant: The Leading Man
Cary Grant and Randolph Scott’s Hollywood Story: “Our Souls Did Touch” | Vanity Fair, January 18, 2024.

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 2: Vintage Hollywood Series: Barbara Stanwyck And Marlene Dietrich
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08/29/24 • 62 min

Sarah and Drew continue with stories of vintage Hollywood and talk about the ladies who loved the ladies. These two women were powerful and held sway over their counterparts in Hollywood. Each made enormous contributions to the film industry. Their love lives were complicated and often full of more drama than on the silver screen.
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The Sewing Circle by Axel Madsen
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZDYd2cMcc-U
https://youtu.be/cF1np7Yjcas?si=mXJbVIGqhYCdRvQV
Barbara Stanwyck: Straight down the line | The Hollywood Collection

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 16: Bayard Rustin And Nell Carter

16: Bayard Rustin And Nell Carter

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02/28/25 • 94 min

In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives', Drew and Sarah explore the stories of LGBTQ figures, focusing on the legacy of Prince, the campy nature of Batman films, and recent positive developments for the LGBTQ community. They also share surprising experiences from Kansas City, highlighting its unexpected inclusivity and representation. This conversation delves into the life and activism of Bayard Rustin, a key figure in the civil rights movement. The speakers discuss Rustin's early life, his philosophy of nonviolence, his significant contributions to the March on Washington, and the challenges he faced due to his sexual orientation. They highlight his legacy as a courageous activist who fought for social justice and equality, emphasizing the importance of his work in the context of both civil rights and LGBTQ history. This conversation delves into the life of Nell Carter, exploring her tragic childhood, rise to fame, struggles with addiction, personal relationships, health crises, and her legacy. The discussion highlights the complexities of her character, her impact on television, and the challenges she faced throughout her life, ultimately painting a portrait of a talented yet troubled individual.

Sources:

E True Hollywood Story : Nell Carter

Brother Outsider: The life of BYard Rustin. 2003.

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 15: Anne Lister And Sally Ride

15: Anne Lister And Sally Ride

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02/12/25 • 98 min

In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the lives of historical figures in LGBTQ+ history. This conversation explores the lives of two remarkable women: Anne Lister, a 19th-century landowner known for her diaries that documented her lesbian relationships, and Sally Ride, the first American woman in space. The discussion delves into Anne's adventurous spirit, her aspirations in architecture, and her tragic death while pursuing her dreams. It also highlights Sally's groundbreaking achievements in the male-dominated field of space exploration, her educational background, and her legacy in inspiring future generations. Both women faced societal challenges and broke barriers, leaving lasting impacts on history and culture.

Sources:

Sally Ride: America's First Woman In Space By Lynn

The Secret Diaries Of Miss Anne Lister Edited By Helena Whitbread

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 7: Halloween Spooktacular

7: Halloween Spooktacular

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10/31/24 • 72 min

It's our first annual Halloween Special! Sarah and Drew discuss LGTBQ Halloween, with special focus on Rocky Horror Picture Show and The Paul Lynde Halloween Special. Both Sarah and Drew give their top ten gay moments in Halloween TV and movies.

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 14: Isaac Newton And Alan Turing

14: Isaac Newton And Alan Turing

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01/31/25 • 93 min

In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives,' hosts Drew and Sarah explore various themes, including the stories of historical figures, media moments that resonate with LGBTQ culture, and the representation of queer identities in film and literature. They discuss the gay undertones in the James Bond film 'Octopussy,' highlight a queer feminist bookstore offering wedding services, and delve into the life of Sir Isaac Newton, portraying him as a misunderstood genius with a complex personality. This conversation delves into the life and achievements of Isaac Newton, exploring his relationships, discoveries in mathematics and physics, and the challenges he faced throughout his career. From his unusual living arrangement with John Wickens to his groundbreaking work in calculus and optics, the discussion highlights Newton's genius and the personal struggles that shaped his legacy. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Alan Turing, exploring his groundbreaking contributions to computing, his role in World War II cryptanalysis, and the personal struggles he faced due to his sexuality. The discussion highlights Turing's innovative ideas, the impact of the Enigma machine, and the tragic circumstances surrounding his death, ultimately emphasizing his significance in history and technology.

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 8: Bea Arthur And Charles Nelson Reilly

8: Bea Arthur And Charles Nelson Reilly

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11/08/24 • 75 min

Drew and Sarah cover two of the very best. If you are any kind of decent human, you know the show The Golden Girls. Bea Arthur was the guiding force of that show as Dorothy. But there is so much more to Bea and you will crap you pants at how amazing she is!
Charles Nelson Reilly is the love of Sarah's life and covering him for this show was the greatest day ever. Charles was the guy you want as you bestie in every situation you can possibly think of on the planet, and then a million more.

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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives - 13: White Christmas Special Episode!!

13: White Christmas Special Episode!!

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01/17/25 • 65 min

In this episode, Drew and Sarah dive into the classic holiday film 'White Christmas,' exploring its oddities, the cast, and the cultural impact it has had over the years. They discuss the film's musical numbers, the backgrounds of the main actors, and the subtext that runs throughout the movie, including its connections to LGBTQ themes. The conversation is filled with humor and insightful commentary, making it a delightful listen for fans of the film and newcomers alike. In this conversation, Sarah and Drew delve into the classic film 'White Christmas,' exploring its memorable scenes, musical numbers, and the cultural implications of its content. They discuss the behind-the-scenes aspects, iconic dance sequences, and the controversial minstrel number, while also addressing the romantic dynamics between the characters. The conversation highlights the film's legacy and its place in holiday cinema, filled with humor and critical insights.

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How many episodes does These Are The Gays Of Our Lives have?

These Are The Gays Of Our Lives currently has 19 episodes available.

What topics does These Are The Gays Of Our Lives cover?

The podcast is about News, Culture, Society, History, Entertainment News, Entertainment Industry, Comedy, Podcasts and Politics.

What is the most popular episode on These Are The Gays Of Our Lives?

The episode title '15: Anne Lister And Sally Ride' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on These Are The Gays Of Our Lives?

The average episode length on These Are The Gays Of Our Lives is 79 minutes.

How often are episodes of These Are The Gays Of Our Lives released?

Episodes of These Are The Gays Of Our Lives are typically released every 14 days.

When was the first episode of These Are The Gays Of Our Lives?

The first episode of These Are The Gays Of Our Lives was released on Aug 29, 2024.

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