The WinShape Marriage Podcast - Our Favorite Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

Our Favorite Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

01/29/25 • 22 min

Happy Valentine’s Day—almost—from WinShape Marriage! We know Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, so Marlee Arnold and Rob Philo pulled together a list of 20 Valentine’s Day gift ideas—10 for the guys and 10 for the gals. Even if you think Valentine’s Day is overrated, don’t miss the opportunity to show your spouse a little extra love by getting something meaningful for them. We have a variety of ideas ranging from experiential to material and budget-friendly to more expensive. You’ll have no reason not to get your husband or wife a Valentine’s Day gift after listening to this episode!

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Time Stamps:

(1:28) #1 – Comfortable socks

(2:45) #2 – Cozy gift basket featuring socks, bath bombs, candle, eye mask, etc.

(4:10) #3 – Heated coffee mug

(4:34) #4 – Morning to yourself and breakfast in bed

(5:17) #5 – Gift certificate for a lesson such as a golf lesson

(5:50) #6 – Gift certificate for a spa day

(6:45) #7 – Devotional

(7:13) #8 – Planned date night

(9:13) #9 – Pickleball paddles

(9:34) #10 – Bible

(10:25) #11 – Tickets for a sporting event

(11:09) #12 – Getting the car detailed

(12:24) #13 – Wallet

(13:06) #14 – Personalized blanket

(14:34) #15 – Tool set

(16:12) #16 – Watercolor painting of first home

(17:30) #17 – Massage gun

(18:35) #18 – Perfume

(19:27) #19 – Adventurous experience

(20:02) #20 – Digital photo album

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Links:

WinShape Marriage Website https://marriage.winshape.org/

WinShape Marriage Instagram https://www.instagram.com/winshapemarriage/

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Relevant Resources:

“30 Valentine’s Day Gifts for Him” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/30-valentines-day-gifts-for-him/

“30 Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/30-valentines-day-gifts-for-her/

“15 Valentine’s Day Date Ideas for Couples” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/valentines-day-date-ideas/

“DIY Valentine’s Day Baskets for Your Spouse or Kids” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/diy-valentines-day-baskets-for-your-spouse-or-kids/

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Time Stamps:

(1:28) #1 – Comfortable socks

(2:45) #2 – Cozy gift basket featuring socks, bath bombs, candle, eye mask, etc.

(4:10) #3 – Heated coffee mug

(4:34) #4 – Morning to yourself and breakfast in bed

(5:17) #5 – Gift certificate for a lesson such as a golf lesson

(5:50) #6 – Gift certificate for a spa day

(6:45) #7 – Devotional

(7:13) #8 – Planned date night

(9:13) #9 – Pickleball paddles

(9:34) #10 – Bible

(10:25) #11 – Tickets for a sporting event

(11:09) #12 – Getting the car detailed

(12:24) #13 – Wallet

(13:06) #14 – Personalized blanket

(14:34) #15 – Tool set

(16:12) #16 – Watercolor painting of first home

(17:30) #17 – Massage gun

(18:35) #18 – Perfume

(19:27) #19 – Adventurous experience

(20:02) #20 – Digital photo album

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Links:

WinShape Marriage Website https://marriage.winshape.org/

WinShape Marriage Instagram https://www.instagram.com/winshapemarriage/

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Relevant Resources:

“30 Valentine’s Day Gifts for Him” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/30-valentines-day-gifts-for-him/

“30 Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/30-valentines-day-gifts-for-her/

“15 Valentine’s Day Date Ideas for Couples” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/valentines-day-date-ideas/

“DIY Valentine’s Day Baskets for Your Spouse or Kids” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/diy-valentines-day-baskets-for-your-spouse-or-kids/

Previous Episode

What Are the 6 Types of Intimacy?

Intimacy is so much more than just sex. We talked about this earlier in season two with Dr. Juli Slattery, and today’s episode builds on this conversation. Genee Francis, assistant director of content and programming at WinShape Marriage is back on The WinShape Marriage Podcast to break down the six different types of intimacy with Rob Philo. They are spiritual, emotional, intellectual, creative, experiential, and physical. Learn what each one means and practical ways you and your spouse can begin growing and continue growing in your intimacy with one another.

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Time Stamps:

(1:32) Definition of intimacy

(4:00) Spiritual intimacy

(6:23) Emotional intimacy

(8:25) Intellectual intimacy

(12:59) Creative intimacy

(15:29) Experiential intimacy

(18:40) Physical intimacy

(22:02) How the six types of intimacy work together

(25:29) How to balance the different types of intimacy

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Links:

WinShape Marriage Website https://marriage.winshape.org/

WinShape Marriage Instagram https://www.instagram.com/winshapemarriage/

The Journey https://marriage.winshape.org/journey/

260 Free Printable Conversation Starters for Couples https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/conversation-starters-for-date-night/

Spark deeper conversation with your spouse related to the episode with our free discussion questions. https://marriage.winshape.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/4/2025/01/WSMPodcastDiscussionQuestions-S2Ep16.pdf

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Relevant Resources:

“Six Different Types of Intimacy: Worksheet” https://marriage.winshape.org/resource/six-different-types-of-intimacy-worksheet/

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Relevant Episodes:

How To Love Your Spouse Well | Dr. Gary Chapman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gI2Bnl_lBzc&t=131s

Making Your Marriage Fun Again! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjZQkSDz3UA&t=96s

Intimacy Is More Than Just Sex | Dr. Juli Slattery https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-Ky8vS5aWo&t=1544s

Growing Your Relationship With God and Your Spouse in 2025 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcfI9tHeTh8&t=1396s

Next Episode

What Does Research Say About Pornography? | Nick Stumbo

Did you know 61% of the U.S. population (men and women) say they view pornography and 54% of practicing Christians (men and women) say they view pornography—only a 7% difference—according to the latest research. Additionally, only 11% of practicing Christians say they feel comfortable talking to their pastor about this struggle. Pornography is pervasive among our culture, even those with a Christian worldview. On today’s episode of The WinShape Marriage Podcast, Rob Philo talks with Nick Stumbo, executive director of Pure Desire, an organization dedicated to providing resources for those struggling with sexual brokenness, addiction, and betrayal. Nick shares his personal testimony with sexual brokenness and redemption. He also breaks down the latest research Pure Desire conducted with Barna Group regarding pornography use. The data is surprising. Tune into this fascinating conversation!

Note: This conversation is focused on building a healthy, thriving marriage. If you are experiencing abuse in your marriage, or someone you know is, contact the National Hotline for Domestic Abuse. If someone is monitoring your device, call the hotline 24/7 at 1−800−799−7233. Learn more about what defines an abusive relationship.

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Time Stamps:

(1:58) What first inspired Nick to step into the sexual brokenness and redemption space

(11:50) Understanding the inspiration behind the research study Pure Desire conducted with Barna Group

(19:41) Why people may be afraid to share their struggle with pornography with their community

(22:58) The impact of pornography on mental health and well-being

(25:40) How pornography use affects marriage

(31:17) Taking the first step towards recovery

(37:08) What advice Nick would give to someone as a first starting point who is struggling with a pornography addiction

(46:06) Resources for those interested

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